New, 20, lonely, possibly for life, trying to cope with it

[Shady123]

Well, i am new to this web community, would really like to meet other ppl with the same problem you could say, being lonely. i bet we all have different reasons, and maybe some could get better with talk and help from ppl who know whats the deal first hand. I have a few Health Issues, I have Bladder Exthrophy, this makes me unable to retain my liquids, and have to use other methods for that. Also have another condition called Micropenis, its as ****** as it sounds, this has severely limited my love/intimate life, to the point of preferring being alone than having to deal with telling someone who i care about and having my heart destroyed, its hard, i am only 20, i NEED some affection, but, ya know.... i know i could end up finding someone who can look past that, and love me for who i am n stuff, but for right now im prepared mentally to potentially be alone for the rest of my life....
Ppl talk to me, let me know about your problems, lets talk, we who are not like the others gotta stick together i think. ?

 

[LonelyDiamond]

Hi shady123, welcome i am female but i do feel for you. We all are lonely here but with different issues. I have a family but still feel very alone a long story. Just know that there are nice people here that understands and cares.

 

[Bones]

Welcome to the forum!

 

[Shady123]

Hi shady123, welcome i am female but i do feel for you. We all are lonely here but with different issues. I have a family but still feel very alone a long story. Just know that there are nice people here that understands and cares.

thanks, hope to hear from you around this site!

 

[Vagrant Legacy]

Heya,

First of all.. welcome to the forum. Secondly, I also have some experience with bladder issues.. but none as severe as yours. I am able to relate partially, especially how it can affect your life.

For now I hope you'll be able to find your place here.

 

[Drama]

Hey there

 

[decemberryan]

Hey Shady123, sorry to hear about your health problems.

 

[sylvestris lybica]

Hi Shady123, I'm another new 20 year old around these parts. Hope you enjoy the forums and figure out how to cope in life.

 

[Barbaloot]

Hi, welcome.

 

[Mouse]

Hi Shady123, welcome to the site. You'll make good friends here.

 

[Nolife Princess]

Hi there, welcome!

I am sorry to hear about your health issue. life just seemingly, randomly, shells out a crummy hand, life goes on, and we help each other to carry on (

Now this micropenis thing..... honey, there are many OTHER ways of having fun without the use of the said organ...... believe me! (

 

[Shady123]

I know there are many ways of doing more about it, but its still an obstacle to actually achieving normal intimacy, ill never prob get to experience a confortable intimacy, ill always feel like shes not being pleased like she deserves, i wouldnt wanna repress anyones sexual desires... specially if i love this person... so ive been playing the if you love someone let them go...

Hi there, welcome!

I am sorry to hear about your health issue. life just seemingly, randomly, shells out a crummy hand, life goes on, and we help each other to carry on (

Now this micropenis thing..... honey, there are many OTHER ways of having fun without the use of the said organ...... believe me! (

 

[Pezza]

Hi Shady123

I`m sorry to hear about your troubles.

This is only a suggestion, but have you considered meeting/talking to women in your situation? And No I`m not suggesting women with micro-penises. I mean women who also have something that they believe is stopping them from having a `normal` relationship, there are many different people who think similarly to you in this case. I can`t name all the different conditions because I`m not a doctor, but there are many good unlucky people out there who seek intimacy as well. If you were to meet somebody who was also coping with something(s) you would be able to understand her situation a lot better than most people and vice versa and would have a much larger chance of forming a solid relationship. I`m not saying that if you try this the first person you meet will be the `one` but It`s something worth considering..

 

[Shady123]

Thank you for your sugestion, and that its a pretty good one actually, i had though about it too, and it would probably be the best for both of us... i actually found this dating website that kinda helps out with ppl who cant really, for diferent reasons, have normal intimacy... the sites actually just starting so things are slow.

 

[j.p.duck]

not sure about the rest, but i hear that "micropenis" as you called it (lol'd) isn't as big a deal as you think

firstly, there are asian birds

secondly, you can get your hands down there too at the same time (if you have good hand-eye coordination and can multitask okay) for a bonus

thirdly anal

fourthly... virgins! then you cant be compared to anything

hope this helps!