putter65 said:
I look on them every now and again. I do a search and look at the women. Every woman - I think 'she wouldn't be interested in me' - I go down the list until it ends.
I do this every 3 months or so.
If you haven't yet gone onto plentyofnarcissists sorry I mean plentyoffish then for God's sake DON'T.
I will save you the grief right now by advising you to smash a cricket bat repeatedly against your cranium instead. Because in a weird, (not really) metaphysical sense, that is exactly what you might as well be doing.
Course, who am I to say? Just because it NEVER worked out for me in the 5 oh so years that I've been on there (I can count all of THREE count 'em THREE messages I've received and about 3 replies back). I got one woman to actually want to meet me on a date and we'd talked for weeks up to it so I thought that we'd get along just fine in person. We did at least it seemed that way in the pub then I came back from the bar with our drinks to just catch her getting in a cab outside. I then got a text message an hour later with her telling me how much she basically wasn't interested and she wasn't sure why she bothered in the first place.
Yet someone I know (a female someone) was on there 2 months and met the man of her dreams who she is still with now years later. Then again AND I'M SORRY TO SAY THIS LADIES......women don't exactly get the same problem with just nobody contacting them. Certainly not anywhere NEAR the same ratio as the other way around. Same goes for being chatted up. There's still this age old stereotype that for men, it's just clearly a case of opening our mouths and voila - we get what we want, be it women, jobs, money or otherwise. Oh sure if you happen to be Colin Farrell or EXTREMELY lucky but how many of us does that apply too?
And goddamnit I specifically said at my first post that I WASN'T going to get onto the subject of dating sites grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
