user 188685
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Do you believe in happly ever after?I mean really happy forever?Some people don't trust and have a lot of trust issues,what are your thoughts on this?
I don't think the idea is that you'd be permanently happy, but permanently compatible.Well, happy ever after is possible thanks to modern drugs. But, without them nope.
Humans can not always be happy. If they were then that would become the new baseline, which wouldn't really be happy any more. It would just be okay. We are always searching for something better. I think everything gets boring after awhile.
That would be great!I don't think the idea is that you'd be permanently happy, but permanently compatible.
Very trueWell, happy ever after is possible thanks to modern drugs. But, without them nope.
Humans can not always be happy. If they were then that would become the new baseline, which wouldn't really be happy any more. It would just be okay. We are always searching for something better. I think everything gets boring after awhile.
All very trueEven as an old lady, I've always been a romantic at heart. That being said, you've all made valid points. Happily ever after isn't just something that falls into your lap. Even if you meet someone who seems "perfect" for you and you immediately click.... there's always something there that you may have to work through... something called life and adult responsibilities. LOL
I think I have dated a lot of selfish men over the years because I'm a caretaker. However, the second something happens in my life (ie my dad's cancer, my own health issues) that I need support or help with and these same men I've been with for years just throw tantrums and I have to let them go so I can take care of me and my family. Then I realize as I look back, they were just place-holders.
Now, I think I'm too old to change my ways for anyone. But, I still love to see love happening!
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