For the record, Unlucky, and to expand on what Vanilla just said...
Men don't always go for the same type of girl. I remember one girl that had a crush on me, who looked like Jessica Simpson (true story.) She also went around with a scowl on her face, and was constantly negative and picking fights with everyone.
I said, thanks, but no thanks.
At the same time, and in the same class, she had a friend. Her friend was a geeky intellectual, who was average looking (at least by society's standards), and quiet and kept to herself. However, she always went around smiling, joking in a quiet manner, and generally being cute as hell.
I asked her out. She had a boyfriend. I checked this out myself, and yes, she did have a boyfriend. I wished her well, and we remained friends.
People generally aren't attracted to depressed people.