Fetishes

[TheSkaFish]

Still curvy/thick women, but also with another twist - taller than me. I mean, shorter or the same height works too, I guess I find the height/size difference thing interesting in some way. Maybe my lizard brain thinks they're stronger or something. Or maybe it's just novelty.

Part of me wants to climb on an Amazonian goddess, but at almost 6' myself, just finding one could be a challenge.

 

[ardour]

These sound more like preferences than fetishes.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Still curvy/thick women, but also with another twist - taller than me. I mean, shorter or the same height works too, I guess I find the height/size difference thing interesting in some way. Maybe my lizard brain thinks they're stronger or something. Or maybe it's just novelty.

Part of me wants to climb on an Amazonian goddess, but at almost 6' myself, just finding one could be a challenge.

That's what heels are for.

 

[TheSkaFish]

That's what heels are for.

Lol. For the longest time it didn't make sense to me why women would want to wear such uncomfortable-looking shoes, but now that you mention it I think I get it now!

 

[August Campbell]

Has anyone heard of this fetish? This report comes from Fox 11-TV in Washington.
Investigators in Vancouver, Washington, looking into sexual exploitation, uncovered a nasty habit of Stephen Sharp, a night manager at an Arby's restaurant there. After conducting a search of his digital devices, police found a video of him urinating into a container of of milk-shake mix from Arby's. He confessed that he had done so at least twice for sexual gratification. Sharp said it would have been added to another bag of mix and used during the next shift to make shakes for customers.
Officers are seeking people who have ordered a shake during that time-period and still have a receipt. Stephen Sharp is facing multiple charges and is being held at the Clark County Jail.
Has anyone ever heard of that kind of fetish before?

 

[August Campbell]

Lol. For the longest time it didn't make sense to me why women would want to wear such uncomfortable-looking shoes, but now that you mention it I think I get it now!

The bad drawback of women who wear high heels too often is that they develop severe foot problems.

 

[user 191131]

A woman can be thin-ish, plump-ish, ideal figure, and plain but it's the way she walks that excites me.

 

[user 191138]

A bizarre social phenomenon is Fetishism. What prompted me to introduce this topic was the following news report from Arkansas: (Armless Fetishist) An arrest warrant was issued in Little Rock, Arkansas, for Brian Dale Reams,32, in connection with several incidents where he allegedly approached women and asked if he could touch their feet---with a twist, KA-TV from Arkansas reported.
In Conway, Arkansas, a woman said a man with No arms followed her into a Walmart, telling her she had pretty feet and asking if she liked having people touch them. Later he began harassing her on Facebook.
Also, a second woman said a man matching the same description (but wearing a face mask with "Brian" written on it) followed her around the same Walmart and wondered if she'd let him give her a foot massage. He apparently didn't explain how that might work.
A third identified him after viewing screenshots of his Facebook account--he approached her in a Kroger store.

I love me a good fetish and bdsm, I think that most folks who suffer from depression have a deviation in ***

 

[TheSkaFish]

I just read an article in The Guardian a few days ago, saying that sexual choking is becoming more mainstream in younger people.

I really don't understand this. It's something that has absolutely no appeal to me whatsoever.
None of that violent stuff appeals to me.

It's probably something that crossed over from the XXX world, into the mainstream.
I really think there needs to be a solid boundary between those things.
That stuff needs to stay underground. I feel like all it's doing is helping to mess up culture, even if it isn't solely responsible for messing it up.
It's more like a symptom of "got mine, f you" culture overall - this time in the sexual rather than financial world.

It also angers me that some of the guys mentioned, were told by their partners either NOT to choke them, or to stop, but then went ahead and did it anyway. I'm sure these guys have been acting like this for a while now, and will continue to go on acting like this in the future with no significant consequences at all.

This is the kind of person that's been getting their way all their life, and knows how to game the system both to get their way, and to get out of trouble for their wrongdoings. I grew up around some people like this, and it seems they are all over the place now. Society is, and perhaps always was, too permissive to people like this, when everyone knows what they're doing - at least everyone knows they're up to no good for selfish ends, even if they don't know the exact details. They're clearly not good people, you don't need to be a genius to see it.

Some people really need to get hit in the face with a hammer. I really feel like a beatdown is the only thing they understand.

EDIT:
I shouldn't talk so much about things that bother me, since I'm getting older here, and talking about things we don't like doesn't make the best, most interesting and fun versions of ourselves shine through.

But sometimes you have to get it off your chest before you can forget it.

 

[TheRealCallie]

This is the kind of person that's been getting their way all their life, and knows how to game the system both to get their way, and to get out of trouble for their wrongdoings.

