Get Over Being Judged

[Lady Gaga Snerd]

Other people may "judge" you or not judge you. So what? Why do so many people hear give that so much power over their lives? Do they pay your bills? Are they going to be standing by your bedside when you are ill? Are they going to celebrate the joys of your life?
If not , why do you CARE what they think? Who cares? Stop giving strangers the power to control your mood and feelings. If they don't like you, they don't like you. No law says everybody has to like everyone. Be comfortable in who you are and to heck with them. IF they don't like who you are, then they can go pound salt as your life is none of their business. Forget about them and focus on people such as your family or friends who truly do care about you.

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By, and if you think you DON'T judge others, you do. Everybody judges. Judgement isn't necessarily a bad thing. We ALL make judgements about all kinds of things. We might judge that we look better in one outfit over another. We might judge that skipping dessert today is better for our health. You judge as well. I judge. SO WHAT?

 

[Mr.YellowCat]

I do agree with everything you said.
But its not as clear.
For the critiques and negative judgements, for most people there is a counter value of those people who care about them, and are nice to them, value them.
If there is no partner, or someone, at home, to tell you otherwise, those critiques will get to you more closely, as they are of the few personal interactions that someone gets.

I think that this discussion, about ignoring the negative critiques is quite complicated and deep matter, and its not very clear. And it goes on and on and on, considering many of the things that our social life is consisted of. Not to make my post that long, I will not mention them, and only state, that its not as clear and easy, unfortunately....I think...

 

[EveWasFramed]

I think you're going a bit overboard with your "tough love" speech.
It's gotten to the point where members are starting to report your posts as too negative and detrimental to the members here. We ask that you tone down your rhetoric.