hmm.. I've never consciously called anything a "date".. but thinking about it, I may have had some dates, but those generally weren't the best experiences I've ever had. Sure, things like going swimming, or seeing a movie can be fun and all, but, as some others have already said - staying home and having sex generally beats that. If I'd include that, I think my best experience would be one certain christmas, with just a family dinner, after which sex ensued. Simple concept.
I don't even know what the deal is with this entire "dating thing" to begin with. Sure, it's nice to get out every now and then, but I just prefer staying at home for multiple reasons:
. I can watch movies here just as well, with the added benefit that I choose the audience. No annoyance by other people, and I actually prefer the quality of my tv over most theater screens anyway. Add to that the food isn't nearly as ridiculously expensive, and being able to pause the movie also has its benefits.
. I never really did understand the "let's go for a drink somewhere". Once again, it's ridiculously expensive, and if it's just two people conversing anyway, there's no real added benefit for me in being anywhere else than at home. (Unless it's a really romantic venue, that I could get into)
. List could go on and on, so unless you want to engage in some kind of activity that really can't be done at home (dancing, ice skating, or seeing a theater play and such things) I don't really see the benefits of all these "dates".