Do you believe in ever after ?

[user 139760]

Not anymore.

 

[user 188685]

Maybe it's possible for some, but as for me being 33 never dated,never had a girlfriend it's not possible. I'm going to pick the guitar soon as I can afford to something to fill the void. I have a lot of free time not a lot but I either work or at home trying to find things to distract myself from the fact I have no friends or family and nothing to do...

Hey,welcome to the forum site,why don't you go and introduce yourself in the new members section.

 

[Nicolelt]

Do you believe in happly ever after?I mean really happy forever?Some people don't trust and have a lot of trust issues,what are your thoughts on this?

No, because in the grand scheme of things, yes, you can be happy. But some days just suck. And you have to dig yourself (or the relationship) out of a hole.

 

[user 188685]

Not anymore.

I'm sorry to hear this,did you used to think there was a happily ever after?

 

[Finished]

I think it used to exist. I remember how much people used to look forward to retiring and enjoying life. I know my grandparents did. They had a hard life in the beginning. They struggled to raise a small family. Then my grandfather retired and they enjoyed themselves for about 30 years until their health started to fail.

The problem is that life really sucks now. There's nothing to look forward to. It's like most everybody is waiting for all the **** to stop so we can all get back to something better. But, it's not going to happen. This is as good as it's going to be for a very long time. So, enjoy it.

 

[user 139760]

I'm sorry to hear this,did you used to think there was a happily ever after?

Oh, I think most people do at some point, but if life becomes too harsh and throws you too many hurdles, it becomes much harder to see.

 

[MrLonely86]

Long story short: no.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Yes, I do. Some loves never die.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Ever After? I barely even believe in a Right Now.

 

[Bam111]

Maybe it's possible for some, but as for me being 33 never dated,never had a girlfriend it's not possible. I'm going to pick the guitar soon as I can afford to something to fill the void. I have a lot of free time not a lot but I either work or at home trying to find things to distract myself from the fact I have no friends or family and nothing to do...

Lone you may not believe in a happy ever after, but you can still have a friend if you want one someone who you can chill be yourself around shoot the breeze with or talk to whenever you're not feeling your best that is if you want a friend I here for anyone looking for a friend.

 

[fruitbug]

I used to, but reality is different. But I still hope for it someday.

 

[user 188685]

I used to, but reality is different. But I still hope for it someday.

I know the feeling,me too

 

[dan27]

We can Dream it....we can Wish it....but darned if i can find it....

( Love can be so one-sided !)

 

[Bam111]

happily, ever after: Many different happily ever after options in life so to be more specific? Love: love in oneself, love for family, for others, for the creator, for the environment, for your partner. Happiness: In life living for the joy of simply living (aka the journey), in giving the joy to others through charity, conversation, friendship, your work. I believe all these things are possible, through the power of intention what do I mean? We must first change are mind state think in a different way other than a state of unhappiness this mind state brings depression, doubt, fear, laziness, regret, uncertainty, negativity, anger and so many more negative ways of thought/thinking. Instead strive for positivity a positive mind state brings different possibilities such as joy, happiness, love, gratitude, empathy, success, abundance, wealth and other things. Then we must feel that emotion with our heart why? this helps the thought solidify in are intention and helps channel the thought into reality (remember a thought is simply intention without action) we feel the positivity it's easier to do the next step. Now give it action you must put the thought and that emotion into your objective reality, you must be positive in yourself and go out and be positive in life help others, motivate them, seek connections, establish relationships friendship/relationship if you want happily ever after there are many different paths to happiness which one are you seeking? Let me think...

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I believe in happy right nows, my mum was with my dad since 18 (death parted them) and their relationship is something I’ve always wanted for myself… a man who would treat me like how he treated her…. Unrealistic these days but I know someone can be your “happy right now” because forever isn't real (to me).

 

[Bam111]

I believe in happy right nows, my mum was with my dad since 18 (death parted them) and their relationship is something I’ve always wanted for myself… a man who would treat me like how he treated her…. Unrealistic these days but I know someone can be your “happy right now” because forever isn't real (to me).

I would be interested to hear about what it means to you the happily right now and why you don't believe in forever not that I'm trying to debate I'm just interested in a new perspective. can you explain?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I would be interested to hear about what it means to you the happily right now and why you don't believe in forever not that I'm trying to debate I'm just interested in a new perspective. can you explain?

I think everything starts a new stage, your favourite film at 12 is not your fave film by 21. Doesn't mean there isn’t a special place in your heart for that film, or ever liking that film was a waste of time. Sadly most of us look at relationships that way, oh it ended so it was pointless… you know?

 

[Bam111]

I dont but I wish to understand every relationship I have had in my life helped me grow as a person, was it hard at times (of course) but throughout my history it has never bin easy starting with the first women in my life my mother (I have already covered her in a post before so I won't go into it unless people wish to know I can elaborate) I have forgiven her and we reconciled later on in life the first love of my life she taught me (patience) she had a troubled past as well hers was more sexually orientated however, she was a good girl but she was also confused in what she wanted at the time so it did not work out, the next taught me (true friendship) after her we are still friends to this day she has a child already and I couldn't be more happy for her she always wanted to be a mother. It doesn't stop at just relationships I have learned from acquaintances, friends, family. But I wish to understand so don't think I'm trying to debate or tell you one way I simply wish to understand everyone's point of view if you would share it (if not I completely understand.) thank you

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I dont but I wish to understand every relationship I have had in my life helped me grow as a person, was it hard at times (of course) but throughout my history it has never bin easy starting with the first women in my life my mother (I have already covered her in a post before so I won't go into it unless people wish to know I can elaborate) I have forgiven her and we reconciled later on in life the first love of my life she taught me (patience) she had a troubled past as well hers was more sexually orientated however, she was a good girl but she was also confused in what she wanted at the time so it did not work out, the next taught me (true friendship) after her we are still friends to this day she has a child already and I couldn't be more happy for her she always wanted to be a mother. It doesn't stop at just relationships I have learned from acquaintances, friends, family. But I wish to understand so don't think I'm trying to debate or tell you one way I simply wish to understand everyone's point of view if you would share it (if not I completely understand.) thank you

Very interesting perspective! Honestly, what is this place if we don't share ideas, I like your take, I deffo view everything as a learning experience, and I appreciate my time with people as I believe we are all here temporarily. I always thought that fairytales, say happily ever after, the end... whereas I think it should be "happily ever after until the end"as unfortunately it always ends, wether its death, break ups or whatever.

 

[Bam111]

Very interesting perspective! Honestly, what is this place if we don't share ideas, I like your take, I deffo view everything as a learning experience, and I appreciate my time with people as I believe we are all here temporarily. I always thought that fairytales, say happily ever after, the end... whereas I think it should be "happily ever after until the end"as unfortunately it always ends, wether its death, break ups or whatever.

thank you for explaining to me I appreciate your feedback, couldn't agree with you more about sharing Ideas.