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I really don't understand how you guys can find the courage to post your own pic on this site :p good job though.
 
painter's radio! Finally! You look great. And yeah you and perfanoff can look related lol.

Perfanoff, you started the ball rolling.. yay!

Misanthrope, you look cute. :)
 
rdor said:
:) perfannoff, painters radio could be brothers.

Brother from another mother :p

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I really don't understand how you guys can find the courage to post your own pic on this site

I think for me it's a neverending quest to answer the question most of us think about sometimes: "What the fresia do I actually look like?"
I see myself with many different faces, and I don't exactly mean metaphorical ones. Photos that other people have taken of me or with me loitering in the background or whatever, I can look so different in all of them. Sometimes I think I look OK, others I look really horrible. There's something about this that I don't like, it's like I have no control over how people see me, so only showing the ones where I think I look OK lets me represent myself in a better light to some degree. It may sound superficial, maybe even false and phoney, but it's just a theory as to why I do it, and although we aren't really supposed to talk about it, but I think what misanthrope said recently about attention seeking is probably true to some degree.
That and the quest for reassurance, acceptance, or just general feedback from people who have no reason to really lie to you. It can be liberating.
 
aspalas said:
I really don't understand how you guys can find the courage to post your own pic on this site :p good job though.

I've just come to the conclusion that I really don't give a f*#&. Not really anything that can be said on here to hurt my feelings that I haven't heard before. :)
 
painter, you're my brother from another mother!

And what's so scary about posting your picture? It's a form of expressing yourself, it doesn't take courage in the first place if you don't hate yourself.


LonelyInAtl said:
aspalas said:
I really don't understand how you guys can find the courage to post your own pic on this site :p good job though.

I've just come to the conclusion that I really don't give a f*#&. Not really anything that can be said on here to hurt my feelings that I haven't heard before. :)

bingo
So where's your picture?
 
Yeah but who knows. Maybe someone you know finds you on this forum. It wouldn't be a disaster but I'd rather not have people reading all the stuff I posted.
 
I know what you mean but I think it can be better not to have an alter ego. I'm not a big fan of manipulating appearances - wouldn't it be good to look at the world head held up high? To have no problem of owning the responsibility for all of one's actions? Regardless, I feel this way so I act this way.
 
Yeah despite the fact that I really do care what other people think of me, at the same time I really don't care, lol. I may not like myself a lot of the time but if someone else doesn't like me then fresia them xD
Really I don't care if anyone sees what I post; I don't really say a lot of things I wouldn't want people knowing, or that they don't already know about me.
 
perfanoff said:
painter, you're my brother from another mother!

And what's so scary about posting your picture? It's a form of expressing yourself, it doesn't take courage in the first place if you don't hate yourself.


LonelyInAtl said:
aspalas said:
I really don't understand how you guys can find the courage to post your own pic on this site :p good job though.

I've just come to the conclusion that I really don't give a f*#&. Not really anything that can be said on here to hurt my feelings that I haven't heard before. :)

bingo
So where's your picture?



It's somewhere on here....and in my ava.
 
I figured that if people who know me visit this forum they have something to explain too.

I'm on the left with the striped shirt at a party 2 weeks ago. It's a pretty nice pic IMO :).
 

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