That brings me to another pet peeve:
Being told that "I don't want to work hard", by people who do work hard, and still get nowhere anyway.
It's like, you do work hard, but still get nowhere and have nothing to show for it. You work hard, but all you get out of it is treading water in the same ****** situation, IF that - sometimes these people work hard, and still can't even hold where they are, but instead fall further and further behind despite their efforts. It looks like life isn't working out too well for you either. It's like, don't lecture me, because you clearly have problems of your own.
A question I've always had in life, is why do so many people not get anywhere, even though they're hard-working, have a positive attitude, do all the things like "time management" and scheduling, get up and go to bed early, almost never have any fun, etc. On paper, they're doing all the things they're supposed to do for success. But it practice, it's not working, because they're not getting anywhere. They're still stuck in crappy lives.
**** like this makes me afraid that life is all about what you were born with, inborn talent, natural strong traits, and dumb luck - and if you don't have any of that, like me, or like these people that work hard and get nowhere anyway, then it feels like your life is hopeless. I don't see how I can "hard work" my way out of being dealt no cards - they don't seem to be able to do it either. And especially because I'm not good at smooth-talking, lying, exaggerating, bullshitting, and making myself seem superior, which is how some people manage to get by in life despite not being that good at anything. Again, like cards, these people, usually guys but I guess some women can do it too, are good at bluffing about their competence and substance, and that's how they get by in life. But you have to have that competitive, antagonistic, cunning, manipulative mind to see things that way, though. I feel like I wasn't dealt the cards, AND I'm not good at bluffing, either.