mental frustration

[NewBirth]

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[Carby]

I get mentally frustrated sometimes too.. because sometimes I feel like I really want to talk to someone else about my thoughts. I just want to share my thoughts with other people and have them share theirs with me. In a way I'm a bit of a deep thinker, I like to debate about things or talk about certain issues where there are many possible opinions(like clones,abortion,sexuality,religion,philosophy) -shrugs- anything is fine.. I think I'm pretty open to talking about anything, and willing to listen to other's views (but I'll still have my own views too). To me, debating can be fun and interesting sometimes, and you can even learn what other people are like based on what their thoughts are on different issues.. But I know sometimes some issues make others uncomfortable or that your thoughts/ideas aren't always accepted by the majority of people, and so it's better to keep it to yourself because people wouldn't understand... and people can be mean sometimes... I never really had any friends that I could talk to about these kinds of deep stuff(always taking about clothes,car,makeup,etc that I didn't care about).. only my brother on occasion but I know some things I just can't talk to him about because he wouldn't understand.. so I talk to myself a lot o.o I think that's how I vent my frustration, since I have no one else to talk to... seriously lol, sometimes I think I'm crazy because I even talk to myself like I'm debating/having a conversation. but yeah I do crave deep conversations/sharing my thoughts with others.. I have a online friend that is pretty open to talking about anything though, and it's really nice to talk about things so openly and discussing it with our own opinions and it helps us see different viewpoints too.. But it's not like I need to have that all the time, it's great to have a friend that can talk to you about things like that sometimes but small talk can be nice too, they're fun and you can learn more about that person. I think what really matters though(to me) is having that click/connection with people, where they are interested in what I have to say and me to them and we just want to talk to eachother(it's a nice feeling when you feel like people are actually listening to your thoughts and want to!).... I get annoyed/frustrated by small talk with people who seem like they don't really care, and just say random things to pass time or because they are forced to, or talking about things I don't care about lol like makeup and clothes..all the time. ack.. I don't have anyone irl I can share my thoughts with and that's why I feel lonely sometimes, just keeping everything to myself. (owell at least I have a online friend I can talk to.. does that count? lol. People online are so much more open ) kind of rambling, sorry if none of that makes sense lol.

 

[Cosmic Kid]

I get mentally frustrated sometimes too.. because sometimes I feel like I really want to talk to someone else about my thoughts. I just want to share my thoughts with other people and have them share theirs with me. In a way I'm a bit of a deep thinker, I like to debate about things or talk about certain issues where there are many possible opinions(like clones,abortion,sexuality,religion,philosophy) -shrugs- anything is fine.. I think I'm pretty open to talking about anything, and willing to listen to other's views (but I'll still have my own views too). To me, debating can be fun and interesting sometimes, and you can even learn what other people are like based on what their thoughts are on different issues.. But I know sometimes some issues make others uncomfortable or that your thoughts/ideas aren't always accepted by the majority of people, and so it's better to keep it to yourself because people wouldn't understand... and people can be mean sometimes... I never really had any friends that I could talk to about these kinds of deep stuff(always taking about clothes,car,makeup,etc that I didn't care about).. only my brother on occasion but I know some things I just can't talk to him about because he wouldn't understand.. so I talk to myself a lot o.o I think that's how I vent my frustration, since I have no one else to talk to... seriously lol, sometimes I think I'm crazy because I even talk to myself like I'm debating/having a conversation. but yeah I do crave deep conversations/sharing my thoughts with others.. I have a online friend that is pretty open to talking about anything though, and it's really nice to talk about things so openly and discussing it with our own opinions and it helps us see different viewpoints too.. But it's not like I need to have that all the time, it's great to have a friend that can talk to you about things like that sometimes but small talk can be nice too, they're fun and you can learn more about that person. I think what really matters though(to me) is having that click/connection with people, where they are interested in what I have to say and me to them and we just want to talk to eachother(it's a nice feeling when you feel like people are actually listening to your thoughts and want to!).... I get annoyed/frustrated by small talk with people who seem like they don't really care, and just say random things to pass time or because they are forced to, or talking about things I don't care about lol like makeup and clothes..all the time. ack.. I don't have anyone irl I can share my thoughts with and that's why I feel lonely sometimes, just keeping everything to myself. (owell at least I have a online friend I can talk to.. does that count? lol. People online are so much more open ) kind of rambling, sorry if none of that makes sense lol.

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[mink]

so I talk to myself a lot o.o I think that's how I vent my frustration, since I have no one else to talk to... seriously lol, sometimes I think I'm crazy because I even talk to myself like I'm debating/having a conversation.

You're not alone
Don't think it's crazy either. It's like a way to get the frustration out when there's no one to listen.