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It was started by a woman who couldn't get laid, imagine that. Well, after she was able to start dating, because she was a women, she left the group. But, she said she doesn't feel guilty about it. She says that atleast they have a support group where others can share their pain and problems that they have. It's also interesting that not an Incels all male.
 
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Yeps us women have struggles too... well not me obviously... I joke I joke.. even I have been rejected more times than I care to count, been asked out for a dare, had no one to go to prom with... hated everything about who I am and how I looked for so long... before the attack I got over it, broke up a few relationships for revenge instead of making posts about men online lol ...I did a lot of things I shouldn't have done... out of resentment for the men that once said I wasn't good enough... I just wanted them to prove to me I was the better woman, I won...but... I also lost, by hurting others.
 
So, I wonder do female Incels hate alpha males or all males?

From what I've read, it's all of them.

I saw the "femcel" reddit once, it was just like any other reddit in that category.
I almost made a throwaway account to try to refute the things they said about all men, but I decided not to bother as their minds were already made up, and I realized I didn't have to care about it anyway.
 
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What's sad is... I've been on both sides of the fence... the fence men either doesn't know exists or pretends not to... I could probably have a man lick my toes right now if I wanted to... and it has nothing to do with my personality lol
 
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What's sad is... I've been on both sides of the fence... the fence men either doesn't know exists or pretends not to... I could probably have a man lick my toes right now if I wanted to... and it has nothing to do with my personality lol

Incel Tears are straight up ********, scumbags, and cowards. Just bullies looking to get their jollies by picking on people smaller than them, plain and simple. And they get to enjoy protection too, because no one cares about the people they pick on.

The thing I really hate about Incel Tears people, is that I get the feeling that these people are bullying others to try to make up for the fact that they weren't "cool" growing up - because like I said before, anyone that actually has anything going on, has neither the time nor the feelings to spare on this. But now the Incel Tears people finally found someone they think is even smaller and weaker than them to ridicule, and finally feel like they're higher than someone. And since no one cares about their target, the Incel Tears people are able to bully them with impunity. They remind me of poor Republicans - people who just need to find someone to feel better than in order to feel better about themselves, and who think that by siding with the "winners", that they'll be winners too by extension. But they don't get that it doesn't matter how much you take their side, you'll never be one of them, the "winners" will never accept you.

Also they are brown-nosers, they're kiss-*****. They just make a big show of morality about how they are. It's gross. It's like they're trying to win the favor of their social "superiors" by groveling about how much they obey the "rules".

I hate it because people like that should know better - not sink to the same level as the people who used to bully them. For that, I feel like they are trash. If they sincerely want to help, then help. But don't make fun of people, especially people weaker than you and/or who obviously have a problem. That's just kicking someone when they are down and it's not cool.

The bottom picture though, no one should obey anyone else just because they are hot. Instead of saying "of course Stacy" he should say "hell no, do it yourself". He needs to realize that "Stacy" will never accept him, but also that it's OK and not his fault, and he should just walk away. Don't be someone else's fool, don't give away your pride - especially just to try to fit in with people that look down on you anyway.
 
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From what I've read, it's all of them.

I saw the "femcel" reddit once, it was just like any other reddit in that category.
I almost made a throwaway account to try to refute the things they said about all men, but I decided not to bother as their minds were already made up, and I realized I didn't have to care about it anyway.
Wow! I had no idea about the femcels. I just read that Incels and Femcels do not like each other because they aren't having ***. Okay, so, how about renting out several church dance rooms, taking away the Incels and Femcels weapons at the door, and making them talk to each other while playing **** on the monitors above them and turn the lights down low?
 
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What's sad is... I've been on both sides of the fence... the fence men either doesn't know exists or pretends not to... I could probably have a man lick my toes right now if I wanted to... and it has nothing to do with my personality lol

Of course insides count. Healthy organs are always in demand.
 
