find love when you least expect it

[unlucky in life]

It has been my experience that I have found love when I was specifically not looking for it.

I think that a large part of it has to do with how unattractive it is to have waves of desperation rolling off of you, it almost clings to you like a disgusting stink at times and, for me at least, it is almost immediately repellent - and this applies to men and women equally.

Someone who is at ease with himself/herself is so much more appealing on a visceral level.

Of course, this is just me. Other people may have a different opinion.

how do you know some one is desperate or not i don't know these things
how can some one tell . but good looks play big part too so what
if you some has no good looks and nice shape only bare personality like me not much eles.i choose all the wrongs guys who are above me or out of league

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Uhm... I appreciate you sending me a PM, unlucky, but it would be a lot easier if you just... said what language YOU are most comfortable with, rather than making me read about Ireland!

if i wrote my own language you would NOT know it unless you speak and read it and it take life time to learn basic irish off by heart .i don't speak for i have no need to speak it .

 

[VanillaCreme]

Uhm... I appreciate you sending me a PM, unlucky, but it would be a lot easier if you just... said what language YOU are most comfortable with, rather than making me read about Ireland!

Lol. They speak fluent English in Ireland. I have no idea why she doesn't seem to know how to speak it, or type it.

 

[tangerinedream]

It has been my experience that I have found love when I was specifically not looking for it.

I think that a large part of it has to do with how unattractive it is to have waves of desperation rolling off of you, it almost clings to you like a disgusting stink at times and, for me at least, it is almost immediately repellent - and this applies to men and women equally.

Someone who is at ease with himself/herself is so much more appealing on a visceral level.

Of course, this is just me. Other people may have a different opinion.

how do you know some one is desperate or not i don't know these things
how can some one tell . but good looks play big part too so what
if you some has no good looks and nice shape only bare personality like me not much eles.i choose all the wrongs guys who are above me or out of league

It's hard to describe it exactly, but it can be seen in facial expressions that seem too hopeful, sometimes people's behavior seems forced, laughing too loudly at things that aren't all that funny, being too loud in general for attention.

Body language says a lot. If you have a difficult time reading people, then this point may be hard to read.

 

[unlucky in life]

i have no answer to my question i am lost. some people have no finding people who attract to them but for its impossible nightmare
now i pick guys from movies and dream as reality is beyond my grasp .i chosse who are not interested i repeat not interested in the last very
last guy i like was lectures 18 years older then who i could actual have conversation with with out any childish remarks and smart comments he study for his PHD in English

before yee ask any about english he was not my lecture. no i was not asking improve my English writing or spelling and grammar.


some yee think professors of English which any of yee are comment my English. well i don't understand american -English they phase things. we phase things differently in Irish-English that yee don't understand me .that how we speak here.

 

[IgnoredOne]

I communicate with Irish on a regular basis; they speak fluent English. I find your claims that the Irish do not to be insulting toward your own countrypeople. The fact that communication skills are important as a tool of interaction should be obvious, but I suspect that you have some more fundamental learning disabilities. I hope that you will be able to get some assistance with those; have none of your psychologists suggests medicine to assist you?

 

[Limlim]

She might be talking about Gaelic (aka irish)? There are still a few isolated communities in Ireland that speak it. She did say she was from out in the boonies.

 

[unlucky in life]

PLEASE STAY ON THREAD THAT WAS WRITTEN AND STOP COMING OFF THE TOPIC !

 

[tangerinedream]

I think she said elsewhere that she doesn't speak Irish Gaelic. I might be mistaken though.

 

[nerdygirl]

PLEASE STAY ON THREAD THAT WAS WRITTEN AND STOP COMING OFF THE TOPIC !

Aww, you know, sometimes, I feel like typing that very same thing.

 

[Callie]

PLEASE STAY ON THREAD THAT WAS WRITTEN AND STOP COMING OFF THE TOPIC !

Why? Ain't like you listen... just saying

 

[Equinox]

If she were to start writing Gaelic, I might actually be able to understand some of what she was saying. (I studied celtic civ. at Glasgow uni.)

 

[unlucky in life]

raibh maith agat as cabhair Yee. éigin eile a thriail thug faoi ghramadach nach bhfuil aon chabhair ar chor ar bith nach bhfuil a fhios agam cén fáth fiú trácht ar an gcéad dul fiú amháin a bheith cliste a bheidh ag iarraidh a bheith ar mo snáithe a rinneadh i ionas gur féidir le roinnt daoine cabhrú leat.
Ní Gaelic a labhraíonn muid gaeilge

 

[Equinox]

Yeeaahh ... that didn't really make much sense, either. Her Gaelic is pretty much the same as her English. Spelling is better, but grammar, sentence structure and lack of punctuation still makes the message a guessing game. This is beyond my linguistic skills.

Tá brón orm.

 

[nerdygirl]

Darn. I was very hopeful.

 

[unlucky in life]

PLEASE DON'T MAKE ANY MORE COMMENTS UNTIL REFERRING TO MY OPENING PARAGRAPH AS WILL I WILL NO LONGER ANSWER

NONE OF YEE SPEAK IRISH OR LEANED THIS AT SCHOOL STOP MAKING COMMENTS ON AND YEE KNOW NOTHING I ACTUAL PHYSICAL PAINFUL LEARN THIS LANGUAGE AND GO THROUGH EXAMS AND ORAL I PASSED!

IF ITS ON OPEN PARAGRAPHY I AM GOING ITS POINTLESS I AM FEED THE **** UP COMMENT ON MY ENGLISH GRAMMER NOT HELPING ME WITH MY QUESTION I AM VERY ANNOYED KEEP COMMENT ON ENGLISH AS EXPERTS AT ENGLISH WHICH ANY YEE ARE .


PLEASE STICK TO OPENING PARAGRAPH

 

[IgnoredOne]

Actually, I am a professional reviewer for a literature magazine so I may adequately consider myself an 'expert on English'. Anger is not conducive to successful communication.

 

[nerdygirl]

Good grief. The reason we bring up your English skills is because in every one of your threads, either you don't understand us, or we don't understand you. We cannot stick to the topic if we don't know what the topic is. We cannot answer your questions more clearly than we already have been.
If the only thing you're asking is:

Is "finding love when you least expect it" something that actually happens?

That is just something people say. There is no guarantee that you're going to find love when you least expect it. You may never find love. You may find love exactly when you expect it. There are so many variables on when and if a person is going to find love.

 

[Callie]

PLEASE DON'T MAKE ANY MORE COMMENTS UNTIL REFERRING TO MY OPENING PARAGRAPH AS WILL I WILL NO LONGER ANSWER

NONE OF YEE SPEAK IRISH OR LEANED THIS AT SCHOOL STOP MAKING COMMENTS ON AND YEE KNOW NOTHING I ACTUAL PHYSICAL PAINFUL LEARN THIS LANGUAGE AND GO THROUGH EXAMS AND ORAL I PASSED!

IF ITS ON OPEN PARAGRAPHY I AM GOING ITS POINTLESS I AM FEED THE **** UP COMMENT ON MY ENGLISH GRAMMER NOT HELPING ME WITH MY QUESTION I AM VERY ANNOYED KEEP COMMENT ON ENGLISH AS EXPERTS AT ENGLISH WHICH ANY YEE ARE .


PLEASE STICK TO OPENING PARAGRAPH

People are trying to help you. SO WHY THE **** ARE YOU YELLING AT THEM? As I said, it's not like you'd listen anyway.

 

[Ghost Boy]

Talk about getting nowhere fast...

 

[firebird85]

this is a cliche line, and it's only good for women, because they are already guaranteed a guy.

Men aren't guaranteed anything.