SophiaGrace: Well, I was mostly talking about how often when a person (and not just women, btw) is extremely handsome/pretty or popular, they seem to have an easier time of things. People give them more attention, let the rules slide for them a bit, give them chances or bonuses that others won't get. When someone is pampered like that, they aren't forced to face the same challenges that cause others to grow or learn character. Take Paris Hilton, for example. She gets everything...attention, money, fame, and she doesn't do anything to earn it...so while she may be pretty (to some. I think she's ugly), she's about as interesting and engaging as used, drying toilet paper. (That's an extreme example, but it conveys my point).
If you get everything for free or for little effort, you appreciate it less. If everyone pays attention to you because you're pretty, you never have to develop a sense of humor or an interesting personality to draw people in....things like that.
That's why I commented that sometimes the ugliest people you see will be the nicest, most funny people you'll ever meet. They were FORCED to develop that way simply in order to survive in a society that values the outside appearance.
----Steve