I Don't Want To Marry Or have Kids.. Does It Worry You Hearin That If Your A Female?

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Evenin all,

Well after sometime reconsidering things etc I discovered that Im not really interested in marriage or having any kids. In fact, Ive completely ruled it out. It just wouldn't suit my lifestyle in the long run. I just want to ahve a bit of a realtionship, not too serious with absolutely NO COMMITMENTS. How do you think I'd Fair? would it worry the majority of you ladies if you was to date me? (hypothetically of course!)

You'd fit in with most of the women on dating websites if you aren't looking to marry or have kids.

How so? Most women on dating sites are looking to have married, and most have kids already.

 

[blackdot]

most of the women I see on those sites at my age are not looking for kids and are not looking to marry or even date

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Most of the women your age probably already have children, with other fathers.

 

[Nice But Dim Jim]

I never wanted kids or marriage when it was an option and a decision I could have made. The moment the option was taken away from me was the moment I realised it's all I actually ever really wanted.

 

[Bones]

Personally for me, this would be up-for-debate.

Given my age, it is probably best to not have a child and would prefer not too.

However, what if she had a child?

It would be nice for my daughter to have a real sister or brother in a loving family household.


Also, if I met someone & they wanted to have a child together, I would not say no because relationships are about meeting each other needs.

My preference would be not to have any more children; but if loved someone and she loved me, there is no way I would dismiss her needs - so, I would be flexible on the issue.

As a side note, if she had a child and the father was not involved, I love to adopt her child & for her to adopt my child to make it a complete family, if applicable.


Umm, given my daughter's age now, is there an age limit for adopting someone???

 

[blackdot]

Most of the women your age probably already have children, with other fathers.

That's possible but since I filter them out, I don't know how many of those are on the dating site.

 

[smarty24]

It is OK, it is your right too choose do you want wife and kinds or not, so I am very sure a lot of women share your toughs so you probably won't have any problems in finding female partners