TheRealCallie
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Going out on a limb here and will assume that is to Nilla and me, because...well, it always is with you.
Neither one of us said that. Nice try, though.
Neither one of us said that. Nice try, though.
VanillaCreme said:kamya said:TheRealCallie said:Stop caring about what society thinks. Stop caring what some crap website says. Start being yourself, start finding some confidence, start worrying about your **** self.
And when they still fail then what?
Keep on truckin'
kamya said:He was basically saying all the honeysuckle most of the guys in this thread are saying. And that was before online dating made the situation even worse. Today that guy would not stand a chance. He barely did back then.
Azariah said:how bout offline dating???? anyone here up for it.... oh wait....
Ghost77 said:Okay firstly to the people commenting that men just complain a lot these days, I’d say consider how you’d feel about a man reacting that way to the suffragette movement back in the day. “Women like to complain a lot theses days”. Yes they did, and they had good reason. You can wave a dismissive hand if you like, but IMO this isn’t a problem that’s going to go away just because you refuse to see the merit in in the arguments you’re hearing. Men have gotten a raw deal and they’re pissed about it. That’s why the popularity of feminism is sinking like a lead balloon.
To those saying men on Tinder are just looking for sex, I can only assume you’re either female or haven’t spent much time on tinder, because most of the women on there are also looking for sex. Most of the women I match with have the exact same story. Split with husband x months ago, went on a tinder sex spree and got laid by a bunch of hot guys. They often say they did it to “get their confidence back”. Some admit they just like having sex with hot guys.
And to the person who told me to “stop worrying about what society thinks”... what??? I don’t know where that came from or what it has to do with the conversation.
TheRealCallie said:kamya said:TheRealCallie said:Stop caring about what society thinks. Stop caring what some crap website says. Start being yourself, start finding some confidence, start worrying about your **** self.
And when you still fail then what?
If you fail, that means you gave up, which means, you didn't do any of that....
Richard_39 said:Ghost77 said:Okay firstly to the people commenting that men just complain a lot these days, I’d say consider how you’d feel about a man reacting that way to the suffragette movement back in the day. “Women like to complain a lot theses days”. Yes they did, and they had good reason. You can wave a dismissive hand if you like, but IMO this isn’t a problem that’s going to go away just because you refuse to see the merit in in the arguments you’re hearing. Men have gotten a raw deal and they’re pissed about it. That’s why the popularity of feminism is sinking like a lead balloon.
To those saying men on Tinder are just looking for sex, I can only assume you’re either female or haven’t spent much time on tinder, because most of the women on there are also looking for sex. Most of the women I match with have the exact same story. Split with husband x months ago, went on a tinder sex spree and got laid by a bunch of hot guys. They often say they did it to “get their confidence back”. Some admit they just like having sex with hot guys.
And to the person who told me to “stop worrying about what society thinks”... what??? I don’t know where that came from or what it has to do with the conversation.
Ah. Right. Opinion null and void because "reasons".
Gotcha, Cap. Won't happen again.
DarkSelene said:And if they keep failing forever and no amount of effort works, they find this place because they have nothing else, they complain because there's nothing left to try and they see people going through the same things and it's a confirmation of how hard it's going for males in general... and you guys show up to say they're giving up too easy.
TheRealCallie said:Richard_39 said:Ghost77 said:Okay firstly to the people commenting that men just complain a lot these days, I’d say consider how you’d feel about a man reacting that way to the suffragette movement back in the day. “Women like to complain a lot theses days”. Yes they did, and they had good reason. You can wave a dismissive hand if you like, but IMO this isn’t a problem that’s going to go away just because you refuse to see the merit in in the arguments you’re hearing. Men have gotten a raw deal and they’re pissed about it. That’s why the popularity of feminism is sinking like a lead balloon.
To those saying men on Tinder are just looking for sex, I can only assume you’re either female or haven’t spent much time on tinder, because most of the women on there are also looking for sex. Most of the women I match with have the exact same story. Split with husband x months ago, went on a tinder sex spree and got laid by a bunch of hot guys. They often say they did it to “get their confidence back”. Some admit they just like having sex with hot guys.
And to the person who told me to “stop worrying about what society thinks”... what??? I don’t know where that came from or what it has to do with the conversation.
Ah. Right. Opinion null and void because "reasons".
Gotcha, Cap. Won't happen again.
Ikr. Lol
No one said ALL guys, and no one said women don't. But there are more men than women.
Um, everyone complains. However, here on ALL, it's pretty evident that men want it all and don't want to do the work needed to get what they want....yeah yeah, I'm a heartless *****, blah blah blah ... They keep doing the same thing over and over again, maybe slightly changing it up, but not really.
Which brings us to society and how you don't think it's relevant. Though, if you look, you would see it comes up in every thread like this. Society decides who is and is not a loser, silly. Society decides who is and is not successfully, silly. Society is GOD!!!!
