Who Or What Do You Blame For Your Suffering?

[LoneKiller]

I did the search and got no hits, so here it goes.

What or who do you blame for your suffering? Do you blame society for being cruel and insensitive? Do you feel that doctors didn't take you seriously? Are you being bullied? Have your parents or family not been there for you?

Perhaps you've realized what the solution to your problems is, but failed to act on it at that very time and now it has gotten worse at this point in your life.

Why do you think that you are suffering? I'm certain that none of us
asked for these problems in life.

 

[Lost Soul]

My curse.

 

[LoneKiller]

My curse.

Hi Lost Soul. Curse?

 

[Barbaloot]

I wouldn't say that I am "suffering", but I fully accept that all of my issues and my current situation are entirely my fault, my choosing and that I am the only one who can change anything. So why don't I? I am simply extremely lazy and used to my old habits.

 

[roguewave]

A lot of it is my personality and a lot of it is due to a really ****** up childhood; neglect, being institutionalized in an abusive facility that eventually got shut down and sustained emotional abuse from a parent. My self esteem had been stripped from me by the time I was in preschool. By kindergarten I was suicidal and had issues with SI.

I could go to therapy and work through some things but I'm at the point that I don't really give a ****. Maybe someone will admire my talents enough to want to be with me someday and then I would care about bettering myself, for them.

Sorry for the negative reply. In a bad place right now.

 

[LoneKiller]

A lot of it is my personality and a lot of it is due to a really ****** up childhood; neglect, being institutionalized in an abusive facility that eventually got shut down and sustained emotional abuse from a parent. My self esteem had been stripped from me by the time I was in preschool. By kindergarten I was suicidal and had issues with SI.

I could go to therapy and work through some things but I'm at the point that I don't really give a ****. Maybe someone will admire my talents enough to want to be with me someday and then I would care about bettering myself, for them.

Sorry for the negative reply. In a bad place right now.

No apologies necessary. I appreciate your honest reply. I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. If you ever need to talk, please contact me. I'm unemployed, so I have the time.

 

[roguewave]

A lot of it is my personality and a lot of it is due to a really ****** up childhood; neglect, being institutionalized in an abusive facility that eventually got shut down and sustained emotional abuse from a parent. My self esteem had been stripped from me by the time I was in preschool. By kindergarten I was suicidal and had issues with SI.

I could go to therapy and work through some things but I'm at the point that I don't really give a ****. Maybe someone will admire my talents enough to want to be with me someday and then I would care about bettering myself, for them.

Sorry for the negative reply. In a bad place right now.

No apologies necessary. I appreciate your honest reply. I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. If you ever need to talk, please contact me. I'm unemployed, so I have the time.

Thanks LoneKiller, you are always so kind to people here. I am currently unemployed too. I got a job in Springtime but recently lost it It wasn't a good job though, so could have been worse.

 

[LoneKiller]

A lot of it is my personality and a lot of it is due to a really ****** up childhood; neglect, being institutionalized in an abusive facility that eventually got shut down and sustained emotional abuse from a parent. My self esteem had been stripped from me by the time I was in preschool. By kindergarten I was suicidal and had issues with SI.

I could go to therapy and work through some things but I'm at the point that I don't really give a ****. Maybe someone will admire my talents enough to want to be with me someday and then I would care about bettering myself, for them.

Sorry for the negative reply. In a bad place right now.

No apologies necessary. I appreciate your honest reply. I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. If you ever need to talk, please contact me. I'm unemployed, so I have the time.

Thanks LoneKiller, you are always so kind to people here. I am currently unemployed too. I got a job in Springtime but recently lost it It wasn't a good job though, so could have been worse.

Anytime.
Don't let your current situation beat you. Keep fighting.

 

[roguewave]

A lot of it is my personality and a lot of it is due to a really ****** up childhood; neglect, being institutionalized in an abusive facility that eventually got shut down and sustained emotional abuse from a parent. My self esteem had been stripped from me by the time I was in preschool. By kindergarten I was suicidal and had issues with SI.

I could go to therapy and work through some things but I'm at the point that I don't really give a ****. Maybe someone will admire my talents enough to want to be with me someday and then I would care about bettering myself, for them.

Sorry for the negative reply. In a bad place right now.

No apologies necessary. I appreciate your honest reply. I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. If you ever need to talk, please contact me. I'm unemployed, so I have the time.

Thanks LoneKiller, you are always so kind to people here. I am currently unemployed too. I got a job in Springtime but recently lost it It wasn't a good job though, so could have been worse.

Anytime.
Don't let your current situation beat you. Keep fighting.

I'm focusing on getting up early and getting in 3 healthy meals a day. Also, keeping up with chores and getting some exercise. Just the basics for right now. Sometimes you have to pick up the pieces a bit.
Are you doing okay?

 

[Parabolani]

Parents
Society
The couple that ran the Happy Clown day care centre
Brain chemistry
The Curse
Myself

 

[LoneKiller]

A lot of it is my personality and a lot of it is due to a really ****** up childhood; neglect, being institutionalized in an abusive facility that eventually got shut down and sustained emotional abuse from a parent. My self esteem had been stripped from me by the time I was in preschool. By kindergarten I was suicidal and had issues with SI.

I could go to therapy and work through some things but I'm at the point that I don't really give a ****. Maybe someone will admire my talents enough to want to be with me someday and then I would care about bettering myself, for them.

Sorry for the negative reply. In a bad place right now.

No apologies necessary. I appreciate your honest reply. I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. If you ever need to talk, please contact me. I'm unemployed, so I have the time.

Thanks LoneKiller, you are always so kind to people here. I am currently unemployed too. I got a job in Springtime but recently lost it It wasn't a good job though, so could have been worse.

Anytime.
Don't let your current situation beat you. Keep fighting.

I'm focusing on getting up early and getting in 3 healthy meals a day. Also, keeping up with chores and getting some exercise. Just the basics for right now. Sometimes you have to pick up the pieces a bit.
Are you doing okay?

Not too bad. Thank you for asking.
Just trying to get out every once in a while for social reasons. I play chess at the city club on Sundays. Keeping my mind occupied is important. That way, I don't slip back into a depression cycle. Other than that, just chillin'.

 

[Ox Blood]

Myself.

 

[roguewave]

No apologies necessary. I appreciate your honest reply. I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. If you ever need to talk, please contact me. I'm unemployed, so I have the time.

Thanks LoneKiller, you are always so kind to people here. I am currently unemployed too. I got a job in Springtime but recently lost it It wasn't a good job though, so could have been worse.

Anytime.
Don't let your current situation beat you. Keep fighting.

I'm focusing on getting up early and getting in 3 healthy meals a day. Also, keeping up with chores and getting some exercise. Just the basics for right now. Sometimes you have to pick up the pieces a bit.
Are you doing okay?

Not too bad. Thank you for asking.
Just trying to get out every once in a while for social reasons. I play chess at the city club on Sundays. Keeping my mind occupied is important. That way, I don't slip back into a depression cycle. Other than that, just chillin'.

That's great that you play chess weekly. I should start doing mind activities to keep my brain from turning into mush. Just as long as it's not mind games! Lol.

 

[fox]

I do not think there is any sort of person or thing, i can blame for my sufferings in the world..
Not even myself, I did not cause it all. Of course I am the fault of many bad things, but I did not do it all..

I guess, the thing I decided, it is.. there is not much point to blame any person or thing for it, it will not help it, and only cause me more ills to do so.