WHERE DO YOU MEET PEOPLE?

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Everywhere. Meetup groups. Or just walking into a shared interest, and talking to people.

My problem is, I go to a lot of concerts, okay. I talk to people there, and we have conversations. And then I forget to exchange numbers and names, and ask to meet up again.

*facepalm*

But yeah, if you go out and do anything, and there is someone else there doing it, too, then you'll meet someone.

 

[Lost Soul]

I've been rejected all my life.

Check out this poor bloke. He can never get anyone. Poor *******. He has is honest and lists his faults, just to see how man people are compatible with him...
http://foreverwithautism.blogspot.ca/2012/07/would-you-date-or-have-relationship.html

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^Is that your blog?

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

Wants to know where to meet people.




Asks in a forum whose members lack social lives.

 

[TropicalStarfish]

Go to anonymous meetings or support groups for people who have cancer or diseases or are dying and pretend to be like them?

Although, that didn't work out to well for Tyler Durden...

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

^ Never seen Fight Club, although many people tell me I need to.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

it's like people ask where the hell to go fishing.
You tell them...errrr "water".lol
But you get more especfic...and say the river in the morning before sunrise.

But they're like...
"the river????..There's masquitos and it'll be all muddie"
" i dont wanna get up early in the morning"
" i rather go buy fish at the market, but aint got no money" lmao

and you're like FFS...go ******* fishing or strave.

Then you see them fishing the next day at noon. Lmao

 

[The Good Citizen]

Wants to know where to meet people.

Asks in a forum whose members lack social lives.

Ha true, but surely thats also a good opportunity to meet people really.

I often wonder if people try arranging to meet up, or how often that really happens on here, I know its sometimes impossible but it can definitely be worth the effort if you are able.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I don't think you have to lack a social life to be lonely.

 

[TropicalStarfish]

"Where ever particular people congregate."

-According to the advice on a pack of unfiltered Pall Mall cigarettes.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

I don't think you have to lack a social life to be lonely.

I didn't say you did, however, a very large number of members on this site have no social life, some even with social anxiety, and/or have little experience going out to meet people, and those are the people who my comment applies to.

"Where ever particular people congregate."

-According to the advice on a pack of unfiltered Pall Mall cigarettes.

Wisdom of the gods.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I didn't say you did, however, a very large number of members on this site have no social life, some even with social anxiety, and/or have little experience going out to meet people, and those are the people who my comment applies to.

I have social anxiety, and not much of a social life, but I still meet people.

I went to a concert alone the other night, and ended up running into a few old friends. So, even though I went alone, I ended up with a social opportunity.

That's what I'm trying to bang into this guy's head. You have to put yourself out there, into social situations, in order to have social opportunities. You can't just sit at home and say that you're lonely, because chances are that if you go out, you'll meet someone who wants to be your friend (and if not, you haven't lost anything.)

 

[Lost Soul]

I have social anxiety and very little experince of meeting people. But, I often run arrends for my Dad and meet with/talk with people briefly, and I think I do well. No complaits. My Dad said that some of the people ask about me sometimes. I rarely meet someone around my own age, especially attractive girls, so that is good.

 

[Rigel]

Online chat rooms, forums like this one, work places, uni. other times things just happen .i met an 18 yr old girl irl while on a long bus ride last month, which doesn't happen too often

 

[Drew88]

Just read the 1st page, but if you can go anywhere to "meet" people, not everywhere do people go to get met.
So here do other people go with the intend of meeting people? Bars?, Idk, I rather meet someone where the interaction is less affected by outside forces.

 

[Callie]

Just read the 1st page, but if you can go anywhere to "meet" people, not everywhere do people go to get met.
So here do other people go with the intend of meeting people? Bars?, Idk, I rather meet someone where the interaction is less affected by outside forces.

Of course people don't just go places to meet places, that doesn't mean you can't meet people in those places. You just have to get the courage to start a conversation. Take the mall for instance...(I hate malls and rarely go to them, but I have a friend's story) She was shopping one time and a woman started a conversation with her while they were standing in line. They were talking for a while (it was around Christmas time, so long lines) and realized they had a lot in common, so they ended up going to get lunch together and have been friends ever since.

So while it's not exactly CONVENTIONAL to go to places such as that and meet people, it is possible. You just have to talk to people.

 

[LoneKiller]

These sites are just options to consider. They aren't the 10 Commandments. Just material to consider.



PLACES TO MEET WOMEN

http://www.lovesystems.com/dating-advice/attraction/the-best-places-to-meet-women

http://www.pickuphotgirls.net/2012/01/where-is-best-place-to-meet-single.html

http://www.financialsamurai.com/2011/11/11/the-best-places-to-meet-the-right-women/

http://www.kurtseduction.com/meeting-women/best-places-to-meet-women/

http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up-women/2930-best-places-meet-women.html

http://www.asylum.com/2010/04/13/best-place-meet-women-bars-cooking-classes-online-dating-weddings/

http://guyism.com/lifestyle/where-to-meet-women.html

http://www.fhm.com/upgrade/sex-advice/the-5-best-places-to-pick-up-women-80353

http://artofmanliness.com/2011/03/27/where-to-meet-women/

http://ca.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-new-places-to-meet-women.html

http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/best-places-meet-women


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PLACES TO MEET MEN

http://www.lhj.com/relationships/divorce/meeting-a-man/10-great-places-to-meet-a-man/

http://www.essence.com/2011/03/17/10-best-places-to-meet-a-man/

http://allwomenstalk.com/10-best-places-to-meet-eligible-men/

http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/805904/top-places-to-meet-men

http://www.videojug.com/interview/meeting-men-2

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/dating-advice/best-places-to-meet-men

http://www.menshealth.com/health/women-heres-best-place-find-man

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/the-single-best-place-to-meet-quality-guys/

http://www.charlottemagazine.com/Charlotte-Magazine/February-2008/Best-Places-to-Meet-People/

http://www.essortment.com/25-places-meet-new-people-37243.html

http://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/places-to-meet-single-guys/

http://madamenoire.com/32118/best-worst-places-to-meet-a-good-man/

 

[Lost Soul]

So many times I was in line or something, didn't know what to say, so I kept my mouth shut. I can't say anything more than Hi, and I'm terrible at keeping a conversation going. How what things do you say, ro not say, when wanting to keep a conversation going, and want to sayh more then Hi? To me, I feel that there has got to be a real to talk to someone, like as if you need to, to have a conversation with someone, instead of talking to somone out of the blue. Becuase of my social anxiety. I feel that I give them the wrong impression or something, if I talk to them for no reason. It feels really awkward just to say hi, without an actual resson, to need to speak to them, like get information, ask them about a product in a store. I don't want to make up something and lie just to have a converdation becuase it dosen't feel right.

I was in an elevator, while doing some errands for my Dad. There was an extremely attractive girl there, and it really bothered me. I wanted to say something, but didn't know what to say.

 

[Gutted]

The EASIEST way to meet new people who're not fake by far, is at Volunteering. Unless people have been forced to do it, like Community Service, then you'll easily meet fun, genuine and sexy people there I met a few~ Haven't stayed in touch with them since but it was a nice experience none the less~

 

[Badjedidude]

PRISON.