Adopting a party / carefree mentality?

[hijodeganas]

Hmm... Could you give an example of how this works? If I am completely myself at a party, the natural consequence is that I settle down in a cozy corner with a drink and possible chat with whoever's nearby. Hardly riveting.

Hmm... You have friends, right? Family, teachers, etc? Do you behave the same way with everyone? Probably not. Which is the real you? All of them. Certainly, there are roles in which you are more comfortable or like more, but you are capable of behaving in different ways.

Same as a social setting. Sometimes you will be in a big group, sometimes alone with one person. Sometimes there will be loud music, sometimes not. Learning how to behave in different situations allows you to connect with more people, create comfort and then allows your strengths to shine.