TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
So, Madonna is out then? lol
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Lol!!! Out since 1992!
CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
Hmm no still not what I mean but… if I say what I find scary about it it’ll be a whole new topic but it wouldn't interest a man anyway, its mainly just how my brain works. See I dont see sleeping with women for money, not caring about what the woman wants as you give her what she wants.
Lool I think you haven't got the bug callie the youtube university bug, its highly addictive.
Not sure what that means...
CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
No really.neverrrrr minddd
Educate me.
I genuinely did not understand what you meant.
Tell me.
TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
Because the topic of the thread is so profound and accurate?
I think I understand what you mean, but I'd like to hear as well.
I have given up as I have been taught too many times by women that I am unworthy and that they only have interest in men with better genetics than I possess.I dont find preferences scary I find men not caring about the women they likes feelings scary. However, I am a survivor of male violence so its not easy for me. Even my own brother makes comments about women that gives me chills.
I agree with you on most things, but I see it like … I think men can charm and change minds, they see it as this glitch in the game but sometimes personality can shine through that or money works wonders
I feel like the male experience is completely beyond my comprehension
You really think that? Do you dislike all the women you aren't attracted to?
I hope you are wrong and you find someone you can love
Of course you deny & refuse to accept the reality that I and so many other unattractive men have had. Your toxic positivity & Just World philosophies won't allow you to acknowledge how bad dating is for sub5 men. If it were only one or two of us in this situation you may have a point but there are many men for whom dating is impossible and for most of us it is only our low level of physical attractiveness which is the barrier. Since as the video I posted above showed that even well below average looking women get a huge amount of attention from men, the idea that unattractive men have such difficulty is outside of your own personal experience so you reject it.
CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
Travel for loveee it'll work
ardour
Well known loser
I dont find preferences scary I find men not caring about the women they likes feelings scary. However, I am a survivor of male violence so its not easy for me. Even my own brother makes comments about women that gives me chills.
I agree with you on most things, but I see it like … I think men can charm and change minds, they see it as this glitch in the game but sometimes personality can shine through that or money works wonders
I feel like the male experience is completely beyond my comprehension
You really think that? Do you dislike all the women you aren't attracted to?
I hope you are wrong and you find someone you can love
So men shouldn't desire women they're attracted to because those women might feel disgust if they knew their private thoughts? We should just "decide" to find someone who wants us attractive. (Assuming they exist and we could know this.)
Well, personality, I won't be apologizing for my private naughty thoughts, so, sorry, I'll be a monster.
CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
omg you guys wishhh I would say something as nonsensical as that…
its not about attraction…. Its about the unrequited sexual desire…This is what I find scary… that men can want to sleep with someone they know wants nothing to do with them.
@Unsigned didnt mean it the way my brain interprets it as he pays for his interactions, so those women do want something to do with him… his money. He is operating in an exchange that I find normal.
However, there are truly men out there that do not care, will slip something in your drink as what you want as a woman truly means nothing to them…and thats if they’re being “nice”. Even women in comas have been impregnated…
There you got it out of me, topics ruined
TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
And of course YOU deny and refuse to accept anything anyone else says regardless of just how many people tell you otherwise. You are more interested in making excuses and blaming anyone but yourself that you can't see you are no longer capable of seeing anything in actual reality. That's not "toxic positivity" that's just the truth. You are what you think you are. You've decided you are ugly and short. Now maybe you can't change your height, though there are ways to gain an inch or so in a subtle way that no one is going to say anything about. But no, you don't want those options because then you might have to give up that excuse. No one is as "ugly" as they think they are. You probably aren't ugly, but you've got it in your head, so that's what you are....to YOURSELF.
The way you talk about women shows how you really feel about them. Your beliefs of who and what you are is portrayed to the world. People can see that ****, whether you want to admit it or not.
Also, that video proves nothing. That women is actually quite pretty. I assume because she is overweight, that means she can't be attractive? WRONG, she is pretty and a lot of men are attracted to women that are bigger. That is a FACT. Just because YOU (or ardour, or unsigned or Richard, or Random or Apex) don't find a woman attractive doesn't mean she isn't attractive to a lot of other people.
ardour
Well known loser
You mean acted upon sexual desire? Otherwise they are the same. In that case we would probably fantasize that she did want us. That has nothing to do with sexual assault.omg you guys wishhh I would say something as nonsensical as that…
TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
No, those guys ARE out there and it makes a very tough world for women because we don't always know who those men are. Hell, we almost never know who those men are. But yeah, it must suck to be a little shorter than average. That's so much worse because we'll never understand....
TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
I think what she's saying is the guys that don't only just fantasize. The guys that make it happen whether the woman wants it or not. Rapists. How do we really know which guys are only jacking off to the thought and who is actually going to hold us down and actually do it.....
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CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
Yeah I cant explain it again, this is what I mean.
My point has nothing to do with fantasies you made it about that… but if you didnt care about what she wanted… why would you fantasise that she wanted you?
im lost there
ardour
Well known loser
I'd fantasize because I'm attracted. I care in my fantasy. Fantasy and reality are separate. Perhaps it's because you aren't attracted to men and prioritise the protector role.Yeah I cant explain it again, this is what I mean.
My point has nothing to do with fantasies you made it about that… but if you didnt care about what she wanted… why would you fantasise that she wanted you?
CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
This makes no sense Ardour I never mentioned fantasy and neither did unsigned, he just pays for what he wants … which to me is very different than not caring because… if he didnt care he wouldnt be paying he would be out spiking… what some guy is thinking in his head means nothing to me… but can hardly say you dont care about what a woman wants if the first thing you fantasise about is her wanting you… if you didnt care then why would it even cross your mind? It should be irrelevant, no?
