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Oldyoung said:
- I don't like sharing things about myself.
- I believe you always give away more than you think when you share your thoughts and opinions.

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Sorry. I wasn't really made for this thread.

I know what you did last night :club:
 
Oldyoung said:
- I don't like sharing things about myself.
- I believe you always give away more than you think when you share your thoughts and opinions.

....

Sorry. I wasn't really made for this thread.

No worries :) That's why replying to any thread/post is entirely optional ;)

And that is true, you give away more than the words ... but, the consequences of speaking those words depend on what the person receiving your words does with them. In my experience, they 1 - refuse to try to understand, 2 - entirely miss the intended message and 3 - do whatever it takes to turn my words against me

So, I get why you don't want to share, and that is perfectly ok :)
 
How does 1 change from misunderstanding to refusing to understand? You need a fourth option.
 
Lacrecia said:
How does 1 change from misunderstanding to refusing to understand? You need a fourth option.

There's a fifth option.  Purposely changing the meaning to benefit them or make them the victim.
 
Lacrecia said:
How does 1 change from misunderstanding to refusing to understand? You need a fourth option.

Feel free to add to the list as you feel necessary. It's not exclusively my list :)
 
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