Why dont I attract confident and secure men?

[ForeverAlone92]

I can't attract girls that I find attractive, but attract girls I don't like.

 

[Gutted]

Be careful what you ask for.
You just may get it!
Macho, misogynistic, egotistical, self-centered, selfish, careless, insensitive.......................(stop me any time)

This is the problem I find with a lot of seemingly confident people. They appear to over-do it. This applies to both genders from my experience. What I find is that at the end of the day, the less fussy you can be when it comes to choosing a partner, the happier you will be in the short-run. The fussier you are, the happier you may be in the long-run. Unless being Single doesn't bother you.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

Trust me, I wish I could attract females that I was attracted too. So you have to ask the difficult question. What is that male/female doing to attract that amazing male/female? You just need to be able to ask that question and accept the likely crappy answer.

Also keep in mind that taken individual tend to be more attractive because they tend to be happier with themselves.