38 male virgin - Pros and Cons of paying for sex

[Papagenox]

Happy Birthday and you can search for the right lady but meanwhile enjoy other women's paid company

 

[TheSkaFish]

Her name is Kelli Palfy -not famous, but well known - and I wrote to her about my issues because she is one of the very few specialists around on male sexual abuse.

Hmm, well, I can't say she made too good of a first impression with me.
Maybe try another psychologist? I agree, it might be hard to find one that has a background in dealing with that issue.

Either way, as others have said, happy birthday.
I'm actually in the same boat, I just turned 38 not long ago myself.
I see-saw between feeling like I have more potential than this, should be doing better than this, and the hope that things will change if I think harder, and try harder -
to feeling like I'm a powerless, hopeless victim of biology and bad luck.
I hate it, and it's so important to me to escape.

I hope you can figure out what's been holding you back - I will try not to derail this further with mine - and that you're able to move past this to a healthy and happy dating life.
The good news is, you only have to succeed once - you only have to find that one special person to have something real and lasting with. And if you ask me, I think we all deserve that, at least.

 

[abbynormal]

when the sex robots become available, that will be a game changer.

 

[Hermit]

when the sex robots become available, that will be a game changer.

Only for the rich. Such a robot would cost a fortune...

 

[abbynormal]

sex dolls already have made a dent.

 

[Hermit]

They are already very expensive without providing anything beyond being a simple doll though. I read that they cost around 5000$. If you add robotics on a level of Boston Dynamics you're already at 500.000$ - without AI capable of speech recognition/synthesis...

 

[abbynormal]

dolls are far less expensive now,, between 1 and 2 grand will get you something quite serviceable. shop around and avoid overseas dolls. stick to amuuuuurican made.

 

[Hermit]

Shopping in 'Murica would be overseas for me, I'm on the other side of the pond. But I'm not interested in getting such a thing anyway. Nothing can replace a human being. But dolls/robots should still be available to others who are interested in such products.