Lost in the Oilfield
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I don't think I could choose just one or the other... I think most people are a mix of those two categories... people can have a mix of those things. Not to mention all those things listed above can be altered or can change drastically... plastic surgery, drug/alcohol/food abuse, exercise, or tragic accidents can alter looks one way or the other... the kind-hearted and bad attitudes being the most difficult changes can still be altered in the course of a life-time (good person turns bad or bad person turns good).
I'd have to go with the choice that isn't there, not applicable- NA.
Someone that I could spend a life-time with would need to someone I can appreciate, respect and encourage, and be someone that can in turn appreciate, respect and encourage me-- a good friend I could spend a life time-with.
That transcends looks, wealth, and often it will go even beyond attitude. Since some people like a person with a little chip on their shoulder... makes them more human. Unlike someone that has had a charmed life and so could always be positive because life has always been positive. Or someone that gets depressed a bit, because you don't feel so bad if you are down around them and unload a bit on them if you know eventually they will get down and need someone to rant to in return, and you can be there. Others prefer a person that doesn't have any sort of baggage, can just be super positive and always living in the moment, never showing their 'bad' feelings... that isn't me but that's an example. Just a thought.
Oh, and hygiene is important for everyone!
And don't think that drowning yourself in cologne or perfume smells good... burns my eyes and nose and makes my throat itch... too strong is worse than none at all! These things are made to be used sparingly and to be pleasant.
I'd have to go with the choice that isn't there, not applicable- NA.
Someone that I could spend a life-time with would need to someone I can appreciate, respect and encourage, and be someone that can in turn appreciate, respect and encourage me-- a good friend I could spend a life time-with.
That transcends looks, wealth, and often it will go even beyond attitude. Since some people like a person with a little chip on their shoulder... makes them more human. Unlike someone that has had a charmed life and so could always be positive because life has always been positive. Or someone that gets depressed a bit, because you don't feel so bad if you are down around them and unload a bit on them if you know eventually they will get down and need someone to rant to in return, and you can be there. Others prefer a person that doesn't have any sort of baggage, can just be super positive and always living in the moment, never showing their 'bad' feelings... that isn't me but that's an example. Just a thought.
Oh, and hygiene is important for everyone!
And don't think that drowning yourself in cologne or perfume smells good... burns my eyes and nose and makes my throat itch... too strong is worse than none at all! These things are made to be used sparingly and to be pleasant.
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