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Peaches said:
Last time I was in that situation I found a very effective solution, but that probably won't work for you because you still love her, but if it was hate+love then it would work: whenever I thought of that person (who didn't deserve really any human sympathy) I imagined a) a train running over him b) him walking near a building and the building falling on him c) him going on the tube and the tube exploding d) him walking in the street and a huge jet falling on him

you get the drift

after a few times I just stopped thinking about him

I was contemplating patenting this, it is so effective ;)

ahahaha I like the idea. I really wish I could hate her.

But even if she totally ripped out my heart and ate it while I watched, I don't think I could hate her. She has had a really tough life and I would hate for it to get any tougher. I do really want whatever is best for her and her daughter, even if it doesn't include me.

I am mostly being selfish when I complain. I realize that.
 
Starting the day. I gotta get up and refill my mug with caffeine.

VeganAtheist said:
I am mostly being selfish when I complain. I realize that.

You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.
 
TheRealCallie said:
VeganAtheist said:
I am mostly being selfish when I complain. I realize that.

You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.

Yeah, I totally agree with Callie on this. It's all right.
 
ladyforsaken said:
TheRealCallie said:
You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.

Yeah, I totally agree with Callie on this. It's all right.

I don't know. It feels selfish. Like I am putting my happiness over the happiness of others.
I probably am getting carried away.
I don't know.
 
ladyforsaken said:
TheRealCallie said:
You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.

Yeah, I totally agree with Callie on this. It's all right.

I don't know. It feels selfish. Like I am putting my happiness over the happiness of others.
I probably am getting carried away.
I don't know.
 
Having a coffee and listening to Two Door Cinema's This Is Ihe Life. Noooot quite, but getting there.
 
VeganAtheist said:
I don't know. It feels selfish. Like I am putting my happiness over the happiness of others.
I probably am getting carried away.
I don't know.

You deserve some too, you know.
 
Moving slow today. I had a bad dream. It has been so long since I had one. Several years and I am shaken. I don't have someone to talk to now. Later today I will. Tomorrow for sure I will have loved ones around. So for now I am just hanging in there,
 

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