That is a hard question...
My answer is complex....
It may be a trick question....
If I say I go to heaven, then that may be deemed as selfish, and not worthy of heaven, and would be sent to hell any ways....
If I say hell, that may show I put others before me, and may let me into heaven....
If I say Hell, and its not a trick, then I spend an eternity dieing for those I love...
If I say Heaven and it is not a trick, then I live, while I have to know, that my family is dieing for me...
I would have to chose, that I would say, I go to hell, because then I may forever be suffering, but I will know my family is safe.