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i never once claimed or implied that i hate women.  why would i be so interetsed in female companionship if i hated females?  what i hate is my own genetic inferiority and my inability to measure up (both literally & figuratively) to the superior men whom women are looking for.  my despair is...

i think you have missed the whole point & are once again conflating the cause for the effect. my defeatism was the result of constant rejection as opposed to being the cause of it. idon't think that look & heights are the only factors but without a certain baseline of both, the vast majority of...

what a waste life is without anyone to share & enjoy it with. very envious of those who are good enough to experinece a healthy, loving long term partnership.

"And another thing (God, you make me mad!!!): Have they actually told you that they don't like you because you are short and bald? OR YOU THINK they rejected you because of that? THAT makes all the difference!" not directly as women will very often instead try and save a man's feelings by...

TheRealCallie Here's what I don't get...you have guys who say that have little to no experience and can't get a date. (even the ones that were married for 20 years).  You have the same guys who are negative as hell and vilify women.  Yet they know also seem to know exactly who is and is not...

5'6=below average height bald=below average hair even if my face could be considered average at best, combined with the first two attributes makes for a below average male. regardless, all of the women i have been interested in have considered me below average and they are the one's who's...

no-i most definitelyhave lost. the only thing which will change my beliefs is having success. the image of myself in my head was created by long time failure & rejection.  i would have to be delusional to have high self esteem by not being able to get a single date in almost a decade. it's not...

not true for everyone-some men are fortunate enough to never have to face the harsh reality of being alone & unwanted. rather than having to learn anything, they are taught their high value by everyone around them.  i am extremely envious of the genetic lottery winners for having a life that i...

i have only asked women i already knew and had always have posted my height & photo on my OLD profile's. from what i understand most women will completely ignore men's profile's without pic's or with no height listed as they are not going to waste time on a man not knowing his looks when they...

the first and third are what so many here are lacking.  the second is what so many here are in denial of.

those 5 inches make all the difference in the world to women. i have no doubt that you would have had a far different (and far worse) experience at 5'6 than you do at 5'11. i have posted this here before but it bears re-posting...

OLD does = online dating i am actually far older than you may think i and though will not disclose my exact age, i am-well over 40. your past successes make perfect sense since you do have height going for you. at my miniscule size (only a pathetic 5'6) the vast majority of women will reject a...

i would guess that your dating life was a while ago because things have changed dramatically since the rise of OLD & social media.  what was possible (though perhaps very difficult) in the past no longer even remotely applies.  the modern dating world for men is 100% about facial symmetry and...

glad to hear you are not buying into the comforting delusion that so many people fall for.  being male is likely a big part of this as denial of the harsh reality of many men seems to be especially predominate in women.  i agree that a lot can change for attractive men depending on what else...

i don't consider what i posted as being particularly pessimistic. instead, many people are under the delusion of a massive Just World fallacy and are infected with toxic positivity.  everything that matters in life comes down to pure, random chance and some people are not born with the...

is faith really a cogent method to use to interpret reality?   one can believe anything based on faith and many of these claims are contradictory.  there are many religions with very different versions of hell (and many with no belief in a hell), so which is correct?  even members of the same...

you may want to check out this new documentary on netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81014008

it depends on how you look at it. the top 20% of men may not be interested in dating average or below average women but many will sleep with them if they are unable to find anyone better at the time.   imo, the whole 1-10 scale is just a cope.  in reality it's much closer to a 1-5 scale where...

"It works that way for the small percentage of men women consider attractive. " +1

because since there is no hell, there is no reason to worry about going there. i think there is a world of difference between belief in something which is supported by countless studies along with direct personal experience (of myself and several others on this board) and belief in the...