What are you doing right now?

[WildernessWildChild]

Browsing 'sexy burkas' on Google

 

[VeganAtheist]

Last time I was in that situation I found a very effective solution, but that probably won't work for you because you still love her, but if it was hate+love then it would work: whenever I thought of that person (who didn't deserve really any human sympathy) I imagined a) a train running over him b) him walking near a building and the building falling on him c) him going on the tube and the tube exploding d) him walking in the street and a huge jet falling on him

you get the drift

after a few times I just stopped thinking about him

I was contemplating patenting this, it is so effective

ahahaha I like the idea. I really wish I could hate her.

But even if she totally ripped out my heart and ate it while I watched, I don't think I could hate her. She has had a really tough life and I would hate for it to get any tougher. I do really want whatever is best for her and her daughter, even if it doesn't include me.

I am mostly being selfish when I complain. I realize that.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Starting the day. I gotta get up and refill my mug with caffeine.

I am mostly being selfish when I complain. I realize that.

You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.

 

[ladyforsaken]

I am mostly being selfish when I complain. I realize that.

You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.

Yeah, I totally agree with Callie on this. It's all right.

 

[VeganAtheist]

You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.

Yeah, I totally agree with Callie on this. It's all right.

I don't know. It feels selfish. Like I am putting my happiness over the happiness of others.
I probably am getting carried away.
I don't know.

 

[VeganAtheist]

You aren't being selfish. You're grieving something you lost, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you don't get too carried away with it or let yourself feel bad about it for too long. It is still completely acceptable to think about, complain or whatever right now.

Yeah, I totally agree with Callie on this. It's all right.

I don't know. It feels selfish. Like I am putting my happiness over the happiness of others.
I probably am getting carried away.
I don't know.

 

[Boreal]

Having a coffee and listening to Two Door Cinema's This Is Ihe Life. Noooot quite, but getting there.

 

[Peaches]

dead

 

[WishingWell]

I'm trying to organize this mess I call my bedroom.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Determining what to make for my kids for dinner.

 

[WildernessWildChild]

Must resist....must resist....

 

[TheRealCallie]

Must resist....must resist....

:club:

 

[Wanderer145]

Trying to apply for a new job, listening to the Shenmue soundtrack thinking about what to do with my life...

 

[kamya]

Eating a whole watermelon.

 

[Peaches]

reading about emotional unavailability

 

[ladyforsaken]

I don't know. It feels selfish. Like I am putting my happiness over the happiness of others.
I probably am getting carried away.
I don't know.

You deserve some too, you know.

 

[VeganAtheist]

You deserve some too, you know.

I'm not so sure most days.

 

[jaguarundi]

You deserve some too, you know.

I'm not so sure most days.

You can have a hug or a slap upside the head, whichever will convince you the best that you do......

 

[Rosewood]

Moving slow today. I had a bad dream. It has been so long since I had one. Several years and I am shaken. I don't have someone to talk to now. Later today I will. Tomorrow for sure I will have loved ones around. So for now I am just hanging in there,

 

[WishingWell]

Trying to find some MOTIVATION--has anyone any to spare?