35 year old kissless, hand hold-less virgin man who has never heard of a girl/woman liking him in any way.

[Cherubino]

I’m not sure I understand. I have a family, but I don’t get sex. And I have some standards unlike some blokes who seem to fresia anything that spreads their legs for them.

I don't understand what "fresia" means and I saw it used a lot on this forum ... neither Google nor Urban Dictionary could be of any help so you guys are ahead of your times language inventors

 

[okidoke]

Like I've mentioned before, I'd much rather be a life-long virgin than pay for intimacy.

It has its benefits.

I don't understand what "fresia" means and I saw it used a lot on this forum ... neither Google nor Urban Dictionary could be of any help so you guys are ahead of your times language inventors

It’s auto changing from profane word to this. Freasia = fu*k

 

[Cherubino]

It’s auto changing from profane word to this. Freasia = fu*k

finally! ... thank you

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Like I've mentioned before, I'd much rather be a life-long virgin than pay for intimacy.

But why? Wouldn’t you rather just get it over with and see what all the fuss was about?

 

[Unsigned]

you always had access to paid sex

By the same token you are very close to Germany and Czech republic where there is even MORE access to that.
And higher quality too, from what I've been told.

 

[Unsigned]

Its very common… I’d like the stats on how many of those men have poor hygiene, watch cartoons, earn low wages and are overweight. It would be interesting to see

I'm none of those things and if not for P4P I'd be in the same situation as the OP.

 

[Cherubino]

By the same token you are very close to Germany and Czech republic where there is even MORE access to that.
And higher quality too, from what I've been told.

well by the time we were allowed (not to mention to afford) travelling abroad the internet and local escorts had established

 

[Forgottendanfan]

But why? Wouldn’t you rather just get it over with and see what all the fuss was about?

Absolutely not. That may be a fitting solution for some men, but not for me. My way of thinking is, "Why should I have to pay for something the vast majority of society gets to do for free"? It's kind of a cold, calculating way to phrase it, but that's the gist of it. I can think of few things I'd find more degrading than paying for sex.

 

[okidoke]

Absolutely not. That may be a fitting solution for some men, but not for me. My way of thinking is, "Why should I have to pay for something the vast majority of society gets to do for free"? It's kind of a cold, calculating way to phrase it, but that's the gist of it. I can think of few things I'd find more degrading than paying for sex.

that's a little funny though because some of the things you can do with a paid girl would have a lot of "free" women cringe or vomit or screech at you.

 

[ardour]

Its very common… I’d like the stats on how many of those men have poor hygiene, watch cartoons, earn low wages and are overweight. It would be interesting to see

I tick half of these boxes.

 

[Forgottendanfan]

No, I wouldn't out of hand. The why is the really important part.
I've known a 55 year old virgin. After a 20 minute conversation with him over a drink, I knew exactly why, too.
Are you really sure this is a question you really, REALLY want answers to?

I'm curious to know what you deduced about this chap.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I tick half of these boxes.

Can smell ya from here only joking but you deffo aren’t overweight for what that’s worth Ardour

Absolutely not. That may be a fitting solution for some men, but not for me. My way of thinking is, "Why should I have to pay for something the vast majority of society gets to do for free"? It's kind of a cold, calculating way to phrase it, but that's the gist of it. I can think of few things I'd find more degrading than paying for sex.

Not sure who lied but theres no such thing as free … everyone is paying something, pay with your soul or with your cash

 

[Unsigned]

"Why should I have to pay for something the vast majority of society gets to do for free"

I'll answer this, while as usual, speaking for myself only.
And just being honest here, not trying to ruffle any feathers.

Because what the vast majority of society gets for free, I really don't want.
Most guys are not with physically attractive females.
Don't believe me? Go to Target or Walmart or your local mall and look at the couples you see.
I have only ever been interested in young, physically attractive females.
And what I consider physically attractive has not changed while I have aged.
Well...I suppose when I was 40 and under I would not consider women over 25, and now 29 yrs 364 days is my upper limit.
So I've changed just a tad.

I am pretty sure Leo DiCaprio thinks the same way I do, and people celebrate him for it.
He doesn't have to pay though, and I do.

 

[Forgottendanfan]

Can smell ya from here only joking but you deffo aren’t overweight for what that’s worth Ardour


Not sure who lied but theres no such thing as free … everyone is paying something, pay with your soul or with your cash

You know what I mean. If I ever do have sex (I wouldn't bet on it ever happening now), I want it to be with someone who either loves me or is attracted to me. Preferably both, but I'd settle for just one.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

You know what I mean. If I ever do have sex (I wouldn't bet on it ever happening now), I want it to be with someone who either loves me or is attracted to me. Preferably both, but I'd settle for just one.

Would you accept love from someone who thinks you are hideous ? Curiosity… killed the ceno doll

 

[Forgottendanfan]

I'll answer this, while as usual, speaking for myself only.
And just being honest here, not trying to ruffle any feathers.

Because what the vast majority of society gets for free, I really don't want.
Most guys are not with physically attractive females.
Don't believe me? Go to Target or Walmart or your local mall and look at the couples you see.
I have only ever been interested in young, physically attractive females.
And what I consider physically attractive has not changed while I have aged.
Well...I suppose when I was 40 and under I would not consider women over 25, and now 29 yrs 364 days is my upper limit.
So I've changed just a tad.

I am pretty sure Leo DiCaprio thinks the same way I do, and people celebrate him for it.
He doesn't have to pay though, and I do.

I'll answer this, while as usual, speaking for myself only.
And just being honest here, not trying to ruffle any feathers.

Because what the vast majority of society gets for free, I really don't want.
Most guys are not with physically attractive females.
Don't believe me? Go to Target or Walmart or your local mall and look at the couples you see.
I have only ever been interested in young, physically attractive females.
And what I consider physically attractive has not changed while I have aged.
Well...I suppose when I was 40 and under I would not consider women over 25, and now 29 yrs 364 days is my upper limit.
So I've changed just a tad.

I am pretty sure Leo DiCaprio thinks the same way I do, and people celebrate him for it.
He doesn't have to pay though, and I do.

That's your outlook, which you're entitled to, but I don't share your sentiment. I can find women of most age ranges attractive.

 

[okidoke]

Would you accept love from someone who thinks you are hideous ? Curiosity… killed the ceno doll

how can someone love you and find you hideous at the same time?

 

[Unsigned]

That's your outlook, which you're entitled to, but I don't share your sentiment. I can find women of most age ranges attractive.

I think that's great.
And with an outlook like yours, I think finding someone should not be too hard.
If looks are not your primary concern, why not try just some random small talk with girls/women you may see in your daily life?
Or try some of the things in this thread:
https://www.alonelylife.com/threads/the-best-places-to-meet-women.45193/post-1056196It's actually quite good and TBH I would try some of these things if I were younger and not so picky.

 

[Forgottendanfan]

Would you accept love from someone who thinks you are hideous ? Curiosity… killed the ceno doll

I doubt they'd want to be romantically or sexually involved with me in the first place if they found me hideous. I have a hard time imagining how that would work.

 

[Forgottendanfan]

I think that's great.
And with an outlook like yours, I think finding someone should not be too hard.
If looks are not your primary concern, why not try just some random small talk with girls/women you may see in your daily life?
Or try some of the things in this thread:
https://www.alonelylife.com/threads/the-best-places-to-meet-women.45193/post-1056196It's actually quite good and TBH I would try some of these things if I were younger and not so picky.

Duly noted. Thanks.