50 Places To Meet People When You Are Over The Bar Scene

[LoneKiller]

Interesting choices.

http://www.howaboutwe.com/date-report/50-place-to-meet-people-when-youre-over-the-bar-scene/#

 

[Tealeaf]

In other words: Everywhere.

Nobody in my classes really talks to each other. I can probably "tutor" other students in some, though, which will at least get me some social interaction in addition to eating up some free time.

 

[blackdot]

In other words: No where.

 

[putter65]

In other words: No where.

if your that desperate, why don't you try the mail order bride angle ?

Some men must do.

 

[blackdot]

*cringe* I want someone local. Not someone I don't know.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

O_O You mean you can meet people outside doing casual activities? I never knew, I always thought that people could only meet people in designated social areas. All of those do not seem like social areas.

 

[putter65]

*cringe* I want someone local. Not someone I don't know.

Plenty of men in your shoes do it.

It is not uncommon. It doesn't sound healthy if your crying everytime you see a couple walk past.

 

[blackdot]

It may not be healthy but unfortunately the only cure doesn't exist.
*laughs*

 

[putter65]

It may not be healthy but unfortunately the only cure doesn't exist.
*laughs*

Ive suggested a cure to you.

 

[IgnoredOne]

People always meet just doing the same things. Its just really how you approach others.

 

[blackdot]

Ive suggested a cure to you.

Ordering a random woman that I don't know and have no way of knowing is not a cure.

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People always meet just doing the same things. Its just really how you approach others.

I meet women doing volunteer work. Unfortunately they are either very young or their are very old.
Never meet many single women my age doing volunteer work.

 

[IgnoredOne]

I meet women doing volunteer work. Unfortunately they are either very young or their are very old.
Never meet many single women my age doing volunteer work.

Whether they are young or old, single or not, they might be worthwhile people to know and talk to. Why not communicate with them? You will probably learn a great deal about women as well, just by having women friends.

 

[blackdot]

but I'm tired of having just women friends. That's gotten old after 39 years. I want someone I can trust and actually talk to.
I want a fricken date, not just a friend.

 

[putter65]

Ive suggested a cure to you.

Ordering a random woman that I don't know and have no way of knowing is not a cure.

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People always meet just doing the same things. Its just really how you approach others.

I meet women doing volunteer work. Unfortunately they are either very young or their are very old.
Never meet many single women my age doing volunteer work.

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you should re read your posts. You are always finding excuses. Not the right age, you don't know them etc. I think you could easily find someone. The problem is you don't want to.

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I meet women doing volunteer work. Unfortunately they are either very young or their are very old.
Never meet many single women my age doing volunteer work.

Whether they are young or old, single or not, they might be worthwhile people to know and talk to. Why not communicate with them? You will probably learn a great deal about women as well, just by having women friends.

whats too old anyway ?

I'm 44 and no ******** I would date a 60 year old. If I liked her that is and got on with her.

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Ive suggested a cure to you.

Ordering a random woman that I don't know and have no way of knowing is not a cure.

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People always meet just doing the same things. Its just really how you approach others.

I meet women doing volunteer work. Unfortunately they are either very young or their are very old.
Never meet many single women my age doing volunteer work.

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you will get to know the woman you choose by talking / dating her.
Your making lame excuses to whatever people suggest !

 

[blackdot]

It's not a lame excuse. Ordering a random person you have never met or talked to is not a good idea. For me it would be a terrible idea.
I need someone I can meet and get to know. I need to be able to spend time with them and date them.

 

[Limlim]

To be fair blackdot really is just asking to meet someone the way the majority of the population does. Though I wonder if that is one of those misconceptions, much like the myth of the stable family being the majority.

 

[putter65]

It's not a lame excuse. Ordering a random person you have never met or talked to is not a good idea. For me it would be a terrible idea.
I need someone I can meet and get to know. I need to be able to spend time with them and date them.

It's not ideal but some men do it. It works for them. Maybe it's a last resort to think about ?

 

[blackdot]

uh, no thanks. I have no interest in dating someone I don't know already. Most of those women are just looking to find a way to be a US citizen and then dump the guy.
I want to find someone that I match up with. Not someone I pay. If I wanted that, I'd find a prostitute.

 

[putter65]

uh, no thanks. I have no interest in dating someone I don't know already. Most of those women are just looking to find a way to be a US citizen and then dump the guy.
I want to find someone that I match up with. Not someone I pay. If I wanted that, I'd find a prostitute.

that was going to be my next suggestion

 

[blackdot]

I want a relationship, not sex.