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    Songs that help when you are depressed

    To be honest, music just makes it worse. I'm an old soul who hates most modern music, so my playlist is full of stuff from the past, and it just reminds me of happier times, and how those happier feelings are long gone.
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    Men - do you feel yourself becoming an 'incel'?

    See, this is what I'm talking about. People are real caring and empathetic for the concerns and well being of other downtrodden people, but lonely men are given the "bootstraps" attitude. Mysterious: maybe YOU haven't been ridiculed publicly. I have, irl and online, repeatedly. It sucks, its...
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    Men - do you feel yourself becoming an 'incel'?

    Yes and no. Are women in general to blame for this toxic online subculture, who attack and threaten women mercilessly? who espouse these backward, antiquated ideas of how women should live their lives? of course not. but their is a feminist movement, a coalition of activists, scholars, social...
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    Men - do you feel yourself becoming an 'incel'?

    100% in agreement. when you're unwanted, everyone hates you, no one loves you, and any attempt to reverse your fortune is met with ridicule and disdain. you're supposed to suffer in silence. take what you're given (which is nothing), like with what you got, and be happy its not a fist in the mouth.
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    Men - do you feel yourself becoming an 'incel'?

    we can argue and debate and still remain friends, as long as we are civil with each other and avoid personal insults. its easy to be in each other's company when everyone agrees, but the true test of character is who you are and how you act when everyone is disagreeing. It's ok to debate. it's...
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    Men - do you feel yourself becoming an 'incel'?

    you clearly haven't been paying attention if you think feminists came up with the term incel, to label those they are afraid of. No. Just No. I will say this, feminist response to the incel phenomenon, which is to combat their toxicity with their own brand of toxicity, is part of the reason...
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    Men - do you feel yourself becoming an 'incel'?

    Dear god, I just can't even... where do I even begin?
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    Men - do you feel yourself becoming an 'incel'?

    Don't feel so bad, you can only be told to take a hike so many times, before you begin to feel resentful in general. it's natural. what's not natural is the toxic attitudes, misogyny, death threats and such that have been associated with the incel community. thats wrong. but us rejects should...
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    Contemplating A Social Media Freeze

    A lot of times, I feel like I'm trapped in a story, written by someone else, and this entity has scripted the sequences of events that constitute my life to be the most empty, vapid, dysfunctional, frustrating set of circumstances one could ever experience. Particularly, if I need to apply or...
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    Unpopular Opinion Thread

    What are some unpopular opinions that you have as a loner, that brings out the pitchforks and torches from the normies? I'll start: -I don't give a rat's tail about you're expecting. you have something I will never have, that I could have easily had, had you and others like you not been so...
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    Chat room!

    can i join the chat??
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    Sorry I havent reached back out, I've been in a little bit of a fog. Tonight's my last night at the place I am staying at. after tomorrow afternoon I'm going to try and find a shelter I can stay at, I'll sleep in my car until then. i know a place where I can make arrangements until then. i...
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    What are you listening to?

    I'm in the middle of an 80s rabbit hole. Across all the genres, I just think they perfected the formula in the 90s. I say this as someone who came up in the 90s and 2000s.
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    Am I not allowed to have expectations? I've tried it the way you're suggesting, just jumping at anything I can get, and it's got me here, with nothing to show for it except the physical and mental scars of working in environments where the company all but tells you you are absolutely worthless...
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    Yeah, I'm totally into the idea of getting training of some kind. the problem is everything else around me is so unstable, and I cant function enough to be studying and taking exams when I'm worried about where I'm going to live. If I can just find something slightly stable, I can manage. But I...
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    This might come as a bit of a shock, but I actually have experience in remote work. It's not ideal, but its the type of challenges I can manage. I have just been having trouble finding the right fit. A company that offers remote work, on top of realistic expectations, and a pay scale that...
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    See this, this is the type of stuff i have gotten my whole life, and its the type of crap I am sick of. "YoU'Re jUsT MaKiNg eXcUsEs!" I know for a fact the military will turn me away because I'm too old. How many 40 year old cadets have you met? Is it an excuse when the recruiters literally have...
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    3 issues: 1. I've had my fill of the toxic environment that is the warehouse sector. some of the worst experiences i have ever had. long hours, **** pay, dangerous conditions, maniacal coworkers and managers. I'd never thought I would ever be sexually harassed on the job, but I can now say I am...
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    I'd be ecstatic to do retail, that was my plan anyway, because I'm going to need to double my income to pay back everything I owe. Also, I am interested in doing hotel front desk, as that would help in my aspirations to go into data analytics.
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    Being forced to play a fixed game.....

    My last few jobs have been temporary call centers. in the meantime, I have been applying to every type of call center, administrative assistant, or clerk job I can find. when I am not applying, I have been trying to get a insurance certificate. but my financials have affected how I can do that.
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