Restless soul
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So what's the lesson learned today?
TheRealCallie said:I don't know what lesson you learned today. I would hope that it's not to go by words, intuition or vibes, but rather look at actions. They will tell you all you need to know.
If someone wanted to be in your life, they would be. Go find someone who DOES want to be in your life instead of focusing on those that clearly don't. Don't dismiss people because they think you might look like someone else. It's usually not an insult on their end. Manage your insecurities, your feelings, your reactions. Think before you act.
Guy on far right. Yes. The guy on left not sure why people make a big deal About him. So where you getting at?TheRealCallie said:But that's the thing. YOU don't consider them attractive, but that doesn't mean other people don't.
Do you consider these guys good looking?
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TheRealCallie said:What am I getting at? The only one of those three that I find attractive and good looking is the middle one. Yeah, the one on the right has a nice body, but his eyes are dead, IMO, that, to me, makes him not good looking.
And I don't see the obsession with the guy on the left either. Never did.
Restless soul said:TheRealCallie said:What am I getting at? The only one of those three that I find attractive and good looking is the middle one. Yeah, the one on the right has a nice body, but his eyes are dead, IMO, that, to me, makes him not good looking.
And I don't see the obsession with the guy on the left either. Never did.
So you would be in minority there. Because most people would consider the guy in middle average looking.
TheRealCallie said:Restless soul said:TheRealCallie said:What am I getting at? The only one of those three that I find attractive and good looking is the middle one. Yeah, the one on the right has a nice body, but his eyes are dead, IMO, that, to me, makes him not good looking.
And I don't see the obsession with the guy on the left either. Never did.
So you would be in minority there. Because most people would consider the guy in middle average looking.
That's my point though. There are more people in the minority than you realize. So why not give them a chance....even if you don't agree with them?
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So this guy....if someone said you look like him, would that be an insult or a compliment? It sounds like you don't think he's good looking, but you know most of the world does....
TheRealCallie said:They do it because you remind them of that person. That's not always a bad thing, that's what you need to realize.
Restless soul said:To bring this thread back on topic, callie and all others of course welcome to chime in.
Do you have people, maybe contacts in your phone that you long to be in contact with again and see. Ans can't help youself and still contact them after futile attempts only to be left in silence?
AmytheTemperamental said:I'm the one who silences people. People on my phone can contact me in every way possible except mind to mind...Why should I be annoyed by texts.
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