I'm struggling to understand the question, but thankfully the answer would be the same for me either way...
If you intended to ask whether I'd get red or pink roses for a woman, then I'd get red roses.
If you intended to ask whether I'd rather receive a tie or shirt from a lady, then I'd rather receive the red roses...
Sorry I mean *Deep voice* I'd take the shirt obviously...
Would you rather give pleasure or receive pleasure?