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This is the description of a depressive/suicidal frame of mind. You probably understand that this is what goes through the minds of most people who come to this forum. I generally forget about these dreary thoughts when I concentrate in one of my hobbies: literature, music, cinema...I know...

If you're a normal person, then there's not many a person you'll feel attracted to anyway. Most of us can relate to but a few people (parents, one or two brothers, one or two friends) in reality. All the others simply do not exist for us. What's happening to you right now is probably that...

It surprises me a lot that people are so overtly gay in your surroundings... or maybe you're too young and are confusing their kindness for homosexuality??? In any case, if you're straight, just be frank and tell anyone who approaches you the simple truth. Just be careful not to hurt anyone's...

In fact you do. You should simply read your above posts with wide open eyes to understand why.

I'm too much self-centered, and people around me are not attentive enough to the reasons why I'm so self-centered. I don't care how most of them react. I would be happy if only ONE single person could understand this, but hell no, HE cannot or does not really want to understand.

I guess you are all aware that genuine friendship is rare. A true monstrosity. That's why we tend to feel so "uncomfortable" around other people (I have the same problem described by the OP). No matter how kind the other person is- you always end up wondering to yourself: "Is he/she amiable for...

The hell of a great post, man. Thanks for sharing this. I don't have the time now (and, shall I confess, the capacity) to address all the good points you made here. I can pretty much identify myself as the stereotypically romantic guy (even tho I'm gay- mind you), and that's why I love...

I'd like to know what you have to say about this subject, my friend. Specially if you admire C. G. Jung.

When you completely forget about a person, they are actually dead for you.

I am going through a similar situation with a colleague of mine, whom I used to like very much and be in very friendly terms with. But he's a guy, not a woman, what makes things worse. Because we all know how stubborn men are. He simply refuses to talk with me unless it's about the job. With...

You're only wrong about this "self-improvement" thing. If a person can't love you as you really are, they can't love you at all. For me, self-improvement serves for me to better the way I see myself. The way other people look at me becomes more and more indifferent every day.

I know for a fact that this can be VERY bad. If you don't have personal contact with the person, however, you can really forget him/her if you find someone else who attracts you for similar reasons. but i know, i know, "easier said than done".

Hi there new user from Brazil here I'm not going to introduce myself here...I'm the shy type of guy even on the internet...all I need to say is that I have been reading some posts here and I share most of the feelings which permeate this place: anxiety, depression, solitude, suicidal feelings...