Would you date someone that your mother or daughter...father or son dated?

[Luna]

The thought crossed my mind...regarding an experience that I had several months ago.

My mom and aunties are in their 40s and if we walk down the street, it's not me that the young guys are looking at. In fact, one of them dated my aunt...and when she decided that she wasn't interested in him:

"He has no house, career etc."
"Not ready to settle down etc."
"Generation gap etc."

He turned around and started asking about me.
Well, what-the-**** to the max!
I would NOT date YOU and then date your father or son.

Am I alone in this thinking?
I do not want to date anyone that any of my family members have dated.
While I understand that one can be attracted to both younger and older people, I can't help but be turned off by someone that kissed/ dated/ sexed up my aunt or mother and now wants a lil' taste of me too.

I'm sorry, but I ain't your fantasy, ****o-*****. <.<

 

[lomojojo]

Just the thought grosses me out!! but as Forrest Gump's mamma said "life is like a box of chocolates you never know what you're gonna get"

 

[Luna]

I also just wanted to clarify, that I'm not looking necessarily for everyone to agree with me - if anything, I am welcome to differing opinions as I would like to understand the mentality behind it because it repulses every fiber of my being.

This is me, I'm sure:

 

[Jesse]

I won't even date someone another friend of mine dated, let alone a family member. I wouldn't date someone if i knew someone else that had dated them.

 

[Orthochromatic]

Huh... never encountered that situation, though I have dated sisters and none of them had an issue with it.

As for dating a mother then the daughter or the auntie then the niece... I suppose it would depend on the situation in all honesty. If there isn't a lot of drama, everybody is a happy consenting adult, and no inbreeding is going on - sure, I'd jump the daughter's bones after seeing her mom...

 

[EveWasFramed]

Maybe Wouldn't be able to answer that question unless I found myself in that particular situation.

 

[suckaG]

no way hose. it would be weird, I think. expecially mother/daughter. sisters. maybe, if they weren't close or something like that. but who's to say? maybe i'll be caught up in some crazy soap opera situation like that one day lol.

 

[Brian]

I won't even date someone another friend of mine dated, let alone a family member. I wouldn't date someone if i knew someone else that had dated them.

This is me, too! When I was on the brush crew, some of the guys repeatedly wanted to hook me up with people they'd been with and the thought was just disgusting...not to mention I'd probably just have the same results as always.


That aside, I wouldn't be opposed to dating a girlfriend's mother or something

 

[nerdygirl]

Just thinking about it made me puke in my mouth, a little. Okay, not really, but geeze. I think the really bad part is knowing how little I have in common with any of my family. That makes it pretty clear the guy's main interest is in the whole idea of hooking up with a mom and daughter. Eww.

 

[Badjedidude]

This wouldn't ever be an issue for me because my father and mother don't like the same kind of people that I do. AT ALL.

However, I did date my older brother's wife before he dated & married her. Does that count?

You'll have to ask him how he handles that. Cuz I'm OK with it. XD haha

 

[cheaptrickfan]

Just thinking of the sort of men whom my mom might possibly date, I'd have to say, "NO."

My older daughter is 30 years younger than me and again, that is too large an age difference. I'd be 50 when she is 20 and he'd be 20ish? No.

However, if I dated a guy who was 10 years older than me whose son is about 12 years or so younger than me, I could do that... but not at the same time.

 

[Steel]

No.

 

[ThisGuy]

No.

 

[coricopat]

A guy that I know had a relationship with my mom once upon a time asked me out. I went, totally misunderstanding that this was not a friend helping another friend through a boring social engagement. He almost immediately started hitting on me using very sexual innuendo and all I wanted to do was throw up. It felt like getting hit on by an uncle. I think it squicked my mom too, because now she doesn't answer the phone when he calls.

 

[CAS]

The thought crossed my mind...regarding an experience that I had several months ago.

My mom and aunties are in their 40s and if we walk down the street, it's not me that the young guys are looking at. In fact, one of them dated my aunt...and when she decided that she wasn't interested in him:

"He has no house, career etc."
"Not ready to settle down etc."
"Generation gap etc."

He turned around and started asking about me.
Well, what-the-**** to the max!
I would NOT date YOU and then date your father or son.

Am I alone in this thinking?
I do not want to date anyone that any of my family members have dated.
While I understand that one can be attracted to both younger and older people, I can't help but be turned off by someone that kissed/ dated/ sexed up my aunt or mother and now wants a lil' taste of me too.

I'm sorry, but I ain't your fantasy, ****o-*****. <.<

Oh for ****'s sake shut up. What a pointless thread.

 

[mintymint]

Oh for ****'s sake shut up. What a pointless thread.

Be gone

 

[Punisher]

Lol, now I see what everyone else sees

 

[Luna]

Lol, now I see what everyone else sees

Haha...you made me smile.

 

[Badjedidude]

Oh for ****'s sake shut up. What a pointless thread.

You're an ******* and a troll. I agree with minty.

Go the **** away.

 

[VanillaCreme]

I don't think I would. The idea isn't so appealing to me. However, I agree with Eve on this one.