Satisfaction

[blue_azure]

A bf is what I always thought I wanted.
But really, what I want is a soulmate.
Someone who understands and protects me.
Someone who I can feel a connection with.
And nah, I don't think I'd find that person anytime soon.

Why not?

It's just a feeling.
I'm tired of being the protector all the time.
There are times where I too want to feel protected.
So while I have this image of me in people, I doubt my protector will come anytime soon.

 

[eh?]

It's just a feeling.
I'm tired of being the protector all the time.
There are times where I too want to feel protected.
So while I have this image of me in people, I doubt my protector will come anytime soon.

oh ok.
When you say "protector", what exactly do you mean?
Someone to protect you physically?
Protect you financially?
Protect you from someone in particular?

I am just curious. Feel free to ignore the questions if you want.

 

[blue_azure]

More like someone to make feel safe.
Safe from the world and just about anything in particular.
Even if it is for a while.

 

[IWTDIE]

What will satisfy you
Peace - no more trouble.
A job where I know I'm not just working because I have to, but because I want to.
Someone to love and share my love with because I can slowly feel it disappearing from me.
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What, do you think, can fix your loneliness problem?
Starting a fresh start somewhere away from here so I am no longer afraid
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Do you need more friends? girl/boyfriend? Family?
Yes I need a girlfriend
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Do you need more attention?
I don't want attention i'm not an attention seaker, I just want someone to CARE

 

[eh?]

I see.

Well, I hope you find that person.

 

[evanescencefan91]

suppose I need a boyfriend, after all, this is something pretty much everyone else my age have tried, and I have never been in any sort of a relationship. Actually, I need a boyfriend mostly in the "best friend" capacity (who would not want sex.. any time soon at least). Yeah, like that's gonna happen.

lol i know what you mean. i'm looking for the same thing, someone who will still be there after you put out. I don't know i've never had much of a need for sex. Maybe i'll grow up to be a nun

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[Silvernight]

suppose I need a boyfriend, after all, this is something pretty much everyone else my age have tried, and I have never been in any sort of a relationship. Actually, I need a boyfriend mostly in the "best friend" capacity (who would not want sex.. any time soon at least). Yeah, like that's gonna happen.

lol i know what you mean. i'm looking for the same thing, someone who will still be there after you put out. I don't know i've never had much of a need for sex. Maybe i'll grow up to be a nun

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Nice to know I'm not the only weirdo in that sense I sometimes think what would be if I met a person I liked and who liked me and then they'd want sex from me. Oh slag Yeah, I understand that it's a normal part of a regular relationship ... but dammit I don't want it.

 

[eh?]

I have lowered my expectations again.
I think I would be satisfied if I am just acknowledged by a somewhat attractive female.
Maybe respond to my polite "Hello!" or send a smile my way.
I am ready to give up now.

 

[Bodom]

What will satisfy you?
I ain't sure. A relationship may fix things, but probably wouldn't. I don't have much experience in that area, but I know people that have been burnt pretty bad by relationships, so I don't know. I kinda think that what I'm looking for is more a really good friend a gf atm, as I'm nowhere near being ready for any kind of relationship. My mind screws with me on a daily basis, so more emotional ups and downs would just make things worse, methinks.

What, do you think, can fix your loneliness problem?
I don't know if anything really can, it seems to be me more than anything. I perpetually find my self feeling alone in crowded rooms, spend my nights alone, and seemingly from choice. I'm sure if my appearance was more conventional, people would approach me more often, but I like being different from everyone else.

Do you need more friends? girl/boyfriend? Family?
I'd never say no to more friends, of the right kind. Like almost everyone else here, I can find the odd person who likes me a bit, and will chat, but tbh I'd rather have one really, really good friend, who I can tell everything to, who understands, and sympathises, who can support me and vice versa. I have one fairly good friend, but that's really it, other than that it's the odd 'acquaintance' here and there. I wouldn't say no to a girlfriend, but I also think that a relationship could complicate things. Also, I'm really bad at opening up to people- very few people know how I really feel, I just pull down a shell and hide everything. This place is a bit different, because there's a certain layer of anonymity, and I know that everyone here has similar feelings.
My family are OK, they love me in their own way, but there's always been a certain distance between me and my parents, I can't tell them much about myself, I feel I have to put on a face whenever I'm in front of them.

