How I am going to break out of it all...

[SophiaGrace]

I think the mods would say something if they deleted posts...

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Like give a warning after they deleted them

 

[cheaptrickfan]

I think the mods would say something if they deleted posts...

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Like give a warning after they deleted them

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It's hard for me because I've been manic these past 2 weeks and that can send me into paranoia hell. :/

 

[The-One]

Guys don't let yourself be baited...

Lol, if this guy is trolling, he's bad.

That's because I am not trolling.

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The only real bad side to what you're planning on doing is that you would be emotionally hurting girls if you're going to shag them and dump them.
Do whatever you want to yourself, but don't hurt others. They haven't hurt you.

Ah but you see, it only sound bad when I say it out explicitly and loud for the world to hear. This is no different to a mental calculation by A to dump B because A finds C to be more attractive than B and wants a change.

At somepoint or other, A is going to dump B (unless they get married), so A might as well dump B whenever A likes it or when A finds C.

In any case, have you observed the beautiful girls and the fit lads? They change partners more than the average or ugly do. Only the beautiful and fit solely reserve the right to be capricious and choosy. The schumucks in a relationship get no say, they're the dumpees, not the dumpers.

So again, how will what I will be doing be any different than what people who reserve that right already who regularly exercise it? Only that I have little reservations by speaking social observations and not afraid of offending people with the truth.

And just to reassure you, it's not as if during the time of a relationship, I'll turn into the typical vest-wearing beer drinking wife beater. I would not end things on a note of "I tried you on for size, you're too fat, next".

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So you are basically going to be a prostitute and I guess 90% of the women (just what I think) who call on men are old and like very old (not going to say ages lol cos that might offend people in the forum). So yeah basically you are gonna have sex with some grandmas yeah? Probably date them? All the best dude. lol (nvm jk).
I would have appreciated you, if you changed your looks and all and instead of trying to be a male escort, if you tried to be a famous model or an actor (idk your acting skills so meh lol). If you are gonna do all this to just become a male escort (who might in time get many STDs like aids too), then I am sorry to say, you are in the wrong way and might be too late when you even realize it. (It's just in my view and maybe different in other's). Lol

Yes I realised, that inevitably there will be some unattractive older women. But then again, economics 101 and psychology/sociology will help me in that respect.

Economics 101 dictates that the most ugly are most poor and will not be able to afford an escort. If I just raise the price to certain level, the most ugly and the "undesirables" will be filtered out.

The psychology of females who go to escorts will invariably be different to that of men. Demographics will also come into play. The oldest will be the most conservative. They would not consider it. The youngest can go out to a nightclub and just spread her legs. No need.

There will inevitably be a band, say from 35-45, a group of women who fit various criterias and would consider an escort. I'm willing to bet a sizeable percentage of those do not resemble Jabba the Hutt. And in anycase, in every occupation, sometimes you've got to take one for the team.

Looking towards the future and have a look at the scientific and societal trends, age can be taken off with good enough cosmetic treatment. As bio-medical sciences advances, women of say 40 would look like 30 a decade ago.

In anycase, people who go to escorts mainly fall into one of 2 categories, those unconfident of their bodies and those who are. I'm also willing to bet more women who are more confident of their bodies than those who are ugly and not will seek out an escort.

And last of all, I did not say I would not seek out any females my age. And say in anycase, in 10 or 15 years time, how old will I be? Oh, about the age of the "grandmas" you were talking about.

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Only that a normal relationship is obviously not going to be an option with this kind of occupation. I do not wish to do escorting full time. I plan to live a double life, in fact I will be training for a profession in my next degree, the escorting etc will be the other half which is done for my own personal satisfaction.

I will date, but as I've said, no kids, wife, dog, white picket fence/country house with a volvo.

 

[Oceanmist23]

And just to reassure you, it's not as if during the time of a relationship, I'll turn into the typical vest-wearing beer drinking wife beater. I would not end things on a note of "I tried you on for size, you're too fat, next".

That's all I needed to hear. Whether that's true or not is a different matter.
You did make it sound as if you were going to dump girls in a rather bad way, but if you aren't, good.

 

[Zak]

And last of all, I did not say I would not seek out any females my age. And say in anycase, in 10 or 15 years time, how old will I be? Oh, about the age of the "grandmas" you were talking about.

So what are you planning to achieve? Just the pleasure of sex? You didn't comment on the possibilities of STDs. What about it?

 

[SophiaGrace]

Btw...the-One, I wasn't saying I thought YOU were a troll.

I was referring to someone else in this thread.

 

[The-One]

And last of all, I did not say I would not seek out any females my age. And say in anycase, in 10 or 15 years time, how old will I be? Oh, about the age of the "grandmas" you were talking about.

So what are you planning to achieve? Just the pleasure of sex? You didn't comment on the possibilities of STDs. What about it?

I'm seeking absolution, deliverance and vindication. (There's a section about it in my original post)

It's a risk sure and one needs to be careful. I have already decided the risk was acceptable when I visited prostitutes myself. You have to understand this, not only do I not want to get an STD from someone else, that someone else will not want to get an STD from me. The end result is that both parties are extra careful.

I will not be a prostitute in destitution like the less developed areas of the world where sexual health is fraught with lack of education, knowledge and awareness. So it's not as bad as you think.

 

[Zak]

And last of all, I did not say I would not seek out any females my age. And say in anycase, in 10 or 15 years time, how old will I be? Oh, about the age of the "grandmas" you were talking about.