TheRealCallie said:Wrong. EVERYONE has to work to get what they want. You may not want to believe it and you may not see it, but they do.
Online dating isn't a magical place. It's the same as offline, only you have more options because of distance. And if you think "average" women don't have a hard time with online dating too, you are kidding yourself. There are even threads here talking about it. The reason those don't take off like the ones the men make is likely because the women don't usually...notice I said usually ...go on and on saying the same things over and over again blaming everyone else and refusing to think they might be doing something to put them where they are. "Average" and even "below average" men get dates quite often. But wait...mthey must be rich or something, right?
kamya said:TheRealCallie said:Wrong. EVERYONE has to work to get what they want. You may not want to believe it and you may not see it, but they do.
Online dating isn't a magical place. It's the same as offline, only you have more options because of distance. And if you think "average" women don't have a hard time with online dating too, you are kidding yourself. There are even threads here talking about it. The reason those don't take off like the ones the men make is likely because the women don't usually...notice I said usually ...go on and on saying the same things over and over again blaming everyone else and refusing to think they might be doing something to put them where they are. "Average" and even "below average" men get dates quite often. But wait...mthey must be rich or something, right?
No.
Those threads don't take off because they don't actually exist. If they did, they wouldn't gain traction because it would be like complaining to a starving homeless person about how you don't like any of the food at the buffet. If you are a woman and are actually having trouble finding dates through dating apps then your standards are unrealistic or you're being too picky. It's that simple.
Xpendable said:Here's my most recent experience on a dating site:
Got 0 matches in six months. The End.
Xpendable said:I'm not talking about messages either. I used tinder because 100% of dating sites will charge me to even see another member's profile.
kaetic said:kamya said:TheRealCallie said:Wrong. EVERYONE has to work to get what they want. You may not want to believe it and you may not see it, but they do.
Online dating isn't a magical place. It's the same as offline, only you have more options because of distance. And if you think "average" women don't have a hard time with online dating too, you are kidding yourself. There are even threads here talking about it. The reason those don't take off like the ones the men make is likely because the women don't usually...notice I said usually ...go on and on saying the same things over and over again blaming everyone else and refusing to think they might be doing something to put them where they are. "Average" and even "below average" men get dates quite often. But wait...mthey must be rich or something, right?
No.
Those threads don't take off because they don't actually exist. If they did, they wouldn't gain traction because it would be like complaining to a starving homeless person about how you don't like any of the food at the buffet. If you are a woman and are actually having trouble finding dates through dating apps then your standards are unrealistic or you're being too picky. It's that simple.
Here's my most recent experience on a dating site.
I made my profile, that was torture... as I actually hate talking about myself.
Then I scrolled through the matches. The guys ranged from attractive, to average, to not so attractive.
That wasn't the issue.
The issue was me. It didn't matter who I was looking at on the screen.
Every time I thought I might want to message one of them. I thought about the reasons why this person wouldn't want to match with me. I beat myself up about all of my self esteem issues then closed the site and gave up on it.
All without sending a single message.
How are my standards unrealistic? How am I being picky? I'm just afraid of rejection like the lot of you guys are. That's not a ******* gender issue.
ardour said:kaetic said:kamya said:TheRealCallie said:Wrong. EVERYONE has to work to get what they want. You may not want to believe it and you may not see it, but they do.
Online dating isn't a magical place. It's the same as offline, only you have more options because of distance. And if you think "average" women don't have a hard time with online dating too, you are kidding yourself. There are even threads here talking about it. The reason those don't take off like the ones the men make is likely because the women don't usually...notice I said usually ...go on and on saying the same things over and over again blaming everyone else and refusing to think they might be doing something to put them where they are. "Average" and even "below average" men get dates quite often. But wait...mthey must be rich or something, right?
No.
Those threads don't take off because they don't actually exist. If they did, they wouldn't gain traction because it would be like complaining to a starving homeless person about how you don't like any of the food at the buffet. If you are a woman and are actually having trouble finding dates through dating apps then your standards are unrealistic or you're being too picky. It's that simple.
Here's my most recent experience on a dating site.
I made my profile, that was torture... as I actually hate talking about myself.
Then I scrolled through the matches. The guys ranged from attractive, to average, to not so attractive.
That wasn't the issue.
The issue was me. It didn't matter who I was looking at on the screen.
Every time I thought I might want to message one of them. I thought about the reasons why this person wouldn't want to match with me. I beat myself up about all of my self esteem issues then closed the site and gave up on it.
All without sending a single message.
How are my standards unrealistic? How am I being picky? I'm just afraid of rejection like the lot of you guys are. That's not a ******* gender issue.
All you needed to do was wait until your inbox filled up, We can't because we don't received initiating messages/matches in the first place.
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