How Would You React To Catching Your Significant Other In Bed With Someone Else?

[condemnedsoul666]

666 - they are all very similar just wrapped different. We all get maybe one good one per lifetime. We usually screw that up then settle

why do u think so many men are married and miserable?

And there are no married women that are miserable?
Let me refer you to this again:

 

[LoneKiller]

Hey everybody! The San Antonio Spurs are looking good this year huh?

 

[Loser#1]

666 to hear them yes they are married and miserable. They tell us this while their husbands are away on business. Probably buying them whatever they want. I can't tell you how many times during my travels I've had some woman at a bar, or hotel restaurant tell me this. My answer is always the same regardless of how they look... Maybe if you talked to your husband about it instead of a guy you don't know it would get better.

I know they want sex and money, why should we give them everything they want

Spurs are old won't make it out of first round of playoffs

 

[LoneKiller]

I'm broke right now. Give me enough money and I'll have sex with an inflatable sheep!

 

[condemnedsoul666]

666 to hear them yes they are married and miserable. They tell us this while their husbands are away on business. Probably buying them whatever they want. I can't tell you how many times during my travels I've had some woman at a bar, or hotel restaurant tell me this. My answer is always the same regardless of how they look... Maybe if you talked to your husband about it instead of a guy you don't know it would get better.

What about all the men that do the exact same, while they're on these business trips of which you speak?
I'm sure there must be some. And y'know, there's also all the ones that have affairs 'n the like while "apparently" on them.
Oh and sure some women want sex and money (Okay probably a lot do) but so do men, just as many and just as much, if not, more!
:club:
I know I sure as hell would like some money. :shy:

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XD Are you part Welsh or something, LK?

 

[LoneKiller]

666 to hear them yes they are married and miserable. They tell us this while their husbands are away on business. Probably buying them whatever they want. I can't tell you how many times during my travels I've had some woman at a bar, or hotel restaurant tell me this. My answer is always the same regardless of how they look... Maybe if you talked to your husband about it instead of a guy you don't know it would get better.

What about all the men that do the exact same, while they're on these business trips of which you speak?
I'm sure there must be some. And y'know, there's also all the ones that have affairs 'n the like while "apparently" on them.
Oh and sure some women want sex and money (Okay probably a lot do) but so do men, just as many and just as much, if not, more!
:club:
I know I sure as hell would like some money. :shy:

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XD Are you part Welsh or something, LK?

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How did you know?

 

[condemnedsoul666]

666 to hear them yes they are married and miserable. They tell us this while their husbands are away on business. Probably buying them whatever they want. I can't tell you how many times during my travels I've had some woman at a bar, or hotel restaurant tell me this. My answer is always the same regardless of how they look... Maybe if you talked to your husband about it instead of a guy you don't know it would get better.

What about all the men that do the exact same, while they're on these business trips of which you speak?
I'm sure there must be some. And y'know, there's also all the ones that have affairs 'n the like while "apparently" on them.
Oh and sure some women want sex and money (Okay probably a lot do) but so do men, just as many and just as much, if not, more!
:club:
I know I sure as hell would like some money. :shy:

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XD Are you part Welsh or something, LK?

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How did you know?

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Ohhh, I just had a hunch...
*cough cough* baa *cough cough*

 

[Loser#1]

I just don't see men as being nearly as deceptive as women. I'm sure there are cases where men breach their marriage, but I think generally speaking...to men it's truly just sex. Women.. There's a motive behind the action. Of course neither are right, but that's how I see it. I think women are much more capable of letting a chance meeting, or casual conversation manifest into something it should not
be.

As men we are driven by just the thought of sex. I think most men would agree once we are done having sex we have 10 thoughts run through our head. None of which include the woman we just slept w. We think about the ball game, golf, gym, whatever we have on the docket. It's truly just sex. The women think... How much money does he have and how can I extract him from his current situation

 

[LoneKiller]

In all seriousness. I believe that women and men when it comes to such things are usually the same in their disdain for being cheated on. A woman might have different methods of revenge. "Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned". Hell hath no fury like ANYONE scorned. I think the reaction and the magnitude of anger in both sexes really depends on the individual right?

 

[VanillaCreme]

I see that some women around here believe that cheating should not be punished.

And they can go around and claim that they "do not" condone infidelity.

I find your lack of logic disturbing.

Cheating isn't logic... So where's your logic in that? And what "punishment" would someone get? You can do all that you want to them, it still won't reverse or erase the fact that they were unfaithful to you. Like, I said in another post, you may feel better about it - temporarily - but it won't solve it at all... So what's the point?

