ForEverythingAReason said:
Shetland said:
Never ever, ever, get involved in a relationship with someone who is 'taken', no matter how much kinship you feel. I know it sounds obvious... Very nearly destroyed me and still might.
I know this soooo well.
Emotionally dominant rather than physical? I was left in a mess, I can't really elaborate too much, I have been caught 'gossiping' about it before, and it solved nothing. What I will say is it was generated on a web forum where a common interest appeared to be shared.
The continued agony is the people concerned are involved in the same hobbies I have, they have the upper hand since they are more popular with other members, so the loneliness once again become reinforced.
But in the end I think all of us involved was just trying to deal with our own dose of lifes honeysuckle. I still view the matter as a great friendship opportunity lost.
However the article I have posted in 'loneliness' has helped me figure out my own role in the situation.