Prostitution what do you think

[4No1]

If I was single and a lady offered me good money for some *** I'd probably go for it.

But it's not symmetrical: men can't get pregnant and a risk that lady can force you do smth you don't want is lower, so men's risk in *** in general is lower. I know a few men(most men among those I know to tell the truth) who would do it even for free if a woman is not too ugly. And even if a woman likes it, it doesn't meant she doesn't hurt herself in someway. At least I see it so. And maybe you romanticize it a little bit.

what about ****stars and camgirls??? shouldn't they be counted as prostitutes too????

For me there is no big difference, though I use the different words.

 

[ardour]

If I was single and a lady offered me good money for some *** I'd probably go for it.And if I was a virgin I would employ a prostitute no problem.

You're a guy so, so that's easier, and you aren't doing it for a living. Imagine you had to have daily *** with obese unattractive 50 something women, half of whom treated you with contempt. Or come from a traumatic background and believe this is the only thing you're good for.

 

[Just Games]

You're a guy so, so that's easier, and you aren't doing it for a living. Imagine you had to have daily *** with obese unattractive 50 something women, half of whom treated you with contempt. Or come from a traumatic background and believe this is the only thing you're good for.

Wouldn't bother me.Is this how you view all 50 year old women..as obese and unattractive?

 

[ardour]

Wouldn't bother me.Is this how you view all 50 year old women..as obese and unattractive?

You're just looking for a cheap comeback to make your perspective seem more moral. It's absurd to argue the women involved in this enjoy it.

 

[Just Games]

You're just looking for a cheap comeback to make your perspective seem more moral. It's absurd to argue the women involved in this enjoy it.

Answer the question?

 

[user 139760]

You're just looking for a cheap comeback to make your perspective seem more moral. It's absurd to argue the women involved in this enjoy it.

Some do. Granted, it's far from being the majority, it's probably a very small percentage, but some do. They get something out of it, whatever it is or how maybe misguided that something is. It's not really for no reason it's called the oldest proffession. But, as I said before, just "prostitution" as a concept is so mind-numbingly complex a subject, finding any real answers on an online forum is kind of akin to lifting a rock hoping to find a handwritten message from God detailing his plan for humanity lol.
Which is why I figure, I don't know if the profession should disappear or not, but since it probably won't, like EVER, maybe it would be better to try and make it safer for those involved, and try to give them easier access to services of all kinds, like health insurance or ways to get out of it more easily, than to debate wether or not it should exist and speculate on wether a prostitute is happy or not.
For example, my older boss at the time was seeing a young escort 40 years his junior. I don't think I'd be able to, but he's been seeing her regularly for years, enough that he says he's MORE than a client to her now and is more or less the reason that at 20-something, she has a luxury condo and a sports car. He helped her during the pandemic, since with confinement her income dried up because of distancing measures, so she leaned on her "regulars" like him to support herself. While many prostitution stories are tragic, this one wasn't. I don't know what her perspective on it was, but from his, it helped heal an older man who got out of a very bitter and damaging divorce.
I don't think it's that absurd to argue that some do enjoy it, I just think you're very, very likely wrong when you do, just not necessarily always.

 

[ardour]

Some do. Granted, it's far from being the majority, it's probably a very small percentage, but some do. They get something out of it, whatever it is or how maybe misguided that something is. It's not really for no reason it's called the oldest proffession. But, as I said before, just "prostitution" as a concept is so mind-numbingly complex a subject, finding any real answers on an online forum is kind of akin to lifting a rock hoping to find a handwritten message from God detailing his plan for humanity lol.
Which is why I figure, I don't know if the profession should disappear or not, but since it probably won't, like EVER, maybe it would be better to try and make it safer for those involved, and try to give them easier access to services of all kinds, like health insurance or ways to get out of it more easily, than to debate wether or not it should exist and speculate on wether a prostitute is happy or not.
For example, my older boss at the time was seeing a young escort 40 years his junior. I don't think I'd be able to, but he's been seeing her regularly for years, enough that he says he's MORE than a client to her now and is more or less the reason that at 20-something, she has a luxury condo and a sports car. He helped her during the pandemic, since with confinement her income dried up because of distancing measures, so she leaned on her "regulars" like him to support herself. While many prostitution stories are tragic, this one wasn't. I don't know what her perspective on it was, but from his, it helped heal an older man who got out of a very bitter and damaging divorce.
I don't think it's that absurd to argue that some do enjoy it, I just think you're very, very likely wrong when you do, just not necessarily always.

I wasn't really commenting on the pros and cons of legalized *** work and you're probably right on that. Just the plain ridiculous notion that young women are going to enjoy *** with older married/divorced clients, or men so unattractive and socially inept they can't get laid any other way. It's beyond delusional. Most are addicts who have had ****** childhoods.

 

[user 139760]

I wasn't really commenting on the pros and cons of legalized *** work and you're probably right on that. Just the plain ridiculous notion that young women are going enjoy *** with older married/divorced clients, or men so unattractive and socially inept they can't get laid any other way. It's beyond delusional. Most are addicts who have had ****** childhoods.

