Deal breaker questions

[Badjedidude]

^^^Hahaha... this thread is derailed like a mofo. XD

Would you date someone that is still married, but has no contact with his/her "soon to be" X-spouse if he/she is in the middle of a divorce that will soon be finalized?

YUP. I would.

Would you date someone if they admitted that they had been a ****star a while back?

 

[Mary Mary]

No wonder the site hiccupped when I tried to respond to Wishingwell. You bumped my post off, Bad!

I agree. I would to.

I don't think I would date a ****star. Not any moral issue. It just sounds gross. I know it's probably naive to think ordinary people are less gross, but I'd have trouble getting past that.

If someone resumed smoking after a year of dating, would you stop dating them?

 

[Badjedidude]

Nope. I don't mind smokers.

If your bf/gf ever physically hit you, would you break it off with them? (Sounds like an obvious answer is required here, but you'd be surprised.)

 

[Mary Mary]

Nope. I don't mind smokers.

If your bf/gf ever physically hit you, would you break it off with them? (Sounds like an obvious answer is required here, but you'd be surprised.)

Understood. I don't mind smokers, either. If that's their only problem, I'll take it.

Now, I would immediately. When I was younger, I was with a guy who used to hit me; but I'd hit him back (I'm not kidding). I did eventually did leave him.

Would you dump your mate if they said they wanted an open relationship?

 

[Sterling]

Would you dump your mate if they said they wanted an open relationship?

Of course. I want someone who only wants to be with me, not go off and be with other women as well. You can't have the best of both worlds

Would you be okay with dating (not boyfriend and girlfriend yet) someone who was also going out on dates with multiple people?

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Ur wife ask you if u wanna wives swap?hahaaaaaa

I know what ur going to say...but ur actaul thinking is going to be relative to the size of the other dudeS wfie's Titays...and ur **** if u dont amswer right away..becuz ur thinking about it.lmao

 

[Sterling]

Ur wife ask you if u wanna wives swap?hahaaaaaa

I know what ur going to say...but ur actaul thinking is going to be relative to the size of the other dudeS wfie's Titays...and ur **** if u dont amswer right away..becuz ur thinking about it.lmao

What? lol

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^MUST.... NOT.... COMMENT...

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Things thats I swore up N down the I will never allow in my life or accept.

but when the actual event arrised in my life...I did the exect opposite no matter how gut wretching brain twisting or sickening it made me felt.

Infidelity
addictions relapsed
Theft
Black mail
abuse

Married women..I did that twice.
so its not a would you or what if
question to me. Its a did ya?
Playing the devils advocate.
Everybody knows its not healthy to jump from one relationship to the next yet alone to seek another
while one is not closed.. No matter what ur morals or ethics are..it happens.
A had one woman called me from marriage conseling.. Straight up.
Its a last ditch effort to save their
marriage. Its not over until its over
Both of their husband finally ended up going to marriage counseling.

 

[tangerinedream]

Ok, scrolling back, I think this is the question:

"Would you be okay with dating (not boyfriend and girlfriend yet) someone who was also going out on dates with multiple people? "

HELL no.


Would you really ever want to know how many previous sexual partners your partner has had? Would you ask? If they offered to tell you, unsolicited, would you want to know?

 

[SofiasMami]

Would you really ever want to know how many previous sexual partners your partner has had? Would you ask? If they offered to tell you, unsolicited, would you want to know?

Nope. Because then what if they wanted to know how many partners I've had?


Would you rather date someone who was the dumper or the dumpee in their previous relationship?

 

[Mary Mary]

I agree. I don't ask questions that I don't want asked of me.

Depends. If they dumped someone because the other person was emotionally maladjusted, then that would make it appear as if he prefers healthier situations; however, if he dumped someone because he 'wasn't in love anymore' or something silly like that, then that's not someone with emotional staying power. I usually don't care if they get dumped because it not an active decision on their part, so it doesn't tell me much about them.

For you pet owners, if you met someone and it looked promising but they were allergic to your pet, would you dump the person or the pet?

 

[SofiasMami]

For you pet owners, if you met someone and it looked promising but they were allergic to your pet, would you dump the person or the pet?

I would dump the guy. My kitty is like a family member and there's no way I would get rid of her for a guy.

Would you date a recovering addict or alcoholic?

(I love this thread, by the way! )

Teresa

 

[Sterling]

For you pet owners, if you met someone and it looked promising but they were allergic to your pet, would you dump the person or the pet?

The person can get out My pet is going to love me no matter what, but the dude.....he's not as promising.

For you pet owners, if you met someone and it looked promising but they were allergic to your pet, would you dump the person or the pet?

I would dump the guy. My kitty is like a family member and there's no way I would get rid of her for a guy.

Would you date a recovering addict or alcoholic?

(I love this thread, by the way! )

Teresa

Depends how bad the addiction was, but in most cases I wouldn't date them.

 

[Mary Mary]

It is a great thread.

I wouldn't dump my cat. He's been with me for 10 years; and his sole purpose is to make me happy, which he does. That deserves some loyalty.

For Teresa's question: It would make me nervous, and it would depend on for how long they've been on the wagon; but I probably would.

You meet the man/women of your dreams; however, you meet their family, and they're insufferable, and they're moving down the street. Would you dump the person you're dating?

 

[jjam]

You meet the man/women of your dreams; however, you meet their family, and they're insufferable, and they're moving down the street. Would you dump the person you're dating?

No. Couldn't we just... move?


Your guy or lady has lost a great deal of that physical appeal that had you sexually interested for the first year or two you were seeing each other. This has less to do with age than with poor diet and lack of exercise. Do you dump him/her?

 

[Ladysphinx]

No, if we really love each other than if would be a rediculous thing to do. I'll try and prusuede him to work on his physical apearens and yet I would not if I fail to convince him

Would you date a person who changed from guy to straight, especially because of you?

 

[NOAH_FX]

No, if we really love each other than if would be a rediculous thing to do. I'll try and prusuede him to work on his physical apearens and yet I would not if I fail to convince him

Would you date a person who changed from guy to straight, especially because of you?

Im going to try and keep Gender out of this, since the BIAS for a guy turning and a girl is way different, however, as long as their Clean (No STD's etc) i don't think i'd have an issue with it, Sexuality isn't just Black and White..


If you were in love with someone, but they refused to be married in a church.. Basically refuse to EVER go to a church unless theirs a death..

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^I wouldn't mind. I'd still date them.

If your significant other (or boyfriend, girlfriend, etc) admitted that they were addicted to cocaine (or similar drug), would that be a deal breaker?

 

[jales]

If they were still addicted and did not want to change. I would have to leave them, because I cant see an addict being a good role model for kids. And I want kids. I would explain all this to them, and if they did not want to change it would have to end.

If you just met your soul-mate and spent 3 months getting to know them and everything about them is great. But they are in trial for murder. They say that they did not do it and you believe them.

Anyway they get sent into prison for 10 years, would you move on, or wait for the person?

^^^I wouldn't mind. I'd still date them.

If your significant other (or boyfriend, girlfriend, etc) admitted that they were addicted to cocaine (or similar drug), would that be a deal breaker?