well, she was also severely bipolar so since we couldn't figure it out, she went really downhill and in withdrawl after that and ended up pushing me away and later killing herself.
"Ultimately". That reminds me of that existential argument; "What if we aren't real?" What if virginity is a condition we're all agreeing we're in? I know that's not really helpful. Soz. I don't think so though. I think it's more likely that so many people are brainwashed/scared to make less popular choices, which is what I do think we are.