Do you need more attention?
Not sure. I get a few odd looks cos of my appearance (I have crazy hair and a number of piercings), but I tend to just ignore it. I'm kinda shy, always have been, so being the centre of attention has always made me feel pretty darn uncomfortable. It's not as bad as it used to be, but I still find it kinda awkward to make eye contact, or look at people when I'm talking to them.

Wow, that was quite a random meander through my thoughts, didn't expect it to be quite that long... it may be a little confused, I wrote it in kind of a wierd order...

 

[Lonesome Crow]

What will satisfy you?
I ain't sure. A relationship may fix things, but probably wouldn't. I don't have much experience in that area, but I know people that have been burnt pretty bad by relationships, so I don't know. I kinda think that what I'm looking for is more a really good friend a gf atm, as I'm nowhere near being ready for any kind of relationship. My mind screws with me on a daily basis, so more emotional ups and downs would just make things worse, methinks.

What, do you think, can fix your loneliness problem?
I don't know if anything really can, it seems to be me more than anything. I perpetually find my self feeling alone in crowded rooms, spend my nights alone, and seemingly from choice. I'm sure if my appearance was more conventional, people would approach me more often, but I like being different from everyone else.

Do you need more friends? girl/boyfriend? Family?
I'd never say no to more friends, of the right kind. Like almost everyone else here, I can find the odd person who likes me a bit, and will chat, but tbh I'd rather have one really, really good friend, who I can tell everything to, who understands, and sympathises, who can support me and vice versa. I have one fairly good friend, but that's really it, other than that it's the odd 'acquaintance' here and there. I wouldn't say no to a girlfriend, but I also think that a relationship could complicate things. Also, I'm really bad at opening up to people- very few people know how I really feel, I just pull down a shell and hide everything. This place is a bit different, because there's a certain layer of anonymity, and I know that everyone here has similar feelings.
My family are OK, they love me in their own way, but there's always been a certain distance between me and my parents, I can't tell them much about myself, I feel I have to put on a face whenever I'm in front of them.

Do you need more attention?
Not sure. I get a few odd looks cos of my appearance (I have crazy hair and a number of piercings), but I tend to just ignore it. I'm kinda shy, always have been, so being the centre of attention has always made me feel pretty darn uncomfortable. It's not as bad as it used to be, but I still find it kinda awkward to make eye contact, or look at people when I'm talking to them.

Wow, that was quite a random meander through my thoughts, didn't expect it to be quite that long... it may be a little confused, I wrote it in kind of a wierd order...

It didn't confused me one bit...
Probably becuase I can relate. Differnent circumstance but over all
I can relate. I get crazy looks and I don't even have crazy hair or piercings.lol

I'm not sure anymore...I've been burnt bad in romatics relationships
and sometimes by friends.

Nothing fazes me anymore. I isolated myself ..so living in isolating
and feeling lonely and along became comfortible for me.
As sick as it was ...it was comfortible. Evedently I wasn't
asking or wanting attention.

Satisfactions...????
I don't even know how to handle or answer that anymore.
At one point in my life, I thought I could answer that..and I was sure of it. Today...I don't know what that is anymore.
I know want I wanted and what I needed...

I don't get my wants or my needs....I try to accept that.
Though it ease my pains...that's not the same as satisfactions.

 

[Alive42]

Hello.

I assume you all are at this site because you are lonely for one reason or another. My question is:

What will satisfy you?
What, do you think, can fix your loneliness problem?
Do you need more friends? girl/boyfriend? Family?
Do you need more attention?

Ya, thats why i'm here, but I am also looking for answers to your exact questions. It's a open space in me that I believe needs to be filled with a soul mate - I do not mean a partner, but I don't know what i mean. Then I think i am trying to find a mother (she was not a good one) i never had, but no one can fill a void like that - so i just don't know.