I have to disagree with you there. I would say they have NOT gotten their way their entire life, which is why they turn to controlling things they can, like the little woman who is not nearly as strong as they are. Throw in some emotional abuse and the women won't leave, even though they know they don't like it and the man is in full control. They don't get in trouble because the women are too scared to file charges.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are a few who are exactly like you mentioned, but most likely not even close to the majority. Not everything is always as it seems, Ska. Not everything is as black and white as one might think it is.

 

[TheSkaFish]

I have to disagree with you there. I would say they have NOT gotten their way their entire life, which is why they turn to controlling things they can, like the little woman who is not nearly as strong as they are. Throw in some emotional abuse and the women won't leave, even though they know they don't like it and the man is in full control. They don't get in trouble because the women are too scared to file charges.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are a few who are exactly like you mentioned, but most likely not even close to the majority. Not everything is always as it seems, Ska. Not everything is as black and white as one might think it is.

That is a good point come to think of it.
It could be someone that usually can't control anything, so they look for someone they're stronger than, to control and emotionally manipulate.
When I read the article, it didn't really say what kind of guy these guys were, but I immediately thought of the stereotypical frat boy/finance bro type, the kind that life never tells them "no". They have no respect for anyone or anything, because there are never any consequences.

Then there's the shame factor too, for the woman to come forward. They risk humiliation, to get someone to listen to their case.

Either way though, even if it's not frat boys doing it, it's still wrong though. And I still don't understand violent fetishes.

 

[insecure]

I have my own fetishes, and those are definitely not in a position where I would be the dominant partner, on the contrary.
As I don't have that much self-confidence, according to your theory, I would want to dominate a woman instead, controlling her.
So how do you explain that, then?
Personally, I think a fetish can arise around anything, sometimes inanimate objects (some people have a fetish for stockings), sometimes around persons (like being specifically attracted to persons of a different race), sometimes around situations (like fantasising about being '*****').
I think what turns you on is a bunch of connections in your brain, and those get molded from very early on, and are influenced by what you see and hear.
I think as long as it's consenting adults there is no problem with fetishes.
But it has to be real consent.
A friend of mine told me that she had been together with some friends, and the lady of a couple was pregnant, and was expected to have a child in about 4 weeks time.
At that point her boyfriend told her he had been seeing this other woman, and that he 'needed' it to be non-monogamous.
If he wasn't allowed to he would break up the relationship, leaving her with the child to raise on her own.
She allowed him to continue having a relationship with both, but of course this type of 'consent' is highly questionable.

 

[TheSkaFish]

A friend of mine told me that she had been together with some friends, and the lady of a couple was pregnant, and was expected to have a child in about 4 weeks time.
At that point her boyfriend told her he had been seeing this other woman, and that he 'needed' it to be non-monogamous.
If he wasn't allowed to he would break up the relationship, leaving her with the child to raise on her own.
She allowed him to continue having a relationship with both, but of course this type of 'consent' is highly questionable.

Not only does the guy in this story sound extremely selfish, and like he doesn't even appreciate or respect his girlfriend, but it sounds like he is aware of this and not even trying to not act like that.

Guys like this are apparently immune to shame, but shame on him anyway.

 

[insecure]

Not only does the guy in this story sound extremely selfish, and like he doesn't even appreciate or respect his girlfriend, but it sounds like he is aware of this and not even trying to not act like that.

Guys like this are apparently immune to shame, but shame on him anyway.

I don't know the guy personally, it is just from hearsay, but it feels to me like a form of blackmail.
As in "you let me have my way or you can take care of the baby yourself."
Of course, Belgium has laws that would force him to financially assist, but still, I assume she still loves him, and doesn't want to go through motherhood alone.

Ah, yes, I forgot a detail, he wanted to have *** with this other woman, because they were both into BDSM, and he "needed" it because she was a dominatrix.

 

[TheSkaFish]

I don't know the guy personally, it is just from hearsay, but it feels to me like a form of blackmail.
As in "you let me have my way or you can take care of the baby yourself."
Of course, Belgium has laws that would force him to financially assist, but still, I assume she still loves him, and doesn't want to go through motherhood alone.

Ah, yes, I forgot a detail, he wanted to have *** with this other woman, because they were both into BDSM, and he "needed" it because she was a dominatrix.

That's how I read it too.
I get the feeling this guy has no real regard for his girlfriend or child, but rather sees the baby as a bargaining chip to threaten her with, to allow him to do what he wants. He seems to be the kind of person that knows what he's doing is wrong, yet chooses to do it anyway.

I don't even know this guy either but I feel like I know enough to say I don't like him already.

 

[okidoke]

I do have fetishes, turn ons, call them what you will, but not the company to indulge myself with. And no, you don’t need to know what they might be

 

[Draven]

I like ***** too, Okidoke and it felt inappropriate to mention this here however. . . It popped up on the forum dawg. Who else is into what anyway? Hell why not the company though . I'll never meet you people. Btw oki nice workout video. Crushed it. And as a YouTuber thanks for adding your time at the end.