Well guys I had a good run.

[Outlawstarl337]

but hijacc if you leave then i'll be the only american bratty teenager left




come on, you can't just ditch out on us, why is everyone leaving?

it was cool how you left with 777posts

i'll miss you

im an american teen too.

Well farwell and good luck

 

[Hijacc]

I need to stay....


But Robin I was on when I could I was a good mod

isn't being a mod about doing what you can?
I was here when I was needed.

I tried I really really did and if that isn't enough.....
I don't know what to say.

 

[Chris 2]

Trust me, but I still associate Mod and Admin as authority figure who I should fear. Even though Bluey is a great super mod, there are just so many mods on so many different site that are stuck up and treat other members as second rated citizen, that I am glad your no longer a mod. This by no mean makes Robin or Cleo a bad mods by any means let me just make that clear.

I hope you stay Hijacc, I just saw your picture and you seem like a cool guy.

 

[Robin]

I need to stay....


But Robin I was on when I could I was a good mod

isn't being a mod about doing what you can?
I was here when I was needed.

I tried I really really did and if that isn't enough.....
I don't know what to say.

Well, since You're asking, there are four things for why i dismantled You:

- You've gone through a hard time recently and this has affected Your mood so much that You've become alot less than Your former self, in many ways, and this has made You unreliable as a moderator since a staff member of a community like this are supposed to be extra supportive and active, not something less than any of the other members. To put it simple; a moderator at a community dedicated to the lonely and depressed doesn't do much good being lonely and depressed him-/herself. Bluey is a rare exception (aiming at his down-curves) who has done alot more good here than anyone else even during his troubled times.

- This has also made me worried about You, like many others have, and since You obviously weren't quite fit for every part of the moderator job, i don't think it's fair to You either to be stuck with those obligations. You've clearly got more important things to do. A moderator post isn't supposed to be used for a higher status, so what are You actually complaining about? We all know how a great moderator You've been, but You haven't lately.

- You've practically emigrated to another community where i've heard You are a staff member at now instead. Your absence is a enough of a reason.

- It took You no less than ten days to reply to my PM to You where i told You about much of the above and that it was about to affect Your staff membership. It put the final nail in the coffin; You didn't even care enough to reply to it.

Seriously Hijacc, and everyone else for that matter, i personally appointed You because i thought You were an excellent example of a moderator, and You were, but can You say, with complete honesty, that You have been fit for helping people of whom some have been close to suicide, being a 16 year old guy too busy elsewhere and in a depressed state?

There are a few other things that i've heard about You which i can't be certain is true and which i don't wish to express openly like this. But do note this though; it wasn't me who brought this up. It was an amount of several other people who informed me of Your state, and if they wouldn't have, i wouldn't have known anything of what You were doing, or how. I'm glad that they did though, because it was when they informed me of all this that i started to notice it myself.

Moderating a community like this is supposed to be hard and time-consuming work, because this is a community with members who require special attention and care. The one's who are moderating it should therefore be willing and able to do so. You've shown the opposite for too long.

 

[Hijacc]

I haven't changed a bit and the reason I didn't respond to your pm is because I was on vacation with my parents in Missouri.


I am perfectly okay were you get that ive been depressed is just silly Ive been one of the most goofiest people around and I have been doing my moderator duties I havent been posting no but i do what I can rob its like that doesnt matter.

I talk to people about problems all the time and I have been helping them.



Im really disappointed in you guys jumping to conclusions.

 

[Bluey]

I really don't think where jumping to conclusions here. And if you was going away you should have told us. We have PM'd and am very sorry you don't see our point of view but talking about it on here is out of order.

This is what PM is for.

And since your no longer leaving (which I am glad about cos I do think you have a lot to offer this place) I don't see the point of this thread so it kinder makes it redundant. So am locking it.

Keep this discussion to PM. Or to feedback if you must.

 

[Robin]

Hijacc, what You've been doing for people here lately is something You can do as a regular member, which regulars members ARE doing for each other here every day. Your technical assistance isn't needed since someone else would take care of those things long before You got here and i think You're making a too big deal of this which makes it seem like the moderator post is what's most important to You, rather than helping people.

You haven't changed a bit since that first day when i made You a mod? Well why do You treat Your friends and fellow staff members here like they aren't important to You anymore then? You have responsibilities as a moderator which You haven't been following lately. You might have helped people when You've actually been here, but You've made people worried and angry as well, in the chat. And You know what? I don't think it's right for a staff member of a community like this to treat others worse than You usually do even when Your own life is a mess, EVER. Moderators are supposed to ALWAYS be genuinely hard-working and caring, not just come around when You feel like it. I WORK here, mostly EIGHT HOURS per day, because i believe that these people deserve the effort and because someone needs to do what i do at least that many hours per day. That might be hard to believe since i so rarely post anything anymore, which is because my life's been a real mess lately too and because my work here has turned more and more to the technical bit the last months, which is what i was supposed to do here from the beginning actually. I write down and monitor every single thread to make sure that the people asking for help get the replies they deserve, and if they don't, that's when i post myself. And You know what? I'm not the slightest special for any of this, because this is what i'm SUPPOSED to do as a technical administrator, at a community where the members matter this much! That's also why i don't feel gratitude is necessary and why i've been without for so many years (i haven't forgotten about those who did thank me, i meant before Project Robin). As long as i see people benefit and/or enjoy what i provide them, that's the only form of currency i need; happiness.

Hijacc, please buddy, don't take this so darn hard, will You? We're not angry with You personally and i'm certain everyone who once liked/loved You here still do even during the troubled period You've recently gone through. You DID change ALOT from who You were before that, because You were SUCH a good guy! I think You still are, but somewhere else perhaps? You've obviously simply got too much else to think about right now and that's perfectly understandable since You're an active 16 year old guy. You shouldn't have to be stuck with the hard obligations of working here if You don't feel like it's a piece of cake to manage it. Helping should be fun and important, not a hefty chore and something that comes in second-hand.

I expect You to be ready for the moderator obligations here again one day, because i trust in You and Your abilities and decency. You're a little too young for anyone to expect much of You in Your current state. That's why it was so amazing to see such a young guy such a great job, once upon a time! Growing up like You're doing now, in a very important part of the puberty (the end of it) is much too important to not focus on Yourself more. You're a great great person Hijacc, but You're apparently much much more affected by Your recent down-time than You Yourself can see right now. I know You're trying, but it should't be so hard for You.

It's obvious that we should be helping You instead, but as far as i've been able to follow along the discussins about our dear Hijacc, You haven't really cared much to express Yourself lately of Your own matters, making it hard for us to know what we can do for You. I can't make You a moderator again yet, but You'll always be that very special young guy to me man.