Is this truly worth putting up with anymore?

[spongeyno1]

Ok so here goes my life is just crap my dad wont let me go outside and play with my freinds so my social life sucks the freinds i do have are all doochebags nobody likes me they just make up randoms rumore e,g i smell im ugly im gay and ive had it i put up wiht it all day thinking when i go home ill be happy but thats not true i go home i get yelled at for things i didnt do i go on xbox live nobody talsk to me event my freinds all thye do is just rip on me saying that there just "havin a laugh" so basically F*** them F*** this life its all a big load of s*** that your true freinds are out their soon neough you will have freinds or whatever its sll BS nothing every happens my faily dosnt know anything about my and my rbother is a di** so when i wake up its like the worlds sticking it middle finger in my face no matter what everyone finds a way to rip on me example my last birthday at school consisted of nobody saying happy birthday everyone be bigger ******* than usual i try to hve good time after christmas telling people what i got they say who cares you have no freinds or on my birthday i tell someone its my birhtday they say who cares and if its theirs everyone sings happy irthday and treats them like kings what do i get a full day or names and torment so is this really all there is to "life" because if it is im afraid i wont be in this life much longer

 

[Ak5]

Welcome to the Forum.

Sounds to me like you need to take a big deep breath.

Seems to me like you're trapped in what I call the "pit of despair". I've been there, not very nice. And you're not getting out of there if you don't calm down and take it more calmly.

You say you can't go out with your friends, yet you call them *********s, I wouldn't want to go out with them if they are *********s!

Brothers are like that, mine is little and still annoys the hell out of me.

Yeah, I know how it feels. When everyone is happy and you're not; especially on birthdays. Nobody outside my family has said happy birthday to me in the past years. Guess what, a lot of people have social lives that suck. We're here to help.

Things will get better, if you want them to get better. They won't get better overnight, but they eventually will if you work to it.

 

[spongeyno1]

good to know theres people who are in the same position it just gets so frustrating when people wont give me a chance to show them im a good freind but if ther elike that i dont want to be their freinds at the same time i dont want to be lonely ty for ur reply its calming to hear that you were once the same as me

 

[IgnoredOne]

Could you use paragraphing?

 

[Ak5]

Yeah, some people can be real *****. But not all of them are.

The more confidence you have the more people respect you. I've read about other people how they're too "nice" and people start eventually just using them. Maybe that's similar to your situation?

 

[spongeyno1]

Yeah, some people can be real *****. But not all of them are.

The more confidence you have the more people respect you. I've read about other people how they're too "nice" and people start eventually just using them. Maybe that's similar to your situation?

i think you may be correct

 

[cumulus.james]

Ok so here goes my life is just crap my dad wont let me go outside and play with my freinds so my social life sucks the freinds i do have are all doochebags nobody likes me they just make up randoms rumore e,g i smell im ugly im gay and ive had it i put up wiht it all day thinking when i go home ill be happy but thats not true i go home i get yelled at for things i didnt do i go on xbox live nobody talsk to me event my freinds all thye do is just rip on me saying that there just "havin a laugh" so basically F*** them F*** this life its all a big load of s*** that your true freinds are out their soon neough you will have freinds or whatever its sll BS nothing every happens my faily dosnt know anything about my and my rbother is a di** so when i wake up its like the worlds sticking it middle finger in my face no matter what everyone finds a way to rip on me example my last birthday at school consisted of nobody saying happy birthday everyone be bigger ******* than usual i try to hve good time after christmas telling people what i got they say who cares you have no freinds or on my birthday i tell someone its my birhtday they say who cares and if its theirs everyone sings happy irthday and treats them like kings what do i get a full day or names and torment so is this really all there is to "life" because if it is im afraid i wont be in this life much longer

Yes it is worth putting up with. Its character building and generally all that **** will stop happening when you leave school.

 

[Naleena]

What do you do when they call you gay or say you smell? Nothing? Why do you let them talk to you like that?

 

[cumulus.james]

What do you do when they call you gay or say you smell? Nothing? Why do you let them talk to you like that?

what would you suggest he do? Violence is not the way forward, surely if he were confident enough to shout people down he would not have found himself on here?

 

[IgnoredOne]

What do you do when they call you gay or say you smell? Nothing? Why do you let them talk to you like that?

what would you suggest he do? Violence is not the way forward, surely if he were confident enough to shout people down he would not have found himself on here?

He could tell them to **** off. Violence /can/ be a solution too, but doesn't quite seem to be worth it in this case. Not sure why you feel violence is never the way forward when it is clearly situational.

 

[Naleena]

Yes it is worth putting up with. Its character building and generally all that **** will stop happening when you leave school.

I disagree, James. I think it's killing his self esteem. I don't think letting people humiliate you builds character. It does teach someone how it feels to suffer, but he has learned about suffering. Poor kid obviously knows how that feels. I think it's time he learned how to make personal boundaries and stand up for himself. True, it will stop when he leaves school, but by then the damage is done. That would then be his memory of school that he will have the rest of his life.
I think it would also stop if he decided to walk up and punch the **** out of the next person who called him smelly...lol

 

[IgnoredOne]

Yes it is worth putting up with. Its character building and generally all that **** will stop happening when you leave school.

I think it would also stop if he decided to walk up and punch the **** out of the next person who called him smelly...lol

"I'm not smelly, its your nose that's broken."

 

[Naleena]

Yes it is worth putting up with. Its character building and generally all that **** will stop happening when you leave school.

I think it would also stop if he decided to walk up and punch the **** out of the next person who called him smelly...lol

"I'm not smelly, its your nose that's broken."

ROFLMAO!!! Or he could single handedly defend himself with an arsenal of come back lines to humiliate the next person who called him smelly...lol
That was a good one, Ignored I think you just moved up my cool list.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Yes it is worth putting up with. Its character building and generally all that **** will stop happening when you leave school.

I think it would also stop if he decided to walk up and punch the **** out of the next person who called him smelly...lol

"I'm not smelly, its your nose that's broken."

*chokes laughing*

 

[Bread]

Yes it is worth putting up with. Its character building and generally all that **** will stop happening when you leave school.

Actually, there's a more refined variant for adult life waiting for 'im in his first office job, if he is so unlucky as to choose this career path. End up a damn doormat you can lump your extra work on, just like me.

Still- welcome to ALL, Spongey.