women wanting me as a friend only

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I'm nothing much like you, I've lived in the same house all my life, never driven, had the same job for 15 years !

This is your problem, dude. You need to get an exciting life. Women may say that they want predictability, but they never do...it's just something they say. They actually want a man who is exciting and adventurous.

Do you really think every woman on the planet and every man on the planet all want exactly the same sort of person as a partner? Or that every man in a relationship on this planet is exciting and adventurous?

Theres no need to take up extreme base jumping in the hope it will get you a girlfriend, just sign up for match.com!

No, but every woman probably wants a man who has a life outside of her.

The OP is putting women in his top priority, so they're in turn putting him in low priority. There is something to be said about neediness.

 

[putter65]

I'm nothing much like you, I've lived in the same house all my life, never driven, had the same job for 15 years !

This is your problem, dude. You need to get an exciting life. Women may say that they want predictability, but they never do...it's just something they say. They actually want a man who is exciting and adventurous.

Do you really think every woman on the planet and every man on the planet all want exactly the same sort of person as a partner? Or that every man in a relationship on this planet is exciting and adventurous?

Theres no need to take up extreme base jumping in the hope it will get you a girlfriend, just sign up for match.com!

No, but every woman probably wants a man who has a life outside of her.

The OP is putting women in his top priority, so they're in turn putting him in low priority. There is something to be said about neediness.

I like my life though. I am not an unhappy person. I like myself as well. I think I am funny and cool.

I wouldn't change much about my life.

A nice girlfriend would help of course. It would be the icing on the cake.

 

[Gutted]

Just enjoy what you have if you can. Some people have told me over the years that certain friends use me. As a result I could have chosen not hang out with them. Instead I could have just sat around on my own. But I didn't and I am glad that I didn't. I am still in touch with these friends to this day. I'll just get in touch with them if I want to and they'll do the same~

 

[Felix]

Just enjoy what you have if you can. Some people have told me over the years that certain friends use me. As a result I could have chosen not hang out with them. Instead I could have just sat around on my own. But I didn't and I am glad that I didn't. I am still in touch with these friends to this day. I'll just get in touch with them if I want to and they'll do the same~

Is definetly better to be by yourself than hanging out with manipulative people. I've had similar experiences...

 

[putter65]

Just enjoy what you have if you can. Some people have told me over the years that certain friends use me. As a result I could have chosen not hang out with them. Instead I could have just sat around on my own. But I didn't and I am glad that I didn't. I am still in touch with these friends to this day. I'll just get in touch with them if I want to and they'll do the same~

Is definetly better to be by yourself than hanging out with manipulative people. I've had similar experiences...

oh yes I used to do that when i was younger, not now