Incel Tears are straight up ********, scumbags, and cowards. Just bullies looking to get their jollies pick on people smaller than them, plain and simple. And they get to enjoy protection too, because no one cares about the people they pick on.

The thing I really hate about Incel Tears people, is that I get the feeling that these people are bullying others to try to make up for the fact that they weren't "cool" growing up. And now they've found someone they think is even smaller and weaker than them to ridicule, and finally feel like they're higher than someone. And since no one cares about their target, the Incel Tears people are able to bully them with impunity.

I hate it because people like that should know better - not sink to the same level as the people who used to bully them. I feel like they are trash.

The bottom picture though, no one should obey anyone else just because they are hot. Instead of saying "of course Stacy" he should say "hell no, do it yourself".
Honestly... I don't agree with bullying on any form... I hate bullies, so I cant respect people that condone or engage in bullying. However, I can look into various sides of arguments and pull out key points that I agree with... even within the hate filled incel movement lol

Most men bend over backwards for women they find attractive, thats just life, theres various species in the animal kingdom that the males do a dance, demonstration of strength, build a nest... something... to be able to mate. It's dominantly that way round.

As a woman... its a given I can find a man that'll do as I say for the slight idea of a chance that he may have a tiny...speck... of luck with me, if I call that out... im a narcissist, however... it's just the truth... the hotter I am.. the more men that are willing and thats how it works.
 
It was started by a woman who couldn't get laid, imagine that. Well, after she was able to start dating, because she was a women, she left the group. But, she said she doesn't feel guilty about it. She says that atleast they have a support group where others can share their pain and problems that they have. It's also interesting that not an Incels all male.

lol @yr pic. Interesting. I always thought it was started by some youtuber guy. It's getting out of hand. Self loathing, self pity, and then some men are just good normal average and claim to be incels. Same for women. There are a few good ones who really give good advice without self hate.
 
lol @yr pic. Interesting. I always thought it was started by some youtuber guy. It's getting out of hand. Self loathing, self pity, and then some men are just good normal average and claim to be incels. Same for women. There are a few good ones who really give good advice without self hate.
I think not attracting someone can make people feel worthless, imo men more than women (under 35) honestly... if they feel worthless, they'll become worthless... why? because they'll engage in behaviour that is unproductive and feeding their insecurities
 
lol @yr pic. Interesting. I always thought it was started by some youtuber guy. It's getting out of hand. Self loathing, self pity, and then some men are just good normal average and claim to be incels. Same for women. There are a few good ones who really give good advice without self hate.
From what I read, and I no longer provide evidence with my posts because it doesn't matter, is that a woman started it because she wanted a support group for herself and let anybody join. It was a legit calm, rational group at first. Then different groups branched out and things changed. I guess that's why early on I was yep, I'm an Incel by definition. Now everything Incel is labelled as hatered. I also read that in some states when a person commits a serious crime and is identified as an Incel they can also be charged with terrorism. Crazy.
 
From what I read, and I no longer provide evidence with my posts because it doesn't matter, is that a woman started it because she wanted a support group for herself and let anybody join. It was a legit calm, rational group at first. Then different groups branched out and things changed. I guess that's why early on I was yep, I'm an Incel by definition. Now everything Incel is labelled as hatered. I also read that in some states when a person commits a serious crime and is identified as an Incel they can also be charged with terrorism. Crazy.

Go on the incel forum... you'll see what some do and excuse it as simple internet rage venting... total sickos.
 
It was started by a woman who couldn't get laid, imagine that. Well, after she was able to start dating, because she was a women, she left the group. But, she said she doesn't feel guilty about it. She says that atleast they have a support group where others can share their pain and problems that they have. It's also interesting that not an Incels all male.
It's not a "movement". It's a group of of people. 99.9% of whom are males.
 
It started as a group and has changed and become more then that. They created all kinds of things including their own beliefs, language, vision, plan, actions, etc, etc, etc. Your splitting hairs with it not being a movement. As far as percentage I don't know. But from a quick search, "femcels exist in large numbers."
 

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