So what are you planning to achieve? Just the pleasure of sex? You didn't comment on the possibilities of STDs. What about it?

I'm seeking absolution, deliverance and vindication. (There's a section about it in my original post)

It's a risk sure and one needs to be careful. I have already decided the risk was acceptable when I visited prostitutes myself. You have to understand this, not only do I not want to get an STD from someone else, that someone else will not want to get an STD from me. The end result is that both parties are extra careful.

I will not be a prostitute in destitution like the less developed areas of the world where sexual health is fraught with lack of education, knowledge and awareness. So it's not as bad as you think.

If thats you wanna do, then thats what you wanna do. Good luck in being an escort then. Oh I mean Good Luck in being a proud member of the fully developed areas of the world where sexual health is accompanied with education and awareness. Not bad as I think I guess.

 

[idle]

Btw...the-One, I wasn't saying I thought YOU were a troll.

I was referring to someone else in this thread.

Who might that be?

 

[The-One]

I will not be a prostitute in destitution like the less developed areas of the world where sexual health is fraught with lack of education, knowledge and awareness. So it's not as bad as you think.

Let's give a thought experiment.

Woman 1 regularly goes to escorts -> she will be careful to check often that she has not contracted an STD.

Woman 2 has not had sex in a long time -> a long time for most symptoms and diseases to have manifested themselves.

Woman 3 has just had sex with someone or is in a commited relationship -> They would not consider an escort, they would either stay in their happy relationship, or try her own luck in clubs.

I'm thinking this through rationally and logically, of course there is an element of risk. But as those who have played the boardgame "Risk" knows, take your risks carefully, and second guess everything. As long as the clientele is not uneducated yak farmers from Tibet, it'll be ok.

 

[Badjedidude]

Woman 4 has AIDS and destructively wants to spread it around to vindicate her personal mental demons.

Woman 5 regularly goes to escorts, but doesn't give a **** what she catches (this one is more probable than Woman 1, I think) and so never checks at all

Woman 6 is in a committed relationship but has sex with an escort, and...OOOPS! Angry boyfriend finds out and murders aforementioned escort.

Woman 7 accidentally (or purposely) gets pregnant after visiting escort (because NO birth control is 100% effective) and escort is taken to court; owes child support

See the direction that these are going? I think you missed a few possible situations in your "rational, logical" thought process. Statistical probability doesn't matter, as all it takes is ONE accident or messed up situation to screw you over. I'll help you out a bit with one thing: Your biggest flaw here is that you're assuming that women who visit escorts are all logical, rational, mentally balanced individuals.... but a great many of your "clients" are most likely going to be women that don't function correctly in society for some reason, and so are desperate and overly emotional...capable of any action. Another false assumption is that every woman who uses you will be careful about the health risks involved...and that's completely false.

Besides, it doesn't matter how careful you are. Look at the porn industry. Porn stars and actors are checked for STDs on a WEEKLY basis due to how often they're working...and yet porn stars have HUGE percentages of sexual infection and disease. It's the same with escorts. If someone's telling you (or you are thinking) that escorts are completely safe and healthy, then think again, my friend. You are MUCH greater at risk for these diseases than the general populace.

I still think you seem to have a very mechanical attitude about all of this, as if you're a piece of machinery "upgrading" itself before beginning its self-appointed tasking...all of this talk of using and dumping women supports that, despite your later retractions on the subject.

Don't misunderstand, I'm not insulting you...I just think that what you're doing with this is trying to use a band-aid to cover a gaping axe-wound. It just won't work. I think that even if you do become an escort, in 5 or 10 or even 15 years, you'll discover that nothing's changed and that you still feel the same about yourself as you did in the first place....that this idea of yours was a bad idea. It is a bad idea. But no one can force you to change.

Just consider it. Consider that you may be wrong, that's all I'm asking.

----Steve

 

[Zak]

The woman 7 scenario is quite a possibility if we're talking on purpose. there are women who will actually do this, and all it takes is for the woman to prick a hole in the condom packet when the escort isn't looking, or to take the used condom out of the trash after the escort has left and use the sperm...

A non deadly but certainly not fun STD is Herpes, which can be caught through for example oral sex or even kissing. Nothing like your mouth and chin full of Herpes warts after spending thousands of dollars "beautifying" yourself through cosmetic surgery.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Moderator's note:

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So, just to clarify, we do delete/edit posts without leaving a warning at times. Sometimes it's best just to quietly delete/edit and people will usually realize it was something that was found to be unacceptable.
I feel like this should answer any questions on the subject of post deletion/editing.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

Moderator's note:

At times, to delete a particular post, it is necessary to delete or edit any replies to said post by other members. Like when someone quotes the post in question for example. There is usually only ONE post which needs to be deleted, but there is at times, collateral dammage. We do try not to delete or alter any posts that have relative content to the thread's original topic however.

I figured that was it. Thanks.

 

[SophiaGrace]

I didn't know moderators could do that .

 

[Badjedidude]

They can do anything. -_- *looks around suspiciously*

In fact, since I'm telling you this, they might even--

----Steve

 

[EveWasFramed]

I didn't know moderators could do that .

Couldn't do what?

 

[SophiaGrace]

Delete posts and not tell anyone or give a warning lol

 

[Steel]

Delete posts and not tell anyone or give a warning lol

Lol, well, now you know

Coincidentally, I've censored myself before. Damn that sucks.

 

[Minus]

Delete posts and not tell anyone or give a warning lol

Also do you know how much spam would be here if we didn't?