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I’m guilty of it myself but not to someone who was being helpful. Besides I really only enjoy being an hole-assay to my sisters or someone who deserves it.
Yeah, i am never a turd to someone who is helpful. I'm an obscene turd to a-holes and unpleasant people though because they deserve it
 
Nothing. Not a thing.
Supposed to be giving up booze for Lent.
F*cked it up already.
Someone shoot me. Please.


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OK positive...
I visited my girl at the cemetery.
Like I've done every month for the last 4.5 years since she's been gone.
At least I did that.
 
Nothing. Not a thing.
Supposed to be giving up booze for Lent.
F*cked it up already.
Someone shoot me. Please.

Hey, just saw this now.
I wanted to say, don't beat yourself up too much about relapsing on booze for Lent.
I feel like Lent is more about breaking more ordinary types of bad habits, like overeating or sleeping in or something, and doesn't really apply to something like a chemical addiction.

I feel like to break something like that for Lent, would be a big ask.

And, you could also still say, well, you messed up once, but just dust yourself off and make another attempt at it. It might take a couple times, and you might not get a perfect 40 days, but you could use it to at least make a start in cutting back the drinking. Don't just say, "well, I'm not going to get a perfect 40, that's it, it's over, I give up, might as well just drink again".

Maybe it's less about getting the 40 days right, and more about really attempting to break the habit, to start to attack it, resist it, disrupt the flow of the habit - to use the season as momentum for breaking it. And with something like this, there's bound to be some pushback along the way.
 
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Did 15 miles on my bicycle today getting groceries.
Arguably, I could've stopped at 9, but I felt like pushing myself.
It was windy today too, so I caught some gusts with resistence.
It was windy enough that it knocked my canopy over in my backyard.
I think that thing is on its last days. If it falls over again, it'll probably break the leg.
Whatever, I'll improvise when that happens, I've got a couple different ideas on how to deal with that.
 
Did 15 miles on my bicycle today getting groceries.
Arguably, I could've stopped at 9, but I felt like pushing myself.
It was windy today too, so I caught some gusts with resistence.
It was windy enough that it knocked my canopy over in my backyard.
I think that thing is on its last days. If it falls over again, it'll probably break the leg.
Whatever, I'll improvise when that happens, I've got a couple different ideas on how to deal with that.
Make sure you're looking after yourself Apexiee ✨ 😇
 
Did 15 miles on my bicycle today getting groceries……. I felt like pushing myself.……It was windy today too, so I caught some gusts with resistence…..
Well done. I ride quite a lot on my mountain bike and windy days are a good challenge. Consistency is the key.

Today I did my usual upper body workout in my shed and then had the energy to vacuum up all the crap that had built up all around inside it.
 

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