Is this girl blind?

[Restless soul]

We already know from my posts that I have serious self-image/identity issues.

Anyway so I am talking to this girl on this app we matched on
We were about to meet. Everything was going well. Then she sends me a photo of a guy she thinks is me on Facebook who looks nothing like me. Says is this you? Add me. Lets meet another day. Can't she see its not me from my previous photos I had up?  The guy literally looked nothing like me.

It literally scared me off due to my self-image isssues i had to unmatch her right away. Was really upsetting.  What do you think??

 

[Restless soul]

Back to my main issue. How do I deal with being compared to people that people think I look like? That I don't think that I look like?

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

You didn't listen the last time. But I would have laughed.

 

[Restless soul]

You didn't listen the last time. But I would have laughed.

Listen when? It keeps coming up. But it was so random and odd?? She sees 3 of my photos of me in my dating app profile. then decides to link someones fb pic who doesnt look like me. And asks is that you? What???

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

To see if she knows you or not.

 

[Lacrecia]

show me your picture.

 

[Restless soul]

Forget my picture. She sent me a picture of who
She thouht was me on the app. So i unmatched her. I panicked .
I should of not unmatched and asked her the very question I asked here. " are you blind???""

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To see if she knows you or not.

Cant she see its not me. And that I am much better looking??

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show me your picture.

My photo won't help. And I dont have the one she attached

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

Let's do an excercise.


I was the girl who showed you the pic of a random guy on Facebook. Say what you need to tell me so that you can get it out of your system and move onto the next.

 

[Restless soul]

And why would she go from talking on an app to meeting. To facebook?? Wtf. Major step back

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Let's do an excercise.


I was the girl who showed you the pic of a random guy on Facebook. Say what you need to tell me so that you can get it out of your system and move onto the next.

Thanks. I should have done it with her. II unmatched like a loser.

Ok here we go. Who the **** is that? Why wwould that guy be me ? We just met on this app. He looks nothing like me. You should really get your eyes checked.

How did I do?

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

I think you did good.

 

[Restless soul]

I think you did good.

Not done. We matched on this app. Can't you see how much better looking I am than that guy. I think you are cute. But are you seriously brain dead??

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

Now you're comparing yourself to him. I don't think that's so good.

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You can't speak for other people's preferences or what they find good looking.

 

[BadGuy]

OR
no its not me .... this is me

I am betting there are lots of people that are not representing themselves 100%
Maybe she was testing the waters

 

[Restless soul]

Now you're comparing yourself to him. I don't think that's so good.

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You can't speak for other people's preferences or what they find good looking.

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I don't know if she found be good looking. But that is another typical reaction to people people compare me to. Is that i think i am better looking and I don't think I look like them. Of course I compare. To see where the heck they are coming from

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Don't you see how it just triggers all these insecurities related to how I think I look and feel

 

[Sci-Fi]

Insulting her won't help if anything it'll make things worse and give her a negative impression of you. but by all means go ahead and call her blind and brain dead, see how far it gets you.

OR
no its not me .... this is me

I am betting there are lots of people that are not representing themselves 100%
Maybe she was testing the waters

But yes this is the better route to have taken. And you shouldn't be comparing yourself to someone else based on their looks.

 

[Restless soul]

Now you're comparing yourself to him. I don't think that's so good.

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You can't speak for other people's preferences or what they find good looking.

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Of course. Saying I don't think I look like him is already comparing myself

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

My advice hasn't changed from the last thread.

 

[EveWasFramed]

I don't think I've ever seen anyone troll themselves before. lol

 

[Restless soul]

My advice hasn't changed from the last thread.

Can you refer me back to which one. I can't keep track of my own threads?

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I don't think I've ever seen anyone troll themselves before. lol

Who and what do you mean?? Seriously

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My advice hasn't changed from the last thread.

I mean it. If it will be helpful can you please find the link??

 

[EveWasFramed]

My advice hasn't changed from the last thread.

Can you refer me back to which one. I can't keep track of my own threads?

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I don't think I've ever seen anyone troll themselves before. lol

Who and what do you mean?? Seriously

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Lol....please don't be offended - it wasn't meant as an insult. I've just seen you reply to your own threads sometimes and it makes me laugh.