Where to go? =/

[Poueff]

True,but thanks for the advice to go on with a group.

On the matter of teenage sex,a friend of mine (girl) started to put out when she was 12. I won't say anymore on this discussion cause I have my own opinion on her,and that's more than enough for... I'll get to that in another thread.

Btw,I wasn't considering having sex with her,but,like That One Dude said,I still don't know where to go >.>

 

[ThatOneDude]

Don't put too much thought into what I say, cause, like I said, I'm a social failure, but I think you should go for the bowling thing. Most people suck at it(so you'll have something in common), I've never met anyone who had a bad time bowling, and you'll have time to talk. And sloppy shouldn't matter if you're having fun. But I know nothing about these things, just throwing my opinion out there.

 

[blackwave]

Plus, bowling alleys often have places to eat in the same complex. So do some bowling and get a bite to eat. Then get her drunk on vodka and bang her into next week. Just a little joke to wind up a few people.

 

[ThatOneDude]

Plus, bowling alleys often have places to eat in the same complex. So do some bowling and get a bite to eat. Then get her drunk on vodka and bang her into next week. Just a little joke to wind up a few people.

Dude...I'm all for black humor, being inappropriate, and riling people up....but that's some pretty despicable **** to joke about.....:club:

 

[LGH1288]

I have a feeling that if LGH had her / his own newspaper we would get headlines like: "14 year old predatory paedophile strikes again - disgusting pervert has sex with 15 year old girl."

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AGE OF CONSENT
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STATUTORY ****
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ROTFLMAO We all know that Poueff is not a pedophile or a pervert. What we also know is that there have been many teenagers out there that have "screwed" their lives up by pushing the envelope before emotional and legal maturity. I really don't care if Poueff follows my advice or not; I'm simply discussing my opinion about the teenagers who have decided to engage in sexual relations with other teenagers; there are serious issues and ramifications to be considered.

 

[Sci-Fi]

I have a feeling that if LGH had her / his own newspaper we would get headlines like: "14 year old predatory paedophile strikes again - disgusting pervert has sex with 15 year old girl."

As messed up as that is, I LOL'd. I'm going to hell.

Poueff, if you don't like bowling, if your area has a pool hall that allows minors that could be a good place to go too. Just try to keep your ball in your lane or stick to yourself. LOL Razing you young guys is just too much fun.

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I really don't care if Poueff follows my advice or not; I'm simply discussing my opinion about the teenagers who have decided to engage in sexual relations with other teenagers; there are serious issues and ramifications to be considered.

Yeah, like teen pregnancy. The part time student I have that works with me has been having sex with his girlfriend (he's 15) and thinks he's mature and responsible enough. When I mention about running the risk of getting her pregnant he says he's being careful. :-/

 

[ThatOneDude]

I thought all bowling alleys had pool tables?

 

[Sci-Fi]

Not around here, they used to have arcade games. I dunno, some might that would be even better. A little bowling, a little pool, a little something to eat, a fun time with friends, all in one place. I miss my teen years now

 

[blackwave]

Sorry if my black humour offended. Obviously I don't want anyone to be sexually exploited.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Started to put out when she was 12? Damn, what's wrong with kids now days... That's when babies start having babies...

 

[Poueff]

Started to put out when she was 12? Damn, what's wrong with kids now days... That's when babies start having babies...

I know,she's kind of **** (being nice here) but here is where everything crashes in my mind. Her environment (school/friend wise) just doesn't add up. It's weird tbh,but seriously,I'd hate to drive this thread down that lane... to resume it,see Brian from Family Guy making fun of that chick at the prom,but the girl has a brain this time... and it works in strange ways

 

[ThatOneDude]

Sorry if my black humour offended. Obviously I don't want anyone to be sexually exploited.

Remember: sexual assault is only funny if it happens in prison

 

[Poueff]

When I asked if she had any stuff this weekend (not in a denunciative way,just a relaxed as hell way) she said she had to go with her family to Montejo (a portuguese region)

So I guess it was all useless wasn-t it?

bah... lol

 

[blackwave]

Patience, young Jedi. Maybe you should try being direct. Tell her you like her and would like to ask her out for a date.

 

[Poueff]

Yep,our relationship as a whole (generally as close friends and once close to more) has been pretty indirect... our story is too big to be posted like that,so I won't,but I'll give you basic pointers to what I mean...

-We met in 5th Grade when I started maning up,changed my style with a 180 and we became close friends in a good kiddy-like way
-I fell for her in April in the next year (still in 5th grade)
-A friend of mine told her I liked her
-We got in a weird limbo and I went kind-of mental,turned into an emo ***** and "dated" (if you can call it that) two close friends of her.
-She trashed me during the summer
-I was still caught up when accordingly to her friends she got a crush on me because something I did,but she was so indirect I only found out two months later when she was despising me again.
-We became close friends again and I dated other of her friends.
-On Halloween she invited me (and most of her friends (boys and girls,ofcourse) group to her house) and she spent with a weird as hell behavior (it was a "slumber party" as she portraied it)
-She started dating an ***** in our class...and stoped 2 weeks later.
-In February three things happened - Puberty Hit Me/I stoped being an emo ***** (full bunch of other storys in that one)/Stopped Liking Her "that way"
-She repeated the Halloween stuff at her birthday in April and we spent all night holding hands,but nothing transpired after that (in general I mean,not at the party itself)
-And we had that love-hate relationship with weird as hell details since then,but never dated in any way shape or form.

And this is only a generalization... well,I guess it-d be weird to be direct at this point tbh
My only fear is that she has some stigma towards me after all we've been through,generally against each other because we were always "competing" (either in grades,number of relationships,sports,music (she plays piano and I play guitar... we once even were to do a battle of the bands xD)) so I guess it turns out to be kind of weird. But its different now that I've changed classes (I now am in 9th E and she is in 9th A) we've pulled the "competition" **** apart and became closer and closer... well,you know the rest,I thinks

 

[blackwave]

Jeez man, I say just go for it. If you let her slip away without ever trying you'll regret it your whole life.

 

[Ladysphinx]

I also think go for it. I think that she likes you too. And yes you seem smart enough to not get in a sexual relationship yet. Just enjoy being a Teenager for now.