I've been cheated on. Sure it hurts, and you sit around wondering what the hell you did wrong... What you didn't have... What could have been done differently... But my best "punishment" was to just walk away. I'm sorry, but if someone betrays you, there's a high chance they don't even care that they do betray you...

It won't solve anything FOR YOU. If EVERYONE starts doing it, people will LEARN that it doesn't pay off to cheat because of the example being all around them.

No... People don't learn. Sorry, but your hopes are too high. And expecting that people actually learn from one example is laughable. People don't care about other "examples", and why would they... It's not them... People worry about themselves, and no one else. Wishful thinking though...

 

[Loser#1]

Lone.. I really do not think both sexes are the same. Hence the phrase u quoted. Hell hath no fury.

Most men suck it up and move on. Most women plot and premeditate an attack

 

[VanillaCreme]

Lone.. I really do not think both sexes are the same. Hence the phrase u quoted. Hell hath no fury.

Most men suck it up and move on. Most women plot and premeditate an attack

First, no one is the same, regardless of gender...

Second, read what LK said... He didn't not tell us an example that he "sucked it up and moved on"... He HARASSED the woman...

Third, I see a ban in the near future for you... Just saying.

 

[LoneKiller]

I just don't see men as being nearly as deceptive as women. I'm sure there are cases where men breach their marriage, but I think generally speaking...to men it's truly just sex. Women.. There's a motive behind the action. Of course neither are right, but that's how I see it. I think women are much more capable of letting a chance meeting, or casual conversation manifest into something it should not
be.

As men we are driven by just the thought of sex. I think most men would agree once we are done having sex we have 10 thoughts run through our head. None of which include the woman we just slept w. We think about the ball game, golf, gym, whatever we have on the docket. It's truly just sex. The women think... How much money does he have and how can I extract him from his current situation

I do concur on part of this. Men typically are more sexually charged than women for the most part. I'm not sure but I think Loser#1 means that with respect to sex, women sometimes are more emotional and hold sex in higher regard by looking at is as just more than a wham bam thank you ma'am. Is this what you mean Loser#1?

 

[Loser#1]

A ban because I gave an opinion? There's nothing I said that deserves any sort of ban. It's my opinion and I support my opinion

I'm sure lone was a little quick on the trigger. Harrassing a woman is never the right thing to do, regardless of whatever agregeous act they've committed. As I said why give your significant other the satisfaction of showing any emotion. Once they've cheated you know where u stand, whatelse needs to be said or done. It's a complete act of betrayal. Anybody in that situation w any balls is gonna do exactly what I said.

 

[condemnedsoul666]

I can see where you got your username from. ;D

 

[Loser#1]

I got it after blowing out at a casino on a drinking binge. I googled 32 year old loser, and this is where I ended up

 

[EveWasFramed]

A ban because I gave an opinion? There's nothing I said that deserves any sort of ban.

Untrue.
We don't allow such broad-sweeping generalizations about either sex.
This thread has quite a few posts by you that are inappropriate for this forum and such remarks will not be allowed. I suggest you take the advice that has been offered and keep the misogynistic comments to yourself. As examples of what is NOT acceptable here, I recommend you go back through this thread and refer to almost everything you wrote about women, as a whole. While opinions are allowed, insulting someone based on their gender isn't.
This will be the only warning I will allow due to similar recent events on the forum. This type behavior and the comments that you have made CAN result in a ban.

 

[LoneKiller]

I think that one of the mods are getting ready to click the "Closed" option here if this gets too out of hand. I harassed
her because I was hurt. I wanted her to feel the same pain that I was enduring. The thought of her in bed with another made me want to do some very disturbing things. When someone gets crushed like that, the impact of it can be horrendous.

Just for the record. I used to watch shock site videos. This man in Brazil chopped up a woman and her two children into gory mush as a result of just how much rage he had. The thing was. He didn't do it right away when he caught her. He waited a couple of days, then did them all. This means that he had a couple of days to choose what method of payback he would use. It was calculated then executed. That's planning.

 

[Bob Arctor]

ALL offers many learning opportunities, such as Misogyny 101.

 

[Loser#1]

Lone. Any kneejerk vindictive reaction is wrong. I understand you were upset, but why persist at all. You're much better off cutting your losses in the event of a cheat. There's been case studies that people are predisposed to cheat, a gene that can cause that behavior. Some people may be die hard loyal, but most are not. You cannot allow one persons shallow action to have that kind of control over you.

It may hurt for a bit, it may make u steam when u lay down at night, but you can never let that get the best of you. Just suck it up and move on. How old are you lone

Eve, I didn't think there was anything said that was horrible, certainly no direct assult on any individual at all. It's just a well versed mans opinion and if it offended anybody I apologize, but that doesn't change my opinion I'll just keep
it to myself