ardour said:VanillaCreme said:kamya said:None of you have presented anything to show that something different could happen though.
Were we supposed to be keeping notes? There are many things I won't understand in life, absolutely. Never get a denial out of me about it. Being bitter and negative about people just because I didn't get what I wanted out of them is one thing I don't even want to understand.
He's not talking about specific people. Going by your posts you've had at least 2 long term relationships.
You've gotten what you've wanted. The other person here hasn't because they're literally too scared to send one message.
That was the experience I shared. I did not share the times that I did message people and it ended horribly.
And I won't. Because every time I share anything with you people it ends up being a long drawn out battle over whatever perceived threat I've made to your self-imposed victimhood.
Yeah forget you Nilla, you aren't allowed to have anything to say because you had a relationship at some point, you couldn't possibly have any knowledge to share that might help some one to achieve the same thing. Or maybe any input that might guide some one through some of the hard parts of being in a relationship. NO, NO, NO, unless you are in exactly the same predicament that these guys are bitching about (including gender, because women couldn't possibly understand) you better not post anything for fear of offending their fragile male egos.
ardour said:Oh great it's the "you don't see women as human beings" crap.
If you keep hearing it from different sources... it's the first time I've said it... then maybe you should be thinking about what it is you're saying that prompts this response.