That's the thing lol. They MAY. There's just so much variety of people out there. Said older boss I was working for was 64, his girl was 21...he showed me a few pictures of them together (not those, thank GOD lol) and all I saw was a hapoy couple. It's not like he looked like Sean Connery, either. I was surprised when he told me she was a high class hooker, I thought it was his daughter lol
I agree with the later of your statement, it's almost always a negative thing, but sometimes there's positives. I mean, who's to say she's not in love with him and that, since I haven't spoken to him in a few years, who's to say they arent married by now? Life happens, sometimes in strange ways. If I was a hooker, being who I am, I'd view it like you do, most likely. But there's so many different people from me that it's hard to deal in absolutes, even if it is for just a few exceptions. And he was certainly saying there was no way he'd get laid beyond a hooker. Guess he just found the right one.

 

[Just Games]

You're just looking for a cheap comeback to make your perspective seem more moral. It's absurd to argue the women involved in this enjoy it.

No not cheap ,apologise for veering off topic ,just want to understand why you stated so freely that the over 50's are obese and unattractive in your eyes.Is that men as well as women?I regularly sit round my wife's friend's houses and go out for meals with alot of over 50's and they are lovely on the whole.Babies mate it's hard to shift the weight but it doesn't make them unattractive .What size is obese 14,16,20 stone just curious.

 

[JJW]

Hmm.
I see it as prostitution if you are a cam girl, egirl or whatever.

My dictionary defines prostitution simply as; Offering sexual intercourse for pay.

However the definition from a law website reads as; At its most basic definition, prostitution is the exchange of a sexual act for money.

Wikipedia under Prostitution Law defines it as; the commercial exchange of *** for money, goods, service, or some other benefit agreed upon by the transacting parties.

Merriam Webster defines it as; : the act or practice of engaging in promiscuous sexual relations especially for money. They define promiscuous as; having or involving many sexual partners : not restricted to one sexual partner or few sexual partners.

The Department of Justice defines it as; a sexual act or contact with another person in return for giving or receiving a fee or a thing of value.


Most definitions don't imply actual hands on so I'll submit, as per the DOJ definition, cam *** and other forms such as 900 calls could be prosecuted as prostitution. In fact, selling kissed at a county fair, if the kisser is dressed provocatively to entice could be prosecuted as prostitution.

You win.

 

[MissBehave]

My dictionary defines prostitution simply as; Offering sexual intercourse for pay.

However the definition from a law website reads as; At its most basic definition, prostitution is the exchange of a sexual act for money.

Wikipedia under Prostitution Law defines it as; the commercial exchange of *** for money, goods, service, or some other benefit agreed upon by the transacting parties.

Merriam Webster defines it as; : the act or practice of engaging in promiscuous sexual relations especially for money. They define promiscuous as; having or involving many sexual partners : not restricted to one sexual partner or few sexual partners.

The Department of Justice defines it as; a sexual act or contact with another person in return for giving or receiving a fee or a thing of value.


Most definitions don't imply actual hands on so I'll submit, as per the DOJ definition, cam *** and other forms such as 900 calls could be prosecuted as prostitution. In fact, selling kissed at a county fair, if the kisser is dressed provocatively to entice could be prosecuted as prostitution.

You win.

Yay!
I choose the biggest teddy you got.

 

[JJW]

Yay!
I choose the biggest teddy you got.

 

[TheRealCallie]

mine's bigger than yours

 

[JJW]

mine's bigger than yours

Maybe we shouldn't have this discusion in mixed company.

 

[cali-rain]

Any one ever heard of Sin. What does sin look like. One of its faces is prostitution.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Maybe we shouldn't have this discusion in mixed company.

Do you have teddy induced anxiety because mine's bigger?

 

[solonely20]

Do you have teddy induced anxiety because mine's bigger?

My cousin used to have this big one I think it was Scooby doo looked sick and felt comfy.

 

[JJW]

Any one ever heard of Sin. What does sin look like. One of its faces is prostitution.

That's a morality call. Your morality isn't my morality. Setting aside the ruthless traffickers, there is no victim in prostitution. Two people have an agreement and satisfy that agreement. Why is it any matter to anyone else?

 

[JJW]

Do you have teddy induced anxiety because mine's bigger?

You don't know what it's like to be forced to go through life with a tiny teddy.

 

[ardour]

No not cheap ,apologise for veering off topic ,just want to understand why you stated so freely that the over 50's are obese and unattractive in your eyes.Is that men as well as women?I regularly sit round my wife's friend's houses and go out for meals with alot of over 50's and they are lovely on the whole.Babies mate it's hard to shift the weight but it doesn't make them unattractive .What size is obese 14,16,20 stone just curious.

That applies to everyone. By the way where were you on your white horse when I mentioned men who are "unattractive and socially inept they can't get laid any other way"?