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  1. TheSolitaryMan

    NEED ADVICE! SOMEONE TOLD ME HE LOVES ME AND I DON'T FEEL THE SAME!

    Ouch, that's awkward :\ I wouldn't go out of your way to contact him, I expect he'll probably contact you to apologise once he realises he's been foolish. But yeah, definitely reiterate to him that you don't find him romantically attractive. I wouldn't say sever contact (that's like just...
  2. TheSolitaryMan

    Do you ever feel like you "missed the train"?

    Curious that you mention instinct. This is kind of the thing, I can obviously act in a romantic/sexual manner instinctively, but it never feels appropriate to do so to me, so I just try to bottle that up. I've never just told a girl I like her, or outright flirted. I just feel like that'd be...
  3. TheSolitaryMan

    Do you ever feel like you "missed the train"?

    Oh no, of course not! Lol :shy: I told her I had a great time, but that was about it. Unfortunately we were never alone to talk, and I didn't want to embarrass her (or myself) by admitting that I like her in front of everyone. I don't know. I took the initiative in getting her number and so...
  4. TheSolitaryMan

    Do you ever feel like you "missed the train"?

    I've tried that before and I find denying myself something I basically want emotionally is a fast track to feeling really down about everything :( Now I try to recognise that I have romantic needs, but rationalise that it's unlikely they're going to get met. So I saw this girl again today...
  5. TheSolitaryMan

    Do you ever feel like you "missed the train"?

    Very carthartic to feel that I'm not alone in this, thanks for the replies guys :) My lack of experience makes me feel completely powerless sometimes. Right now I'm seeing a girl socially on a regular basis. I've known (and liked) her for around 7 years, ever since I was a young 'un, but it's...
  6. TheSolitaryMan

    Big Girls

    Personally, I think physical attraction is a very flexible thing, at least in my book. Whether skinny/tall/short or whatever, I think pretty much every woman has traits that are physically desirable. For example, right now I have a bit of a crush on a girl who is pretty skinny. I really like...
  7. TheSolitaryMan

    Do you ever feel like you "missed the train"?

    I was in a bar last week socially with some friends. I ended up talking to a girl that a friend introduced to me, because I didn't know anyone else there. Anyway, she was friendly enough. But she spent most of the evening enthusiastically talking to me in not-so-subtle terms about how great...
  8. TheSolitaryMan

    I'm fat and friendless.

    Hey Solitary man (nice name choice ;) ), don't give up with it. Once you shed the weight, you realise that being overweight isn't some kind of permanent status. I've lost 5 stone myself through just working out and cutting junk from my diet as much as I can. May I ask what sort of exercise...
  9. TheSolitaryMan

    I am an atrocity when I'm naked

    I must say, I find it incredible two people can be happy in each other's presence naked. I just can't imagine ever letting someone see me without clothes on. I'm going swimming soon quite possibly and there may be girls there - frankly I don't think I'll go because I don't want anyone seeing me...
  10. TheSolitaryMan

    Hezekiah's Thread Of Insanity (Update)

    I went clubbing for the first time ever recently (didn't enjoy it XD) and the first thing to happen to me that evening was some idiot guy deliberately walking into me, spilling a tiny bit of his drink, then staring me in the eyes like he wanted to fight. Absolutely ridiculous. He was about my...
  11. TheSolitaryMan

    Do you ever feel like you "missed the train"?

    Sounds stupid I guess, but do you ever feel like perhaps romantic inexperience in the past has messed you up in the present? I'm curious if others feel like this because it's something that I feel is very much the case with my life. Basically my teen years were really crappy. I was bullied most...
  12. TheSolitaryMan

    Did you see that 68 year old Bus Monitor being bullied by a bunch of 7th graders?

    To be honest, it reminded me very much of how people used to talk to me when I was a young teenager. Horrible stuff. She should have said something to someone else on the bus though, not just taken it like that. I don't understand who these kids think they are, or why they can just talk to...
  13. TheSolitaryMan

    What time did you get out of bed today?

    Ditto! Ridiculously long lie-ins, unkempt hobo-esque beard and a total lack of anything to do. I love finishing exams :D /miniaturederail
  14. TheSolitaryMan

    I got an A...

    Soph, this is fantastic! I remember ages ago when you seemed unsure whether you had the ability, certainly no doubt of that now! ;) Keep up the good work.
  15. TheSolitaryMan

    One positive thing you accomplished today...

    I went partner dancing. Had masses of fun, got to cradle ladies in my arms and even had some near-kiss moments! :D
  16. TheSolitaryMan

    Being Single Rocks My World :)

    Really interesting opening post! Unfortunately, I'm not sure you can actually make the sort of discovery you made without having a relationship. I've been trying for years to tell myself that I don't need someone in my life, but everything emotional (read: irrational) in me shouts out the...
  17. TheSolitaryMan

    70 years old and still a virgin

    Yes, the fact that she wants a sexual relationship at an old age immediately means she is superficial, egocentric and a clown... ...because it totally makes sense that someone utterly egocentric would deny themselves sex for 70 years :rolleyes: Also, as others have pointed out, your take on...
  18. TheSolitaryMan

    Romantic Tension

    Have to say, I feel a bit held to ransom now. It sucks to be honest. If I show interest in any other girls I find attractive (such as the ones that smile at me every now and then) I feel like I'm being an insensitive jerk because this girl likes me. If on the other hand I try to stick with...
  19. TheSolitaryMan

    70 years old and still a virgin

    She could be joking? o_0 I mean, I doubt she really means that. I'm not sure why you seem outright hostile because she's decided she wants a partner. Do you feel that some people are not entitled to love/sex/romance or something? (And I must grudgingly say that she has pretty amazing looking...
  20. TheSolitaryMan

    Romantic Tension

    On Valentine's Day (the last one) this pretty girl walked into a room I was working in, smiled at me, then started working behind me. After a while she came over and suddenly asked for a pencil. I let her borrow one, then I just went totally shy and kind of stared at the desk until she was...
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