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That's sort of the way things are for most people. Birds of a feather. But if all the birds have the same negativity about where they are it's going to be hard to find a positive stone to step your way out on. I've got no good advice. But there is a sentiment that is true more often than...

There are a good number of threads where you are welcome to unload your grief. Don't be shy. You've not yet told us anything we can respond to.

A few words about yourself will help you to connect to those that can appreciate what you have to say. Welcome.

I believe in equal opportunity relationships. But if you don't have a partner with the same mindset, if you don't take control you'll lose control. My wife overtook me and it ruined us. I've been living her life. She rejected what I wanted in my life. For that we will both be alone in our...

Regarding suicide, some cultures revere it as a way to redeem yourself after a disgrace. They see it as honorable. Murder is eliminating a personal problem without needing strategy or intelligence. Purely selfish. I'm trying to think of a case were murder is not personal. Serial killer...

I never put on anything I can't take off.

Sexual gratification has been compared to cocaine. It stimulates endorphins in the brain and can overcome depression and stress, albeit for limited duration. Sex is a drug. Most people quit an addiction by distancing themselves from the substance they abuse. Not so with sex. It is always in...

A stranger. I don't know if it's age, or it's just the loss of my humor. I look like a grump even to me.

A video of a cat singing wow wow wow wow yaba yaba yaba yaba. It might make the charts!

I prefer to know what she looks like. Especially the eyes. Makeup seems like lying. Or maybe hiding. How can I know her if I can never see her?

Suicide is a morality issue, moralities differ. Murder has no justification in any scenario.

It's almost over. This weekend we are buying wood for a spice rack to mount inside the center right hand door of the fridge enclosure. Nothing special, just organized. A lot of the time involved has been due to covid and the shortages it has created. We spent a lot of time waiting on wood...

These others I built myself. This first one is actually in the dining room. We were so short on storage that we were using the coat closet as a pantry. The indented cabinet leaves plenty of room for the table. It didn't need to be deep. It's for canned goods and such. The refrigerator had...

Kitchen is finished. As per request, here are the befores and afters. Those are all store bought. You might call this an upgrade from 1993 cheap (note the ugly tile) to contemporary cheap. :) Honestly, the cabinets were priced reasonably. These are labeled frameless. Nothing to obstruct...

I had a sister-in-law that had a fear of fuzzy plants. I always saw it as irrational. But that's the thing. Phobias generally seem irrational. My phobias are high places, drowning, and things with sharp teeth. These aren't really irrational as I have reason to fear the things that have once...

I expect some of your feeling of job rejection is imagined. Not meaning to demean you. It's natural to blame our failures on things beyond our control. My expectation is you were one of many considered. Yes, an IT guy with critical business skills is likely to be more appealing to an...

Skillet ninja.

A to the F = Z squared

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A week ago. When was the last time you felt you had worthwhile mission?